| | Forward WomenPage 1 of 1 | | I can be a very forward person. Im open and honest and will go for a guy if I'm interested. Do guys like that? | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/1/2012 10:14:09 PM | Like many things it depends on the guy. Some like it. Me I like it. But then I like woman that say what they want, think & feel.
Other guys it scares the hell out of them. But more importantly be who you are! Some will like it some won't.The one's that don't just don't worry about them. Focus on the one's that do. | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/2/2012 10:33:27 PM | | It depends on how it's presented. If you plan to take away all his manhood and claim him for your own, I think that the guy might not be good with it. But I find nothing cooler than a woman approaching a man, rather than her pretend she's "traditional" and then hoping that the "right man" will hopefully come along. | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/3/2012 3:12:08 AM | Depends on how you approach it. If you come across as a ball busting ****, every guy will tell you get lost. However, since we guys so often have to deal with a woman's friends trying to block things, and being turned down, ect that most men love when a woman approaches him.
However a few guys are not secure and will look at it as you are taking away their masculinity by doing that, so depends on the guy too. | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/3/2012 3:45:05 AM | | I think that most guys would like this. We have a hard time some times trying to figure out what you women want and when you narrow that feild, it makes it easier. | |
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Mulvah
| | Joined: 12/27/2011 Msg: 6 | |
| Forward Women Posted: 1/3/2012 6:37:05 AM | I think your approach shows that you're confident and that's sexy ~ obviously, I can't speak from a man's POV, but we have to be who we are, yes?
Being older, I have always found that if a man is interested he will let you know, but I'm also by nature a shy person | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/3/2012 2:04:57 PM | | I know I do. This way there is no mixed signals. I have always liked a woman to be forward. | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/4/2012 1:44:27 AM | | men are simple. forward and direct communication is much appreciated. We're not mind readers...and don't want to be. If you place that kind of pressure on someone, they will quickly become annoyed. | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/4/2012 1:01:17 PM | | I believe it is how you go about in your forwardness. Are you being flirtatious? Or just being outgoing in your conversation? | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/4/2012 7:01:42 PM | I LOVE IT when women are forward. I'd rather my woman tell me how she feels and whats on her mind than to be passive and be a push over.
Come be forward with me ! | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/4/2012 9:07:01 PM | A large majority would.
It's a rarity to find girls that do such a thing. I've yet to come across one since I'm always the person to take initiative. Maybe I just never give them the chance since I'm always the first to make the first move. | |
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Mulvah
| | Joined: 12/27/2011 Msg: 12 | |
| Forward Women Posted: 1/4/2012 9:19:10 PM | | I say whatever works is good. Doesn't work for everyone but, like I said, we have to be who we are | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/4/2012 10:54:16 PM | | This one does. I think it's great when women don't feel constrained by traditional gender roles and are willing to take the initiative. Good for you! If a guy is put off by your directness, would he really be the right guy for you, anyway? | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/8/2012 1:30:10 AM | The OP asked if Guys like this in a woman, therefore a man's opinion/thoughts are what she is seeking.
Why are women answering this question?  | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/8/2012 5:47:41 AM | Forward, yes! Super aggressive, no.  | |
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Mulvah
| | Joined: 12/27/2011 Msg: 16 | |
| Forward Women Posted: 1/9/2012 12:36:00 AM | Does only being forward when drunk count???
After smoking a bowl?? Winning at the casino?? On your birthday!!!!!! | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/9/2012 5:40:39 AM | | I think most guys would like that, I know I do. It takes the guess work out as mentioned. | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/9/2012 6:10:21 PM | | Most women wait on guys to make the 1st move but it never happens. I love when a woman can grow a pair and chase after what she wants. | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/11/2012 10:37:35 PM | | Only if she's attractive. | |
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Mulvah
| | Joined: 12/27/2011 Msg: 20 | |
| Forward Women Posted: 1/14/2012 8:34:51 AM | ^^^ simple, honest, to the point ~ I like  | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/25/2012 11:06:09 AM | If a woman politely makes herself available to me and takes an interest in me yes I do like that. and in certain circumstances if a woman can guage my interest and mood if she does make the first effort to get physical then I can really get into that. depends on my mood and circumstances | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/26/2012 4:40:54 PM | | Straight forward yes, like others guys say...we aren't mind readers! Not aggressive though. | |
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| Forward Women Posted: 1/28/2012 11:58:35 AM | Personally I find that quality very attractive in a lady. Directness shows self confidence in my opinion. | |
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