| Sad story but a great lesson
Posted: 11/1/2004 11:06:58 AM | I have been seeing my current girlfriend now for around 5 to 6 months. We decided it was time to bring the kids ( my two girls and hers ) together and see what happens. It worked out beautifuly, no problems no fights was wonderful. We have been getting really close and are trying to slow things down as right now I have never been with some one that matchs me so much. So we take all the girls out to a halloween party for them, and we invited other people that either were missing there own kids or felt left out. Well a couple we invited out has been having major problems in there marriage. They have a open relaionship and are very madd at each other and fight all the time. We had to leave early from the party because they could not get along and such and went out to eat pizza. When we got to the pizza place I took all the kids with me and we hit the vidio games while the rest of the adults took care of ordering and could talk and have fun. I had no problem doing this, though it did cost me 40 dollars in quaters lol, but my god we had a blast. Well while i was watching all the kids the couple were talking about me to my girlfriend and trying to get her to go out with them after eatting to a bar and have me watch all the kids for awhile. Well I had no problem with it sence they said they would only be gone about 40 minutes and would catch up so we could all spend more time with the kids. Its there time and I hated for them to be that way, but I can only do what is good for my children and others that is there choice. Well I head up to the couple's house and watch the kids, while the husband of the couple shows up and is seeming like he is trying to bait me into saying something about my girlfriend, well that is not a mistake i make anymore and learn to change the subject. Well they show up a hour and a half later after my girlfriend threatened to take a taxi or call me to come get her, she wanted to be with me and the girls for crying out loud. Well when she gets there we take off back to her place and leave the rest of the party butt heads and we have a very good night, the girls all played and watched movies while we currled up in bed and watched one. The next morning I left to go get bacon and stuff for breakfast and while I am gone the woman of the couple calls up and tells my girlfriend all kinds of lies that I was to have told her husband. Well I get back and my girlfriend is all pissy kinda of and I ask what is wrong and she said wait till the girls are playing and we will talk. I said ok and we all had breakfast. Well after we finished and cleanded up together, she turned tome and said I know there is no way you could have said the things Susan just told me you told her husband. Well we sat down and had a nice talk ( we dont raise our voice to one another ) and got it out in the open. It seems to both of us that there seems to be more and more people in this world that want to mess up things that are good between other people. We know this is the reason because about 2 hours later Susan called asking if we were fighting yet. Well she didnt like the answer and I am sure she will not like what is coming. It is sad cause it could have ruined something I have been looking for my whole adult life, and I would have lost someone very dear to my heart. To all of those people that will get involved with other couples lives, stay the hell out, its none of your buissness, and if you dont like your life then change it. There is never a reason to destroy some one else's happiness just because your life is destroyed, specially when you made it that way to begin with. So butt the hell out ! For the couple that can read this, listen to what these people have to say. Sorry had to get this out, just shows how strong a realionship can be if two people trully want to work at it.
Gadolinx
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| Sad story but a great lesson
Posted: 11/1/2004 11:43:46 PM | I guess we never stop getting wiser.
Good thing you got the whole thing under control.
Often, no one notices when things go to hell in a handbasket for the most mysterious reasons at times.
And yes, this crap is getting more commonplace. I have noticed it too. | |
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Posted: 11/2/2004 5:58:40 AM | Its sad, Ive seen this situation before myself and had others try and do the same thing to my husband and me, many times. I cant believe how some people just cant seem to be happy unless someone else is miserable, and Im glad that as an adult couple we can talk things out and know each other well enough to know something sounds fishy about what that person just told us.
Congrats on being able to talk to each other, so many out there cant. | |
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| Sad story but a great lesson
Posted: 11/2/2004 6:20:52 AM | I guess the saying " misery loves company" is so true, cant belive they tried this. Found out also she is bi and wanted my gf to sleep with her, so they asked her if we all could " swap" parteners for a weekend. What people will do for sex now days is really unbeliveable. Guess they got pissed when she told them hell no. Ohh well they need to grow up, some of us are happy to be with the one person we care about and dont want to share hehe, cant wait to see what drama they pull up this weekend.
Gadolinx
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| Sad story but a great lesson
Posted: 11/2/2004 6:38:27 AM | My condensed story..
This was a number of years ago... Hubbys best friend wanted his party buddy back after hubby and I had been together for 4 years and two kids later, he started a rumor that he and I slept together hoping it would get to hubby, MIL heard the rumor and told hubby that she went to a phycic and he told her I was sleeping around and named the best friend. I heard the rumor just before MIL and tried to bring it up with hubby but he already heard the rumor that best friend had slept with another friends wife(another lie) and didnt want to have anything to do with said friend anymore. But MIL was determined to get the "white girl" out of her sons life and played it to the hilt. WHEW!!
Now if I was a bad person, spent all his money, cheated and demanded more then I could understand, but I dont do drugs, social drinker and since we got together we went from barely making it in a two bedroom apt. to owning a 4 bed, 2 bath home, own 4 cars, 3 dogs and are very comfortable. I love my hubby with all my heart and support him in whatever he wants to do. How much more do these people want.
By the way Id love to hear what happens this weekend. LOL  | |
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Posted: 11/2/2004 6:55:03 AM | "Found out also she is bi and wanted my gf to sleep with her, so they asked her if we all could " swap" parteners for a weekend."
she wanted to sleep with your gf, and wanted to swap partners?? does that mean you were supposed to sleep with her husband??? | |
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Posted: 11/2/2004 7:55:14 AM | something to that effect yes, pretty nasty if ya ask me. I know they are reading this and hope they get the idea that its never going to happen. But people like this never stop and keep on no matter what, I guess either ill have to slit there tires or something to get them to stop lol. I really dont understand any of it, they were friends to my girl friend and she said she would deal with them this weekend so I will leave it at that. People like that as friends who the heck needs any enemies thats for sure. But EWWWWW that sounds so gross, dont worry I dont swing that way, matter of fact I dont swing at all.
Gadolinx
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