| | sex noises and talkingPage 1 of 5 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5) | do you guys make noises/talk during sex?? ie...oh baby...oh my gosh...that's it right there...that's my spot?
do you like it when someone makes good noises/talks?
have you ever found someone's noises/talking to be annoying ? to the point of being turned off?
do you make noises/talk to add flavor to turn your partner on?
or are you a fairly silent lover? | |
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Posted: 10/16/2010 10:04:14 PM | | The noises I make are usually not words. It depends on what the woman says. I dont mind some chatter but if it is stuff like "Did you cum yet" or "not so deep!" or "you're better than my ex!" - that kind of talk turns me off.. | |
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Posted: 10/16/2010 10:07:49 PM | lol...too funny redlance...no I am not talking about "chatting"
but stuff like "oh baby that feels sooooo good..." i wannnttt you"
etc.
etc
"did you cum yet"
and
"not so deep"
are probably the 2 biggest turnoffs for me.
those 2 lines are up there with B.O. | |
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Posted: 10/16/2010 10:46:35 PM | | I enjoy hearing a man making moaning sounds and the short little words he's able to let out while being sexually pleasured. It makes me wanna respond in more ways than one! | |
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Posted: 10/16/2010 11:28:47 PM | | I love to give and recieve verbal feedback. Moaning, gasping and and "oh Baby"s are wonderful. Love it. But I'm not a screamer. To me, screaming is melodrama. Keep it real. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 1:06:49 AM | 1. Depends on the partner, location and such.
2. "Good" being subjective. The noises and talking that I enjoy, yes.
3. Yes and yes. There once was a Frenchman that kept saying, "Qui!" Over and over and over. Very intensely and very loudly. I really couldn't stop giggling and it totally killed the sexy factor. Whee, Whee, Wheeeeeee!!
4. Again, depends on the partner. If he likes it, if it will get him off quicker because I'm bored with it or if he is just so very, very good that I just can't help myself. Depends.
5. Depends on partner, location and such. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 1:20:28 AM | I just love it when my man moans and groans, lets me know I am pleasing him so, and it makes me want to please him even more so. I also love it when he does talk to me when I am giving oral, i.e. "get it baby" , or "oh yeah, thats it, oh yea" followed with moans. Arouses me so much. When he moans and talks, lets me know the pleasure is so intense and that he is on the verge of exploding..
Thanks for the topic, now I have to give him a call, and invite him over.. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 2:01:48 AM | Personally, I think noises/talking is critical to good sex. How do you know if you've hit a good spot, a bad spot, or something totally benign? I WANT her to tell me when I'm wherever it is she wants me to be doing whatever it is she wants me doing.  Think about it... you're setting around talking later and she says, "Wow, you almost had me there for a moment; then you changed up and I lost it." and you don't even know WHEN that moment was!
Turn offs? If it's just "porno talk" and she really isn't feeling what she's saying; or if it's a continuous chatter... both are a buzz kill.  Otherwise, give me those little moans, and tell me what you like...  | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 4:09:53 AM | the normal sounds that unconsciously escape during arousal (unless necrophilia is involved, then those noises are most likely escaping gases) are a turn-on and a good indicator that you both must be doing something right, and "instructional" directives that don't rival a talking gps can have their rewards.
but if I'm being asked "oh baby, do you like that, yuh? do you like it like that? is daddy (figuratively--NOT literally) giving you what you want? yeah baby, give it to me baby!!!! I wanna make you cum like no other man!! I AM DA MAN!!! OH BABY!!!!!!" for the entire encounter, then it's hard for me to concentrate on the image that it's Jon Hamm holding up my ankles around his ears.
just sayin'............ | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 4:18:22 AM | I go along with what most are saying....I doubt anyone wants a silent lover. But moans and groans are acedemic in a way...I like what the one responder said about her lover saying actual words....: get it baby , make it feel good, etc.
But if with the right person, I might like to take it a step farther by bringing in erotic words and phrases, actually both expressing fantasies, and maybe playing them out in words and/or even small actions. There are those dark corners of the mind, even with things you might not in reality do, but tap into them and it can trigger the mind and body into another plane.
Some may not want to go there, because to them its leaving the idea of it being lovemaking, but what is closer than sharing your deepest thoughts and being at ease enough with someone to go there.
Turn off's would be anything fake, or over done..copying porn sounds, or someone who cannot at all express themselves vocally in any way. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 7:11:24 AM | Everyone's different. I'm a very focused person in general, and the same is true in sexual situations. I tend to be silent and VERY focused. What my partner does, noise-wise or talk-wise hasn't been especially important, though having them RESPOND somehow is VERY important.
