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 FreshOrFree
Joined: 7/27/2009
Msg: 1
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My boyfriend wants to watch me pee. He thinks it is sexy. Not on him or anything, just on the toilet (or bathtub).

I am very disturbed by that, since I find it to be strange and not sexually appealing.
Should I do this just to please him? and is this common? He really wants to watch me and I do love him.
 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 2
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Posted: 11/23/2010 8:31:44 PM
Common? Yes, everyone I know has to pee some time or another.

Watching pee? Yes, guys watch their pee every day. If you don't watch, you pee on your shoe or your pants.

Watching a girl pee? Yes, every guy is curious how the other half lives. Once is no biggie. If you wants to watch you do it every day - - that's a fetish and that's UNCOMMON.

Take it slowly - join him in the showed and just let it out. He will complain that he didn't "see", but so what. You need to be comfortable. There will always be opportunities later. If you don't feel embarrassed by the first incident, maybe you can showcase for him later.

Above all, don't do anything that makes you feel UNCOMFORTABLE, and don't make any PROMISES about this subject.
 UglyFroggieCritter
Joined: 8/21/2010
Msg: 3
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Posted: 11/23/2010 9:00:28 PM
Does he think that this will help save your relationship?

If you are very disturbed by his request, then you have a very simple answer: Oh hell no.

Easy peasy.

Good luck in finding something to keep your relationship working....
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 11/23/2010 9:33:10 PM
Well since the OP has another thread having the POF crowd vote on whether
her and her boyfriend stay together......
one has to wonder if the BF has put this out there to test her!?!
Since the OP has a penchant for dramatics......maybe the BF is giving her
a taste of her own medicine......Pee for me or I move on!!
He wants to see me pee...
Posted: 11/23/2010 9:49:07 PM
Well, firstly post your thread under your name, and let him have his own userid.

This is getting too freaky.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/23/2010 9:50:28 PM
I think you have an identity crisis and can't remember which profile you are posting under!!

Pee for him........pee on him.....
what the hell do we care what ya'll do........and why do you care what we think?
He wants to see me pee...
Posted: 11/23/2010 9:54:12 PM
Peeing on someone, that reminds me of the Paul Bernardo incidents. Yuk!
 Island home
Joined: 7/5/2009
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Posted: 11/23/2010 10:16:40 PM
OP I would recommend practicing doing hand stands in the shower
then if you do decide to display it will be all the more spectacular
 axl617
Joined: 9/3/2010
Msg: 9
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Posted: 11/23/2010 10:21:37 PM
Is it really hard for you to just do what you do everyday but let your lover watch? yeah he more than likely has a fetish for it, it's not THAT uncommon. Just prepare for it to escalate to him peeing on you in the bathtub...
 Simon4567
Joined: 10/9/2010
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/23/2010 10:26:57 PM

I am very disturbed by that, since I find it to be strange and not sexually appealing.


Did you communicate this with him?
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 11/23/2010 11:30:55 PM
I think you have an identity crisis and can't remember which profile you are posting under!!

***Snort***

It's a funny read with the alter-ego forgetting he posted as a female, but clearly isn't.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 12
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Posted: 11/23/2010 11:52:28 PM
I once asked a girlfriend if I could watch her pee, and she let me. It was just out of curiosity that I asked. Had never seen a girl pee and I was just drunk enough to ask. She let me cause she thought it was funny and was just drunk enough not to mind. I thought it was kind of cool seeing how it all worked out for the fairer sex. She's the one that found it arousing, not for the pee, but because of the level of intimacy involved. I found that to be sexy.( her being aroused by it)

I get the impression that this is a guy with a fetish, BTW-common enough to have a very large niche of the porn market, and he's fishing for ladies that are into it too!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/24/2010 4:54:46 AM
There was some movie where Mariel Hemingway (really young at the time), follows her lover into the bathroom, begging him to let her hold it while he urinates. She's irresistible, and is all bubbly, bouncing out of bed (both are naked) and smiley and blue-eyed, so he lets her stand behind him and reach around while she presses up against him.
THAT was sexy! Because she was so enthusiastic, and just reeaaallly curious, and open. I did mention she was irresistible, right?
I musta peaked, on this whole excrement and sex thing, when I watched that movie, cuz it does nothing for me, anymore. As Jenny McCarthy said in a media moment last year, men seem to forget that women defecate, too. I'm sorta one of those men. McCarthy dropped the jaws of of bunches of people for that comment (and some other reasons), and got scored for it. She burst my bubble. But I finally got over it. I might be scarred for life if I witnessed my lover perched on the throne, purging. Lol
 johndoe67-1
Joined: 4/13/2010
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/24/2010 5:51:15 AM
Ignoring the identity crisis posts and answering the OP - why not let him watch? Is it really so horrible? Will it hurt you or something? Its just pee! You do it all the time. He's seen you naked already, so whats the big deal? Its a fun, playful, intimate thing to share with a lover. Loosen up a little...
 likemyrock
Joined: 10/21/2010
Msg: 15
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Posted: 11/24/2010 6:37:14 AM

He wants to see me pee...Should I do this just to please him?

