| | strangest first datesPage 1 of 5 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5) | My strangest first encounter was with a guy who was originally from my hometown of Carlsbad New Mexico. Home of the Carlsbad Caverns. I agreed to meet him for Icecream. As I sit there for a few minutes of casual conversation I discovered he was a lil strange. Being polite I still try to carry on conversation. So, I ask him.... What do you do? he responds " Oh I play video games" I say "Ummm ok I mean what do you do for work?" "Oh!" he says "I am waiting for my SSI" stays quiet.. I conclude with " What are you recieving SSI for if you don't mind me asking" He finishes with " Oh, I have schizophrinia and and I haven't been taking my meds...." Date lasted 15 minutes. To this day he still will msg me on here forgetting that I walked out on the date. Maybe he dosen't remember that we met.
What are the strangest first encounters that others have experianced. I have a couple more up my sleeve... | |
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Posted: 9/19/2011 7:20:03 PM | some of mine are not fit for public consumption ....
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Posted: 9/19/2011 8:23:48 PM | | My weirdest first date was with this really hot Italian guy. We went to this panino place in the winter, and as I was walking up he was standing by the entrance, munching on a snowball. Like, he had made a snowball with snow off the side walk and was eating it. He then offered me a bite. Later on, during the date, he talked about body fluids, excrement and played the nose flute. (Exactly what it sounds like). We had to take the same metro home, and he lay down on the floor of the place, which was covered with slush, while we waited for the train and invited me to join him. He also made weird chewing motions with his jaw in the train for no apparent reason. | |
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Posted: 9/19/2011 8:31:43 PM | Omg I woulda told him him he was a freak lol
Oh and btw I see someone thinks this is a self pity thread how I dont see. Anyways, maybe they r the ones that are weird on the dates who knows
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Posted: 9/19/2011 8:38:37 PM | For the love of all that's holy, don't encourage Boon lol.
I know him too well and he'll end up having this entire forum deleted. ;P
Weirdest one? The one that comes to mind is the guy who was a public official (you'd
think he had a shot at normalcy, right?), and his ex-wife showed up shortly after we arrived
at the place for our date. She had followed us there and was checking me out evidently.
Not a big deal but he freaked out over it. Tons of fun. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2011 12:03:33 AM | | That's awesome I have had someone that I was involved with who's ex was having pics taken of me and txt to her to see what she got replaced with. It wad weird and the whole thing only lasted a month before I wad fed up | |
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Posted: 9/20/2011 2:58:39 PM | | The guy that cried about the split with his ex wife. He texted the next day to say what a great time he'd had and how he thought we were so compatible, yeuk. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2011 3:45:05 PM | I met a lady off this site a year ago last Labor Day. I met her & her teenage son about a couple of blocks from where they lived. I had to follow them in there to the restaurant which was closed. Then we went across the street to a Pizza Hut. I couldn't talk to much to her & couldn't get her to open up to conversation except for his high school football playing.
After we ate we went next door into Wal-Mart. This was a small town with nothing else to do. I thought I could get alone with her in there. He would go look at something & come right back. When we left I bouhgt some ice cream sandwiches for us. While we were outside of the store the kid got a nose bleed....lol... that was one of the worst dates I ever had.... | |
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Posted: 9/20/2011 3:55:15 PM | | get this: i once met a woman who was smart, good looking and had a sense of humor. no lie! | |
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Posted: 9/20/2011 4:15:08 PM | | I went out for dinner with this guy awhile ago. We didnt have a whole lot to talk about and it was pretty awkward. After dinner I assumed he would be taking me back to my car seeing as how dinner did not go to well, but he asked if I wanted to go to a movie. I told him I was pretty tired and wanted to head home. He went on too tell me if I fell asleep during the movie he would just poke me to keep me awake. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2011 4:30:25 PM | | Years ago I had a date with a guy that turned out to be an embalmer. That in itself kinda freaked me a little ...Turns out he had invented a new machine to suck the blood and fluids out of a body and proceeded to tell in detail all the technical and gory details. My strategy was to drink lots of vino very quickly....was a very strange evening. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2011 5:23:59 PM | I met a woman who had the temerity to turn up on my date rather drunk with no money and then when I drove her home after I'd bought her a few drinks, [while all evening asking me what my house was worth] she demanded aggressively that I stay the night. Being the gentleman I am I stated that I didn't want to so she swore at me and told me to leave and then accused me by text of stealing her house key when all the while it had slipped down the side of her sofa.
