| | let's all get realPage 1 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | I have been reading these forums and it seems to me that most of the women ( with exceptions) will act like they will do anything, any time, any where just to please their man. What I want to know is why are they single , and when did they turn over this new " it's all about you baby " attitude?
Just answer the questions honestly and stop trying to promote yourself. So let's see, you wake your man up in the morning with a BJ, you squirt, you never say " not tonight" , you encourage public sex, there's nothing you wont try, their vg is so tight that you couldn't pull a finger out, you smell like a rose even after a long day because first thing you did when you walked in the door after work was freshen up just in case honey wanted honey, you'll stay on your knees for at least a hour, and you can be found exercising ( kegels ) dailey ! Get real, I would love to ask some of your ex husbands if this is how they remembered it!
Me, I love sex but sometimes I am to tired, sometimes I want the favor returned, I'm not having sex in the front yard, you can't just stick it anywhere you want, and as I age what use to go north is trying to head south! I am a real women with real feelings , not a " let me tell you what I think you wanna hear" barbie doll ( and I doubt the pics look like you in the morning also ).
Sometimes I think you all make regualar guys think they really been missing out, wont you just tell the truth and be normal? That's how these forums can help , true questions, true answers! | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 2:04:08 AM | | I don't quite remember reading the same thing, there are lots of women who have problems.. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 3:50:58 AM | I know when 2 people connect the right way anything is possible from waking him up with a BJ in the middle of the night and having sex in the front yard or a parking garage.Its all about the right chemistry.
Sometimes I think you all make regualar guys think they really been missing out, wont you just tell the truth and be normal?
what do you consider a regular guy ?? From my experience everybody is looking for the same thing,tons of chemistry and some excitement in the dull ,boring working life. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 4:36:42 AM | well i hope your rant made you feel better.
beyond the rant value tho, these kinds of statements always make me laugh. and what else would you like the world to do while you're asking? please, planet earth awaits your next command. stop global warming? done! end racism? done! rainbows and unicorns in your front yard? done! | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 5:08:03 AM | | Well I haven't done the front yard one...are we talking daylight or at night? | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 5:13:55 AM | While you're ranting, can ya do me a favor? Correct your headline on your profile...it says hard loving womEn...and if you're just one, shouldn't say womAn???
And honestly, I think you're being silly. I don't see anywhere where women are bragging about being everything for every man every time. If the sex forum is the only forum you read...well sister you need to go check the other ones out. There was a woman who started a thread about a man DARING to hold her hand...ON THE FIRST DATE!!!
Chill the hell out, fix your profile headline and put a picture up. And work on your profile...you can't possibly expect to find a date being so negative. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 5:24:41 AM | Yeah, kinda makes you gag, doesn't it? And not in a good way.
It's not just the sex forums and it's not just women and it's not just POF.
It's the lack of capacity to take any problem seriously, that's not our own problem.
The difference between what you describe and what ASmartFunnyFashionLady described is = the difference between how people really act when they get in a relationship (start the picking) and how they imagine they'd like to act in the next relationship (always be pleased by everything) | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 5:44:23 AM | Seems to me, I recently read a rant post about men on the forum, and sex, and women...in it there was finger pointing....but it was written by a man.
Whats wrong, you didn't get the answers you wanted...ROTF.
Either way it seems to me...yes, there are women here who enjoy sex, and are candid about it, but from what I read, they like getting back what they give....and they even enjoy the things they talk about.
So, in this...I think if a person enjoys sex, and enjoys what they do in sex, and gets back what they give out....they are happy.
Otherwise they are not and it shows...perhaps enough to post about it and be jealous of others for what they have.
Just a thought. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 5:55:19 AM | Sometimes I think you all make regular
guys think they have really been missing out
Or is it that you feel as though you aren't
doing enough to keep a regular guy statisfied?
won't you just tell the truth and be normal?
That's how these forums can help
true questions, true answers!
OK then,
How about this for being real?
I am into 'Vanilla' sex.
No kinks or proclivities to speak of.
I don't squirt,never have.
I don't like sex while on my period.
If I am tired,the last thing I want is sex.
I don't role play,seems a little fake to me.
I never put on lingiere as it just get's tossed off or ruined.
I only take it up the a$$ if I am in the mood,which is maybe once a month.
I will blow my guy for as long as my lips don't swell up and if it goes too long,
I roll over and let him finish off inside of me.And I will swallow,but if it taste
like crap,I don't have any problem spitting it out in the sink.
I rarely get on top,I'm too lazy,but then again so is he.
If your ego wounds easily,don't try to get me off,cuz I'm hard to please.
My guys isn't "hung" and I am far from in need of a big c*ck to get me off.
