| | Just need some opinionsPage 1 of 1 | will be the first to admit that I became too demanding for his attention and he started avoiding me and I probably ruined my chances with him, but I've never experienced love and a relationship so I long for it, but that always turns into neediness and I keep getting rejected. I tried contacting him a few times so we could talk openly and honestly about what's going on and why he's avoiding me. I even told him that if he's not interested, he can just tell me, but just say something instead of not saying anything. Finally he sent me this emal:
"Sup? I understand that you'r lonely sometimes I think everybody gets lonely I know from experience. I'm not deliberately ignoring you but after a couple messages I kinda just got overwhelmed I was really busy last 3 weeks I was working trades for the schools. I liked hanging out with you, but I think kitty needs to lay off the nip cause u got s lil feisty. Haha it's all good though I know how u feel. But instead of you trying to plan things that was very nice but just forget that cause it's obviously making you feel not wanted which u don't need. So how about I'll just invite u to do something when I'm available , and in the mean time kitty don't put all your eggs in one basket which I'm sure your not you need to have fun ya know :) you deserve it" | |
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Posted: 7/14/2011 9:03:20 PM | Since you've posted this in atleast 3 places I would say you are demanding.
Chill Kitten. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2011 5:40:58 PM | I liked hanging out with you, but I think kitty needs to lay off the nip cause u got s lil feisty.
Since I have 6 cats I can truly identify with that statement.  In other words, you need to back off and give the poor guy some space. He's telling you to go out with your friends and don't call, e-mail or text him right now. He's trying to be nice about it hon.
If you revolve your life around a man, ANY man, then you're going to be disappointed in the long run and I do speak from experience.
Kytten
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Posted: 7/16/2011 8:37:24 AM | well at least he finally told you " don't call me, I'll call you if/when I wanna see you?
he's also telling you to go date other men. Any guy that's into you, will NOT suggest this.
move on like he's suggested you do, he's not clearly not interested and the more you cry over him, the worse it will get and you'll end being another psychodesperatechick that these guys complain about | |
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Posted: 7/16/2011 5:16:09 PM | | I think you ruined it, sorry. If he did ever contact you when he is free I would tell him to f*ck off. Because him getting use out of you when it is only convient for him is using you hun. Keep looking, learn from your mistakes, and move on to the next guy. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2011 6:39:55 PM | | A lot of people who don't feel as strongly towards you, will in some way or form, blame you, claiming you are being too demanding, or overwhelming them. While some might disagree with me on this, I think that's the case here. I'd say, detach yourself from this guy, and cut your losses. Your heart will heal in time. Good luck. | |
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