No. Not "just" to please him. If you can't get into it, into enjoying his enjoyment, it will more than likely lead to a kernel of resentment and distrust that will ultimately grow.


and is this common?

There are websites dedicated to this desire. So there is enough of a market to sustain it. Not sure what you consider "common."
Does he want to jerk off while watching you pee? Or just want you to keep the door open and he gets a thrill out of something taboo, and it shows him that you are comfortable, accepting, and honest with him?


He really wants to watch me and I do love him.

If you really loved him this thread would not have been started. At least according to how I define love, which includes unhesitating acceptance due to trust.
 erinsonline
Joined: 9/7/2010
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Posted: 11/24/2010 8:50:35 AM
You could always break up with him over it.

You are on a roll...DON'T STOP AT FIVE!!

 *army mom*
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 17
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Posted: 11/24/2010 10:18:47 AM
I don't mind if my SO is shaving or something while I'm using the bathroom ... but as far as "performing" on the toilet -- OH HELL NO. That's just too weird for me.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 11/24/2010 10:26:29 AM
Well, let him watch you pee. I can see drawing the line if he wanted to pee on you, but I can't see why indulging him by letting him watch you pee would be such a big deal.
 axl617
Joined: 9/3/2010
Msg: 19
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Posted: 11/24/2010 10:26:48 AM

I don't mind if my SO is shaving or something while I'm using the bathroom ... but as far as "performing" on the toilet -- OH HELL NO. That's just too weird for me.


What about your SO watching you shave?
 IhateXfactor
Joined: 11/20/2010
Msg: 20
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Posted: 11/24/2010 10:44:42 AM
Given that you're both still looking, according to your profiles, go ahead - pee for him.

Then, if it made you embarrassed, finish with him! = NUMBER 6
 DemonLeather
Joined: 8/10/2007
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Posted: 11/24/2010 11:21:43 AM
Geeze girl.. it's ONLY peeing,. you know how many girls watched me pee??!,. If he likes it,. he likes it,. be a little freak,. you MAY find you like it,. next thing you know,. you MAY be outside in the snow,. trying to write your name (now I'D watch THAT!.. I saw a girl do that before,. and she had BETTER writing than I did!,. & I Got the frikkin' pencil!
 axl617
Joined: 9/3/2010
Msg: 22
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Posted: 11/24/2010 11:26:40 AM

you know how many girls watched me pee??


I dunno... how many times have you been charged with public indecency?
 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 23
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Posted: 11/24/2010 11:40:50 AM
I wanted to watch my nephew pee when I was about 7 just to see how the plumbing worked.
My sister took me in the bathroom and said watch.

Saw and was done..completely satisfied with my curiosity.
Was confused about the toilet paper thing..wondering if some women just shake and how gross that would be.

Is a man posting as a woman or a woman as a man?
Watch your self pee..
 DemonLeather
Joined: 8/10/2007
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Posted: 11/24/2010 12:19:13 PM
"I dunno... how many times have you been charged with public indecency?"

Actually never ,..umm for THAT If you're outside you are usually secluded,. but after sex,. good sex,. there's that call.. I usually have to be the gentleman & wait..Surprisingly.. most everyone of them has lingered,. talking or something,. (i've even umm "handled"requests to try & "steer" and it's not as easy as it looks!) But you look young & nieve & probably don't know much about that kind of stuff,.. sex, & all...
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 11/24/2010 12:44:20 PM

I wanted to watch my nephew pee when I was about 7 just to see how the plumbing worked.
My sister took me in the bathroom and said watch.

I did the same with my elder sister but was very disappointed.
she sat down , I heard a noise, then the paper thing , that was that!
what? I thought...no weee-wee-bob?
how does it come out? exactly from where? where is her thingy? is it further behind? I was four and felt sorry for my sister because she didn't have a wee-wee-bob.
It wasn't until much later that I realised that instead of a wee-wee-bob she had something better.... >>
Girls are normally used to privacy for urinating but guys... we like to urinate together...look at each others results (discretely of course), show off by adjusting our ties at the same time, size up penii (penuses) Its a very social extrovert thing ,chit chat and throat clearing noises ....so-on

Let him have a good look to his hearts content....it might be a fetish you say? OOooOOoooh we wouldn't want that now would we ? not with the myriad of unconventional sexual deviations he could choose........ give 'im a sqirt...girl 'n tonic shaken not stirrred.

bend over and squirt backwards he'll as happy as a 5 year old at the circus
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