I stick to having sex in my bed,as it's most comfortable.
I use my own hand to come most of the time and don't mind.
I don't do threesome's or have Bi-Sex.Those days' are long gone.
I only have sex with one guy at a time and if I know I am loved.
No casual sex.No FWB.No FB here.
Is that better? | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 5:56:15 AM | | OP...geez, who peed in your cheerios? People here are single, because chit happens. That doesn't mean we don't WANT to do our best and BE our best. Most of us put up our good pictures, that is true. I guess we could include at least one photo of first thing in the morning. Some of us look even cuter in our jammies and sans make up. Yes, that really is true.And we want a man who can handle it...or are we too bootylicious for ya? | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 6:21:56 AM | To an extent, I agree with the OP. But I think alot of the women that post in the sex forums are more open about their sexuality and therefore, are more open to going that extra yard sexually - and they have no problem sharing that information in the forums. But for every woman with this mindset, there are thousands that aren't posting here and don't have that mindset. You're just reading the posts from the women who have no problem sharing here in this forum.
Personally, I have absolutely NO desire to share intimate information about myself on this forum because I think alot of men just use it for spank material and/or the chance to act like a hormonal, pimple-faced teenager, getting their jollies typing dirty things and getting positive responses from the women. Not interested.
The couple of times I have participated, it always resulted in some mouth-breather writing to me privately and trying to engage me sexually. Puke. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 6:43:19 AM |
I have been reading these forums
Oh, goodness! you haven't been believing everything you read, have you?
This is for you: NaCl NaCl NaCl
I am a real women with real feelings
However you feel, whatever you are comfortable doing, it's valid. Don't make life hard for yourself by expecting yourself to live up to some imagined standard of Internet Sex Goddess Super Woman. She's just a composite of raunchy anecdotes, contrasted against projected insecurities, and doesn't really exist. There is plenty that is not being said. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 8:17:06 AM | There are women like this no doubt. Hell the last woman I dated was like this and she wasn't the first I met like that. Absolutely anything I wanted, no questions asked..
Why am I not with her now? Something strange happens in that type of relationship for me with the balance of power getting messed up. Become a bulldozer in the relationship and don't like how that feels.
You are probably getting a skewed perspective from a "sex forum" too by the type of people that are going to respond. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 8:30:01 AM | I don't what area of the forums you've been reading, but the majority of the women's posts I read are very real. I have no idea where you're getting this stuff about women. Perhaps you're reading in a very young age group? I know of no women personally, and I can think of none who have posted, who subscribe to this behavior.
I would think real would be posting suggestions of solutions rather than simply going off about it. Why don't you simply share want you would like to see in your own regard and make some positive suggestions- and perhaps ask for other solid suggestions based on that? Use your words! | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 8:32:54 AM | There is something the OP overlooked in the "study" of these other women. The element missing, is the DYNAMIC ONE.
In particular, I'm speaking JUST about the people who do wax poetic and near lyrical about how wonderful, giving, sexy, open to everything, and yada yada they are. They quite often are being completely honest. What the OP overlooked in the rant, is that these women WILL be EXACTLY this way, WHEN THEY FIND THE PERFECT GUY TO DO IT WITH.
This is actually quite similar to what many "nice" people overlook when they complain that "xxx says they want a NICE mate, but then they turn ME down and go after not-so-nice people." What those seeking "nice" (or any other particular adjective ) people often fail to explain, is that they are looking for a "NICE" replica of Brad Pitt, or Angelina Jolie. IN the mean time, they will go after the not-so-nice, NEAR replicas of the OTHER traits they desire, hence the APPARENT (but not ACTUAL) hypocrisy. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 9:08:14 AM | | I don't know why everyone's hating, but i think i know what the OP may be talking about. Anyone ever noticed the site is full of "down to earth" people who love to travel the world, are family oriented, and smart? It's impossible for everyone to meet those criteria in this place, where did everyone else go? Where did the " I nag the shit out of my boyfriends" go? Despite that, i will agree that we are here to sell ourselves in the best light OP, no one is going to say "I have a nasty habit of gambling all my money away". | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 9:20:13 AM | Wow----
Can I say WOW again?? LOL
Anyway, I'm one of those women, and you could ask my ex...he's a POF member here...just how WOW I can be....and outspoken in and out of the bedroom. I still got a lot of WOW left in me...and I have no real sexual hang-ups.....that being said....much like closer said...I do have some truths.....which are:
1. Swallowing a load for me is like the difference between like and love ( flavor is an issue too...amen Closer! Though she's kinder than I....I won't spit it in the sink...lol)
2. Iffen I'm tired...I rather go to bed and sleep....sex will happen when we are both ready to for it.
3. I have no desire to have sex whilst on the rag....so don't ask if I want to get my red wings...got em and clipped them humpteen yrs ago. ( yes, that is a pun)
4. I do have a tight box...though I've never had anyone have to call 911 to have either their member, finger or a toy removed...be kinda funny though.