What a dreadful woman. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2011 6:23:25 PM | Waynie I am sorry for UR misfortune and cheezy that's kinda cool about the embalmer I like stuff like that but to each there own lol
Ok ok so I was talking to this guy we had exchanged numbers talked here and there I mainly blew him off but he still persued. So finally one night he invited me to watch a movie at his house. I felt bad cuz of how hard he would try to meet me so I agreed. He picked me up we went and rented a movie and when I got to his house it was filthy.( he had over an hour to clean up.) I was not interested in him but still watched the movie. During the movie he is constantly txtn someone else and kept leaving the room to talk on the phone. ( good thing I was not attracted to him) He came back to sit beside me and decided it was a good time to go in for the kiss. let's jus say he got bit. So he didn't try that again and ii told him I had to go after the movie. When he drove me home he asked for a kiss. (v like getting bit was not a hint) I laughed and went inside my house. He continued to txt me 15 minutes later asking me if I liked him. I tried to be polite and tell him he was nice but we had no chemistry. Guess he didn't like that so he told me I wasn't all tha5 and he picked up another girl after dropping me off. ( this is 15 minutes after dropping me off mind u ) so I told him we he looked like an ill proportioned ALF (DO u remember that show lol ) he decided he wanted to show me he was not ill proportioned and sent me a not so flattering pic of him and his weiner. I txt him back and since his face was in the shot told him " what are u gonna do with that? Tickle me? Thanks for the laugh ill be sure to forward it to all my friends) let's jus say that was the last I heard from him. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2011 6:37:45 PM | Someone who has schizophrenia will have a very hard time finding anyone who will even meet them. So letting go is very difficult for them I have a friend who is Schizophrenic he has a hard time just going to the store. He's always asking me for dating/love advice and talking about women he thinks he has a chance. I've noticed that it is hard for him to let go from people who give him the time of day even just once. I doubt he's forgot that's not schizophrenia.
Schizophrenia is seeing people or imaging things that are not real. Such as believing people have super powers, are witches, devil and so on. Yes and no there is a degree of danger with them. But I'm a big guy and not concerned about it I can defend my self.
He's actually one of the best friends I have. Aside from having a difficult time going out in public he's a very good person. I actually think he's a better person then the majority of the people I meet that do not have mental illnesses. He actually values the friendship because so few people are willing to be friends with him.
Some of them aren't appropriate but one.. I was making out with a woman she grabbed my hair pulled my head to the right and ripped a chunk out then bit my neck so hard it draw blood. Thank god I said no to handcuffs.
Another was on a date and she mentioned she just broke up with her "ex" I asked what happened and dug. I guess she got angry at him and took a baseball bat to his car and other possessions of his.
Another was at the woman place we were in her room her room mate comes home and she invited HIM to join in the fun with out asking if I was cool with it. I just left. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 10:09:17 AM | I went on a date a couple of years ago with a guy off this site. We went to a fancy restaurant. I was super nervous.
Long story short, I started choking on my chicken. Full blown turning purple choking! The waitress ran over and asked me if I was ok. I coughed it out (not attractive I'm sure) but while I was on the brink of death, all my date could do was stare at me in utter humiliation. No heimleich or anything lol. Needless to say, we never went on a second date! | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 10:37:13 AM | My strangest first "date" hasn't happened yet..Though I'm sure it will even if I'm seeing, dating or even married.
The reason being is I consider my strangest first "date" to be in the future getting my prostate checked..
I'll have to let my doctor know I'm a virgin back there and will request he at least buy me a drink first, call me after, or at least send me a Hallmark card for chrissakes...
I picture myself curled up in a ball in the shower afterwards reciting in my head "I'm a dirty little whore!".
