| Tell me Guys..do you really think this will get you a YES?
Posted: 7/17/2005 9:41:48 PM | Ok here is my first thread and i'm sure most of you are ready to blast me so blast away.
But here is a normal example of email from younger guys....and they ask how to get an older women to take them serious????
1st email "Im **** im 35 wanna chat on the phone?"
Answer "well i don't chat on the phone until i know someone better...sorry"
2nd exchange "hi thanks for writing me back, you so sweet, sexy too i undserstand if you want to get to know me, would love to talk to you, hear your sweet sexy voice."
Answer " well thanks..but email is also a good way to get to know someone and it's better than phone until you know someone... i think most of us have given out #'s and learned a lesson from it so guess it's just a part of live and learn over time--"
3rd and final email ( so far) " hi again, i do understand how you feel, youre smart, but
im just a nice sweet guy, that likes older sexy women. im just kinda horny now, would love to be JUST phone friends with you??" then he adds his name and number
WTF do you think the response is going to be? Can you not see it coming???
My final response and more than he deserved i might add "well darlin i'm not looking to be anyone's quick fix for thorniness, phone sex or anything else to that effect...as for older women when most guys say that they seem to think that older women are easy and will do anything for attention....sorry to burst your bubble but i don't need or have to do that..LOL..go rent a movie or call 1-800-****off ***hole" "
Now guys do you see why women don't answer your email a lot of the time? | |
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| Tell me Guys..do you really think this will get you a YES?
Posted: 7/17/2005 10:05:46 PM | hmmm. I don't see why you would get blasted.
Do/did you get alot of those types of emails? I wouldn't doubt it. People can be pigs sometimes, but it looks from your profile like you found someone worth taking a chance for who wasn't a pig.
Unfortunately, a great site like this can attract the worst kinds of pigs because they can be relatively anonymous while casting their lines hoping for a bite.
I'm actually enjoying the benefit of being a guy and not having to worry about that kind of thing...the crude emails I mean. I thought having to deal with rejection was bad, but having to put up with what the women here have to put up with sometimes has to be unbearable. Kudos to those women who stick around here despite all that.
I have met a wonderful person on here and we also are seeing where that leads. She had to put up with some whackos contacting her as well.
Good luck and I hope you find lots of real friends here and elsewhere. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2005 10:18:59 PM | well gramps and Omar Serenity, to be honest i get a lot of them and i don't get it ...that's why i started adding the not interested part but they still seem to think they have an open chance i guess....i try to delete them but sometimes my smartazzz just has to anwer...
Good luck Omar S | |
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| Tell me Guys..do you really think this will get you a YES?
Posted: 7/17/2005 10:24:20 PM | I get loads of messages like that. I also get oodles of other boorish messages, men e-mailing me photos of their genitals or even photos of them having sex with other women! It's insulting, disgusting, and pathetic, and frustrating because they waste my time when I could be talking to the hard-to-find decent guys on the site.
Sometimes when I tell them "I'm not a whore, my profile clearly states that I WILL NOT have casual sex and I am looking for a long-term relationship", they respond with "Oh, yeah, all women say that, but they really want the**** or something similar. These guys simply do not understand that NO means NO!
Please, nice guys, e-mail more women! E-mail us profusely! We need the good ones to keep us from thinking that there are only perverts and losers out there.
I have managed to turn the gross messages into entertainment. When I get a particularly creative or persistent moron, I blatantly make fun of him and see how long he'll take my heckling before he gives up. Then I block him, copy the conversation text into my weblog, and my friends laugh like loons. They love reading this stuff.
For example, this weekend I had a guy start bragging to me about his fancy, expensive new computer. He bragged that it't fast, "a 250 gb". He made it very obvious that he knew absolutely nothing about computers, and when he told me the price he paid I laughed at him and told him he got ripped off. I then told him my sister bought a slightly faster computer than his last year, for half the price. He wasn't upset about the price he paid, only about the 0.4 ghz difference in speed. He was obsessed with it.
He then went on to brag that he had downloaded 12 gb of porn, and was downloading as much as he could while his one month of "membership access" was still valid. I asked, "WTF do you do with that much porn?" His response was "Watch it DUH"
The conversation was quite long, but my friends found it as hilarious as I did when they read the transcript. Maybe at some point I'll set up a weblog exclusively for such transcripts, as opposed to just including them in my general life blog. I could see the exclusive blog becoming a viral thing. Sometimes people ask me if I make these conversations up. Honestly, I couldn't do that good of a job making it up myself. It takes a special brand of stupid to be featured in my blog entries! LOL | |
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| Tell me Guys..do you really think this will get you a YES?
Posted: 7/17/2005 10:33:43 PM | | You're right armedwithjello---they do get worse and like you said we could start our own porno site with the pics that most of us get...hey maybe we should do that and charge $1.00 to see the "what was he thinking" idiot of the day pic--what do you think girls? | |
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Posted: 7/18/2005 2:32:51 AM | This must be really rare, but I've never gotten any messages like that! Everyone who's messaged me here has been polite and seemed interested in what I had to say. I can't say that I feel bad about being left out of this one though.  | |
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Posted: 7/18/2005 2:05:33 PM | | Yupp happens all the time and the reason is something to do with age. The two younger girls on here just posted they never get them. These young horny guys must think when you hit a certain age you are desperate or easy. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2005 2:07:10 PM | Hate to say it, but it seems like those jerks outnumber the rest of us men who are actually members of the human race!! Or maybe they're just more active. Sounds like us normal dudes need to step up the pace with the nicer emails!
Oh, and I wouldn't even bother responding to those idiots. I think fox has the right idea... | |
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Posted: 7/18/2005 2:21:07 PM | | ANY kind of a response is encouraging them to continue. You may think you're telling them off, or having a good laugh - but they are having the last laugh. And if they knew you were sharing the emails with your friends - it would NEVER stop... | |
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| Tell me Guys..do you really think this will get you a YES?
Posted: 7/18/2005 2:36:26 PM | | I've never sent an email like that to any woman of any age.That would be lame,and disrespectful.Another thing,any woman that was "interested" in responding to that I wouldn't want anything to do with anyway. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2005 4:56:36 PM | Anyone heard of the Rejection Hotline...omg, so funny! There aren't any #'s in canada, but there are a bunch in the states...(different states have different #'s so I'm sure if you search for them you can find a local one. For those of you with cheap or free long distance, give these a listen...always a good laugh!
The Nicer, Kinder, More Subtle and Gentle Rejection Hotline
781-382-3478
Boston -the most used one
617-861-3962
Remember, It Could Always Suck More
781-382-3756 | |
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Posted: 7/18/2005 5:04:34 PM |
You're right armedwithjello---they do get worse and like you said we could start our own porno site with the pics that most of us get...hey maybe we should do that and charge $1.00 to see the "what was he thinking" idiot of the day pic--what do you think girls?
And a 10$ idiot tax! | |
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