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 THEJeNnYbeNnY
Joined: 12/7/2011
Msg: 1
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ID LIKE TO KNOW HOW A MAN VIEWS TRXTING / COMMUNICATING EITH A GIRL UR INTERESTED JN

I FEEL LIKE IF A GUY GOES EVEN A DAY WOUT TALKING TO ME THAT IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE HE'S LOST INTEREST. IF A DAY GOES BY WITHOUT A SIMPLE HI TEXT I FEEL LIKE ONE DAY WILL TURN I TO TWI THEN THREE.....THEN BEFORE U KNOW IT HE HASN'T TALKED TO ME IN A WEEK SIGNIFYING IT'S OVER WITH

SO IM CURIOUS TO JNOW HOW A GUY VIEWS IT? DO U FEL LIKE U HAVE TO TALK TO A GIRL EVERYDAY? OR DO U THINK THAT IF A DAY OR TWI GOES BY IT'S NO SIGN UR INTERESTED BC OF LIFE THINGS GOING ON

LITTLE BACKGOUND THIS IS A FWB TYPR RELATIONSHIP IM REFERRING TO. HE AND I BOTH DON'T WSNT ANYTHING SERIOUS BUT ENJOY HANGING OJT DATING MOVIES DINNER AND SEX TOGETHER AND IM PRETTY SURE IM THE ONLY GIRL HE'S WITH BC EVERYTIME WE HAVE SEX HE ONLY LASTS LIKE LITERALLY TWO MINS

Insight?
 x~Phoenix~x
Joined: 5/28/2009
Msg: 2
Guys do u HAVE to text a girl everyday to be interested?
Posted: 1/2/2012 4:56:05 PM
i totally know where your comming from...i have been in the same situation but from a girls point of view i know this is an ask guys forum but i do believe it should be a good thing to text someone your interested in or the other does believe they loose interest it has happend to me alot but then again if they dont maybe there not worth it??2 or 3 days is fine i guess but 3-5 days then there prolly off meeting other people n for someone reason they dont feel the connection i guess
 _TALL_IQ2_
Joined: 2/10/2010
Msg: 3
Guys do u HAVE to text a girl everyday to be interested?
Posted: 1/2/2012 4:58:17 PM
IM PRETTY SURE IM THE ONLY GIRL HE'S WITH BC EVERYTIME WE HAVE SEX HE ONLY LASTS LIKE LITERALLY TWO MINS Insight?

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 SunshineAngel99
Joined: 10/13/2010
Msg: 4
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Guys do u HAVE to text a girl everyday to be interested?
Posted: 1/2/2012 4:58:47 PM
My poor eyes. I think you need to slow down....

 Silent Steel
Joined: 2/18/2009
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:05:39 PM
Texting sucks no matter how much somebody does it. I am not sure why you really care so much, since your last OP stated you were having a FWB relationship with three dudes at the same time.

Lasting two minutes has nothing to do with how many women he is doing. He just sounds lazy and couldnt care less as to whether or not you are satisfied.
 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 6
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:11:04 PM
= OP, get into detox quicky! = You're taking too much of something, and it ain't good.


DO U FEL LIKE U HAVE TO TALK TO A GIRL EVERYDAY?

No. No. No. Not every day. Not every week. No. If we have your name, your number, and your panties, we will remember. You said it's a FWB, which means they guy only want's your ass when he gets bored. NOT EVERY DAY. If you keep hounding him every day, you will no longer be a "friend" and he will downgrade you to FB - which means he doesn't want to talk, doesn't want to hear you say a damn word.

So if you want to save your FWB - STFU and stop texting every day. Wait until he calls you.

You are clingy like dryer socks - there is NO WAY a guy is going to want to hear your crazy biotch rants every day. Put a sock in it.
 BrianL77
Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 7
Guys do u HAVE to text a girl everyday to be interested?
Posted: 1/2/2012 5:13:24 PM
No cause some times we got nothing to say or we are busy with work. And guy last 2 min wth is he alreay done before he starts. And if he only needs you 2 min a week do (you need him?
 VacationGuy234
Joined: 8/1/2008
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:14:57 PM
In a normal relationship, it is not a sign that I'm going to break off with someone if I don't talk to them every day.