Needless to say I'm not looking foward to my strangest first "date" though it is necessary! Hahaha! | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 10:46:36 AM | I've met a couple of odd ducks, but the one that comes to mind is the guy who rolled up in an old GEO with a donut tire and multi-colored doors. He looked like he just rolled out of bed and smelled like a dirty sweatsock. He was twitchy, talking real fast, blinking his eyes uncontrollably. I noticed he had an extraordinarily long fingernail on his little finger and I asked him if he was coked up. He said "no, why?" I pointed to the fingernail. He said he had sinus problems. I said "so, you use that fingernail to pick your nose?" And he said "yes" ... end of date.
Somewhere in all of his incessant talking, I recall him saying he was horny and asked if there was a hotel nearby. By the time I figured out what he said he'd already moved on to another topic. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 11:54:22 AM | I met a woman who had the temerity to turn up on my date rather drunk with no money and then when I drove her home after I'd bought her a few drinks
Nothing personal, Waynie, but if a woman showed up for a date already drunk, I don't think buying more drinks for her is the mark of a gentleman. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 12:04:59 PM | ^^^
Indeed. You should have seen her stomp her feet after I told her I was taking her home. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 2:01:43 PM | Holy shit these are some funny stories. I would never show up on a date trashed. I hope to god I've never been a horrible date but maybe to my bad dates I was a bad date as well.
I did have one guy I met come pic me up in a brand new Mercedes. Afterwards we drive to his condo where he decided to show me his other 2 new Mercedes and 3 Honda civics let's not forget his infinity all this proof of wealth was a lil much for this small town country girl who has only had a total of 3 cars that were far from Mercedes. At the end of our first meeting he asked if we could be in a serious relationship. That was 5 months ago and he still txts me trying to ask for a serious relationship. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 2:19:09 PM | I digress a bit, as I didn't actually date this guy - but in his very first email he said all sorts of things putting down my profile - THEN finished with , " I think you're full of shit - but I'd like to meet you" .
Well now, THAT sure made me all warm and squishy inside - and like, totally wanting to date him ! (NOT)
When I responded with a "no thanks" - he wrote back and said " at least I got your attention , and you wrote to me ".
Well yeah , I did ... but ...  | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 5:03:59 PM | ** indicates clues to why this was a weird date
My FIRST date was the strangest. I met a guy at a local restaurant for my first date that resulted from just a few days on POF. We planned on eating and had a drink while we waited for a table. He would ask me questions to get to know me and before I would finish my sentences, he would stop me so he could answer his own questions about himself. I mean, that's ok but he actually **stopped me from talking instead of just interrupting. That was the first sign but I was trying to be objective. Before our table was ready, he asked if I would be interested in going to a nicer restaurant (since he met me and liked me). With me being very hungry and loving nice restaurants, I agreed.
We went in his car and he tried to impress me with music he had in his CD player. I asked him who it was but ** he didn't know.
We went downtown to a very nice restaurant. He told me **he has rules. One was that I can never open the door for myself, that he will. (Ok, dude, do you have to say it?? Just freakin' do it and don't make an issue out of it). We start to walk to the restaurant and he tries to hold my hand. I'm like, dude, I just met you. His response, ** Well, I like you and I want to hold your hand. (oh, okay, who cares if I don't want to hold yours, and btw, don't forget to open the door for me).
We have a reserved table because "everybody knows me". A u-shaped booth style, I sit down and he sits right next to me and puts his hand on my leg. **"Well, I know what I like and I like you". Ok, dude, back the eff up is what I was thinking but I was polite and insisted that her lay off.
They gave me a menu and **he told the server that I didn't need a menu and that he was ordering for me. Can you imagine the look on my face for a few seconds?? But I decided to go with it and said, "okay, I'm game". He ordered a pork rib for me and I don't eat pork. ** "Trust me, you are going to love it." I don't care how much $$ you put on the menu for pork, it still tastes like pork.
Here comes the dessert menu...there it goes. He orders that, too, along with a dessert wine. It comes and **he tells me how to eat the dessert. I've been eating dessert a long time and really didn't require lessons, believe me. I really enjoyed the wine and asked him what the name of it was, **he said he would not tell me because he only wanted me to have it when I was with him.