5. I am everything I can be with the right person....and I know it...he just happens to be the lucky person to experience it. I'm not BETTER than anyone else....but I am unique.
6. I'm beyond vanilla....and there are some things I will always do cuz I like it...but that really is between him and I...or the party of five waiting in the hotel room. (yeah, I roll like that).
7. If I love someone...and I mean truly love someone there will be no other ....unless of course we decide that are sex life sucks and we need to spice that shyt up....but I prefer one on one ...I'm getting too old to count beyond that number. ( yeah, I'm sarcastic too...guess that makes me a bytch.)
I know some men and women whose truth might not seem REAL or HONEST...but it is. Just because we all have different likes and needs doesn't mean we aren't being real----yeah, I'm sure some folks embellish the facts to get some action...but then the real truth comes out when both parties ( or more ) are naked. I am a pretty transparent person, and I won't nor do I feel the need to defend myself for being an open book...some folks get to see more...others don't.
Yes, some people are liars....but I don't think the majority of people are....and while a few bad apples might sour the pie...just pour some sugah on it and bon appetite. The truth never really seems palatable....so perhaps thinking it's all lies to dupe the other gender makes ya sleep better at night...too each their own. I say start with the image you see in the mirror each morning...I say good morning you sexy bytch...almost EVERY day.  | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 9:41:44 AM |
I have been reading these forums and it seems to me that most of the women ( with exceptions) will act like they will do anything, any time, any where just to please their man.
It's the car saleswoman tactic
If you're trying to sell yourself, you have to lie when asked certain questions otherwise the sale / hustle wont happen.
cmon where have YOU been?
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Posted: 10/9/2010 10:02:12 AM | Mistah Dynomite...
Haven't you heard about the LEMON laws...that's why there are so many sour pusses around. Lie they may try..but a lemon is a lemon like an orange is an orange....they might both be a piece of fruit...even if ya color blind you will figure out they are not the same once you bite into em.
I say buyer beware....lol. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 12:24:46 PM | I think much of the time they are conveying what they want to be or want to experience and sometimes how they really are...IF they are feeling a certain way. How do you see yoursef? Your post really isn't about others but really about you. It's cool I don't mind and see it for what it is.
What do you want for yourself? Do you want vanilla sex all your life? Don't want a man to just get hold of you and use the crap out of you and leave you spent? Your buisness. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 1:20:33 PM | Those perfect sex doll women are just as realistic as the guys who insist they can make every woman cum (multiple times!) and of course no women have ever faked it on them.
BTW- since when did being a squirter become a good thing? | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 2:07:25 PM |
BTW- since when did being a squirter become a good thing?
lol I do remember a woman who choked me with full stream once. True story. I didn't think much of it in that moment. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 2:46:04 PM |
If you're trying to sell yourself, you have to lie when asked certain questions otherwise the sale / hustle wont happen.
cmon where have YOU been?
Tellin' the truth, even if it's 'ugly' ,and lookin' for a man who can handle it and do the same.....Thankfully,I found one.
It ALL comes out in the wash anyways...so why lie?
And Magical Mary......I liked how you worded your "truths".
You have a way with words!
Oh.....and car salesman.....suck. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 4:08:50 PM | OP: Does it really matter what women (or men for that matter) claim they will do or not? Whether it is done intentionally (to promote) or not is not an issue IMO. This is a dating site, so why not allow those folks to "promote" themselves? ahaha
What's "normal" for you is not for the masses. BJs in the a.m., tight ginas, too tired, public sex, kegels is the norm for many..................Me thinks you either haven't gotten any in a while or you're just hatin' cause this isn't your "norm"................... 
Checkmate!!! ahahahaaaaaaaaaaa | |
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Posted: 10/9/2010 4:23:20 PM | OK, what do you want to know?
- Once or twice a week is good enough. This sex machine needs time to recharge.
- I cannot find the buttons on 10 to 15% of the women I was with, but if I find them, they come regularly. And more importantly, they come back.
- I have red towels for certain kinds of sex.
- I have brown towels for others.
- Being a squirter and 'woman on top' don't mix. Drowning is not my kink.
- I take what I want and do what I want with respect to sex. They love it.
- Foreplay is overrated.
- So is lubricant.
- High availability is a turn-on.
- So is a receiving position.
Why am I single? The farking butterflies in my stomach died from the acid. I don't seem to fall in love easily anymore. | |
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