The intensity of the communication really depends on the women that you are see, some women want a lot of interaction and some women do not.

In your case, you are in a relationship that is not supposed to be serious so it does not sound like this is what you really want. A FWB situation is all about freedom and it doesn't sound like you want the freedom.
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 9
Guys do u HAVE to text a girl everyday to be interested?
Posted: 1/2/2012 5:16:26 PM
If a girl needs me to text her every day to keep her feeling like I am interested then she would not be my type since I never text


IM PRETTY SURE IM THE ONLY GIRL HE'S WITH BC EVERYTIME WE HAVE SEX HE ONLY LASTS LIKE LITERALLY TWO MINS


What has having a premature ejaculation problem got to do with having other women unless he is in a hurry to get to the next encounter.
 Blah_User_Name
Joined: 8/27/2011
Msg: 10
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:17:19 PM
Does he hit send just before he cu.........Oh, never mind, really don't want to know.

Just curious - If you picked up the phone and had a conversation with him, does that eliminate the need to 30-40 texts per day ?

EDIT :- Are you texting when you're at work ? No. Can't be. Can they ?
 Jimbonator62
Joined: 6/11/2006
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:18:04 PM
With you ability to spell I'd break up with you after the first text. Oh and by the way, it's a friendship not a romantic relationship, he is under absolutely no obligation to check in with you on a daily basis. You just want him for yourself even though you are ready to jump on the first pony that catches your eye.
 ChillinChill
Joined: 6/17/2011
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:29:33 PM
Insight? .. He needs viagra. WTF??? two minutes???
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:32:26 PM
I'm not sure why I'd date someone who didn't want to talk to me every day. If I wanted someone who would just have sex with me, go home and not bother me, I'd pay for sex. Why don't you jut ask him all of the stuff in your post.
 THEJeNnYbeNnY
Joined: 12/7/2011
Msg: 14
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:38:39 PM
Bc I don't wanna come of needy (when obviously I am but he doesn't know that)

I hv told him last wk and be said he'd do better and he has texted me for a week since I said it
But No text
Today which has me wondering if he's done so idk he'd in his 30s I'm in my 20s maybe that's why

And yes ONLY LASTS TWO MINS EVERYTRIME WE SCREW IDK WHY BUT HE CUMZ FAST EVERYTIMD
WHEN I GIVE HIM ORAL LONGEST HE LASTS IS FIVE MINS TOPS AND HE'S 30 urs old so not young to be cummmmmmming so fast right?

I think he comes so fast bc he doesn't have sex often and only with me
If he was doing more girls he'd prob last longer right?
 Silent Steel
Joined: 2/18/2009
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:41:52 PM
Nope....he does not care to make it last longer. Your logic in all of this is a trainwreck waiting to happen.
 G_giggles
Joined: 8/26/2010
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:43:19 PM
lmao........I really needed that laugh....so thanks
 THEJeNnYbeNnY
Joined: 12/7/2011
Msg: 17
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:43:44 PM
Make what last longer??
 Silent Steel
Joined: 2/18/2009
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:45:06 PM
We guys can control how fast we ejaculate.

 THEJeNnYbeNnY
Joined: 12/7/2011
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:46:04 PM
Well he stops everytime he get close and I beg
Him to keep going.....can y'all really stop it?
 Outdoorswmn
Joined: 8/17/2009
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Posted: 1/2/2012 5:51:33 PM
I wonder if anyone you work with at grainger are reading your posts. Sheesh!!!
 1EnergyTurtle
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 21
Guys do u HAVE to text a girl everyday to be interested?
Posted: 1/2/2012 5:52:06 PM
Yeah, I'm sorry OP but your sordid history slants the opinions of most people here who are willing to read and write back any words of help.

A text, a phone call or actually seeing someone should happen because they actually WANT to do it. Some people like to text simply to press the buttons sometimes it seems because they usually don't have anything interesting to discuss. Maybe he doesn't want to waste time on useless convo and rather save his efforts for that two minutes of fame he gives you.

And speaking of that, you can no better assume that he's only sleeping with you because of the duration of these sexual encounters than he can assume that you're saving yourself for him because whatever you've got makes him cum so fast.

It just seems like your priorities are in all the wrong places. Drop the double standards and just enjoy what you seem to like to do without complications. Hope this helps.
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