After dinner we go to a small bar down the road and he uses the valet. **He tells me that if you tip a valet a lot of money, then they will have your car up front for you to leave quickly. No shyt, Sherlock. Just do it and don't tell me about it.
He says, what would you like to drink...I say, since I have had a lot of wine, I should slow down with a beer. **He says "no". No, really, dude, I'm on medication for epilepsy and I can't be getting hammered. **He says "you'll be fine". He insists that I drink some crap sweet drink. He asked if I liked it. Uh, no, I hate it but I will slowly sip to make the pain of being on this date with you go away.
He grabs my hand (after **he takes my drink away, which I was starting to get used to and needed) and he leads me to the banquet rooms in the hotel of which this bar is. I was thinking, what the hell now?
He sits down to a piano and starts playing Piano Man. Ok, that's cool. He was good. He asked me what I would like to hear and when I told him,** he said he had something better. Holy crap. Finally after 6 songs that I didn't request, I tell him that I have to go soon because my oldest daughter is watching my younger ones and she was waiting on me to get home so she could go out with her friends. I felt bad for lying but I could tell he would have kept me out all night.
We leave because he want to show me another place. It was a cool, chic bar with an awesome DJ but not a nightclub feel. More like a lounge. We walk in and **he says, I want people to know that I am with you. I was actually enjoying a beer finally and he wants to leave so he can show me another place. I'm like, noooo, this place is great. **He says, you are going to love the other place. I don't finish my beer and he whisks me away.
Next stop, smoky bar, dark, laser lights (I'm epileptic, remember) and I felt like I was definitely overdressed, meaning I had clothes on that covered my body. Because "people know me here, too" he bought several people a shot. I refrained. And people did not know him. I finally insist on leaving because of the smoke but really because of him. He continuously tries to kiss me. Persistantly. And I am a nice person that can handle herself but I was on the verge of saying "step back dude, how many times do I have to say it". He takes me to my car only after I promise to go out with him again. Okay, okay, I'll go out with you again if you just let me get away from you. Now I know why people admit guilt during interrogation to a crime they didn't commit. When I see my car, I am so happy. Whew! Opens my car door for me, of course, because I was following the rules and finally asked me for a kiss. I thought, okay, you really never know if you have chemistry until you kiss someone...... We do NOT have chemistry.
He texts me and says "text me when you get home". I texted someone else.
He texts me everyday for several days the same question "so, are we going out on another date?" You just came on too strong. I just started dating and I am not ready for that. He says, OK. and I never hear from him again. Thank goodness. | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 5:48:31 PM | The one last June was pretty strange. This woman messaged me from here and seemed pretty cool. Her profile was pretty well written and good pictures. We seemed to chat pretty well and swapped phone numbers. We talked till early in the morning and agreed to meet in real life the next day.
This is where it got strange. We agreed to meet that a local bar and grill. I get there on time and see this woman pull up in front of me with what looks like a church van. Wearing Jersey shore type sunglasses. She gets out of the van wearing this skimpy almost see through dress with black under garments. We get in the place and she takes off her sunglasses and has this strange eyeliner going on that goes off her eyes and then up. The woman looks like a total hooker. People are looking at us strange as we go to a table. We sit there and honestly I'm almost speechless and not in a good way. Just wondering why someone would dress that way...
Well we order some drinks and find out more stuff. First shes is not really in the culinary arts field like she said and had in profile pictures anymore. Has 6 children from 3 different men. She is on SSI right for her bi-polar disorder. She get extra money being an exotic dancer. At the end of the meeting she tried to swoop in for a kiss, to which I head swerved to avoid. She asked what was wrong I told her sorry not feeling it. Too which she starts crying.
I felt like a total****or lead her on... But come on, who the heck dresses like that?! Why not tell me this stuff earlier? Worse yet one of my co-workers was at that place. Ribbing me the next day... | |
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Posted: 9/21/2011 5:54:19 PM | | Gigi, while reading about your date, I thought I was watching a bad movie that would just never end. You really need to learn how to say "NO" and mean it. It sounded like for the most part you didn't want to be with the person you were with, but you just kept going along for the ride! | |
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