Yes, I have been turned off by someone's talk/sounds, in cases where it was obvious to me that they were doing it as a THING TO DO DURING SEX, and not spontaneously. It's downright embarrassing when someone thinks they have to perform like a hired actor of some kind. Someone who is entirely unresponsive is just as bad. Silence is fine, as long as it's obvious that they are doing everything they do out of pleasure. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 8:06:33 AM | Oh baby, yes, yes ....YESSSSSSSSSS!
do a thread search next time. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 8:15:54 AM |
have you ever found someone's noises/talking to be annoying ? to the point of being turned off?
As far as being turned off, thats only ever happened once to me. she was moaning out random words and incoherant sentences during sex which creeped me out and i thought i short circuted her brain or something... i really thought she was going to do something as random as reach under the bed and pull out a pen and shank me with it or something.
Sex talk is ok as long as you make sense. Don't yell out "milk cartons!" unless you're propped up against some.
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Posted: 10/17/2010 8:19:57 AM | | As long as your talking doesn't interfere with my fantasy during sex, talk away. And don't ask me questions, I don't want to have a conversation. And for the love of God, DON'T cry. I'll stop and leave. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 8:34:20 AM | I'm trying to figure out how "not so deep" is a turn off ???
Would you rather your woman be uncomfortable and keep her mouth shut so
as not to ruin your moment??
Sometimes "deep" is uncomfortable dammit!!
But yes, I enjoy dirty little words of encouragment back and forth between
each other. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 8:42:43 AM |
And for the love of God, DON'T cry. I'll stop and leave.
 you made a man cry??? MEOW...
i believe that being vocally appreciative is nice for both, but i am sure that the neighbors didnt like it one bit (cool fall morning, windows open, girl with lung power)...
-chip | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 8:50:22 AM | | lol actually not like that. I do talk and use it to bring her to orgasm. You have to guage it. Sounds are always nice as well and important. She needs to know that she makes you feel good. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 10:18:23 AM | I don't mind talking, if it's good, moaning is great, but I was once with somebody who did the "insults" thing. It just made me feel that why should I allow him to find pleasure in me, when he was being mean to me... It didn't last long.
As far as being turned off, thats only ever happened once to me. she was moaning out random words and incoherant sentences during sex which creeped me out and i thought i short circuted her brain or something...
This is mega  | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 10:53:39 AM | "Sex talk is ok as long as you make sense. Don't yell out "milk cartons!" unless you're propped up against some."
love it!! | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 12:15:40 PM | | My partners or I never did much talking during sex. Too busy tongue wrestling at the same time. When there is intercourse going on at both ends....the orgasms are really explosive and frequent....just be careful, the convulsions could get your tongue bit or sucked out of your mouth. There is plenty of time to run your mouth afterward. Action speaks louder than words! | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 2:11:54 PM | | ^^^This is why I don't like kissing during sex. Possible injury. lol | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 2:16:58 PM |
As long as your talking doesn't interfere with my fantasy during sex Crying shame that you can't share your fantasy WITH your lover; so his talking could actually AUGMENT your fantasy instead of interfering with it. If he's doing one thing, and you're fantasizing another, you're both having sex, but neither of you are there... very sad. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 2:31:39 PM |
Crying shame that you can't share your fantasy WITH your lover
Even if he's not in it?
so his talking could actually AUGMENT your fantasy instead of interfering with it.
I don't see him being able to go along with being a different guy than he is, or being able to keep up with what plays out in my head that neither of us is part of. Technically I'm not into talking period, but I'll deal with it so long as it's not pulling me from a zone.
If he's doing one thing, and you're fantasizing another, you're both having sex, but neither of you are there... very sad.
When it comes to my satisfaction, I do what I have to do to get there. That's separate and apart from the sex I am having with the person in the room. Not sad at all, both of us live through it just fine. : ) | |
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Posted: 10/17/2010 2:45:22 PM |  I've been known to be rather vocal at times. I think it's great if both men and woman communicate during sex. Ofcourse I would not expect a lengthy conversation, but periodic feedback is good. I like to actually hear a woman tell me how she feels or let me know if she want's it from behind or something like that. I think it's a little lame if someone is always silent with words during sex, leaving much up to one's imagination. Now lets go have sex!
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Posted: 10/17/2010 3:29:28 PM | I would be annoyed if the person I was having sex with didn't make sounds. I don't want to feel like I am making love to a dead person nor do I want to feel the need to hit him on his head or something to at least get one simple grunt out of him (I don’t approve of violence, just sayin').
To me the way a man breathes is also a turn on. Like the soft gentle breathing sounds that get more intense until he can't hold back a moan.  | |
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