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 Vermonter
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 1
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The lady down the street from me has two daughters one 15 and one 11. We are just friends. She knows I am a member of a Nudist resort and she has asked me if I will take her and her two daughters to the Resort some weekend. She says her oldest daughter is "cock crazy" and is hanging out with this looser scumball type guy and she wants to cut it off and thinks a summer at a nudist resort is a safe place for the girls to "learn about the birds and the bees". While I wouldnt mind taking her to a Nudist resort in a heartbeat, I dont know about her daughters? Of course it is a family camp and lots and lots of teeny boppers there but they are not my kids, so I just dont know. Advice please?
 TheDevilsAdvocate
Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 7/24/2005 5:41:07 AM
By all means! If the mother wants you to take them there, and you believe it can be beneficial to the kids, then why not? I would have gone when I was younger (back when I didnt give a dam.n about the way I looked).

Think about how comfortable they'll be in their own skin when they come back. Nothing cures inhibitions like walking around naked, and it'll seriously help their confidence when they get back (comfort in ones own skin does that).

Maria XOXO
 longte
Joined: 10/18/2004
Msg: 3
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Posted: 7/24/2005 5:49:57 AM
Great Idea
One of the problems now is that children think nudity is wrong, so they want to explore the differences before they should
In a protected environment they can look, but thats it, and will quickly get bored with the penis thing
Just pack plenty of sunblock
....
 Skylar1Again
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 7/24/2005 6:36:28 AM
While I am all for being natural, I don't think taking young girls to a nudist resort when the mother has told one of the girls is "cock crazy" is decent idea. In fact it's downright sick. Besides, the folks at the resort are not there to be gawked at.
 HedonistDrifter
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 7/24/2005 6:39:51 AM
hahaha,hehehe....learn the birds and the bee's at a nudist camp....lmao...I had some friend's in Germany that invited me for a 2 week getaway at a FKK resort... (stands for "free body culture") Well I spent about 2 days there before I left...lol...just imagine a bunch of overweight, loose skinned, over tanned (skin that resembled worn leather) 40-70 year olds playing nude volleyball and frisbee, and you can understand why I cut it short...Hell they even eat nude..."Pardon me granny, but your titty's in the gravy"...well the bottom line is the vast majority of people that attend those types of "resort's" are folks I for one dont wish to see nude, much less a "teenage girl"...lol...Well on the other hand taking them there might be a way to scare them into a life of lesbianism early on...lol...To steal a quote from Adam Sandler in the movie Big Daddy..."He's got OLD baaaalls"...

Edit:Google some US and Canadian nudist camps you will find some scary photos.....Excuse me I got's to go throw up now...
 longte
Joined: 10/18/2004
Msg: 6
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Posted: 7/24/2005 6:42:33 AM
Being CockCrazy is just the mothers impression/expression
If the child was sexually active she would not be as bad

She is probably from an environment where a penis is something that should be giggled about, and treated as something dirty etc
I take it we are talking about taking them to a decent nudist camp???
Seeing them flopping about in all their wormlike status will bring her down to earth
....
 Skylar1Again
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 7/24/2005 6:43:47 AM
Hedonistdrifter, While your post did humor me, I think you fail to see the point of most nudist resorts.

I stand firm with my original post.
 blowthedustout
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 8
 Vermonter
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/24/2005 7:59:31 AM
This camp is a family camp that has been there since the 50's and they are very conservative. Everyone inside the fence has to be totally nude which is one of the problems. Yes there are old people there but there are lots of good looking people there also. the 15 year old does not want to take all her clothes off, which tells me she has a real issue with self respect and self image. As TheDevilsAdvocate pointed out she is definitely not comfortable in her own skin.

The mother is a experienced RN and I value her decision making ability, I just dont think I should be a part of it since we are not lovers and I am not responsible for her. She says her daughter will not talk to her about sex at all. The mother just hates the creepy boyfriend the 15 yr old brought home and is scared to death her daughter might get pregnant or get VD and ruin her life.

TheDevilsAdvocate is correct, it is about your own body and your own serenity at a nudist camp, not about how other people look nude. Remember that old granny was once a young sexy thing also who would probably have knocked your socks off in her day!


 OnTheBus
Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 7/24/2005 8:29:38 AM
actually, there is quite the naturist movement up in Vermont.

It isnt about sex, from what I understand.

But to answer your question. Her MOM should take her, not you
 JustMe1819
Joined: 12/18/2003
Msg: 11
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Posted: 7/24/2005 8:33:35 AM
ok if you follow in my footsteps you will have a baby at 15 cause you seen one waaaaay to early... so you should wait... till your a little older and more mature... and you know what to do with it
 evanism
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/24/2005 8:36:52 AM
I guess you could do it if the mother doesnt mind a bunch of old guys looking at her nakid teenage daughter. I don't care how family oriented it is, you can't tell me that the guys aren't going to be checking out a 15 yo girl.

If shes "cock crazy" I can't imagine showing her more of them will help the situation.
 ginger tea
Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/24/2005 8:45:14 AM
Excuse the pun, but I really think you need to cover your a$$...my concern is not at all about the camp, but about a mother's take on how to educated her daughter about men and sex.

She is not too smart. If she's scared about her 15 year old daughter's sexual activity and doesn't like her choice in boys, then sending her away in the care of a neighbour man to a camp full of naked men, is really going to confuse this kid.
True there are other kids her age that go to the camp but they are with their families!

Her problems with her daughter could end up being your problem too, after the fact.
Be careful!!!!

I would think that a 15 year old girl would be better guided in a situation like this by a woman, like her mother!

I have no problem with a nudist camp,but I don't see how exposing a 15 year old girl to a lot of naked men is going to help her get a better sex ed.

What a$$ backward idea..lol

 Gotapulse
Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 7/24/2005 8:52:08 AM
I'm with Skylar on this. When they were five it was no big deal. Now they know how it all works. A 15 year old girl at a nudist camp is the same as a 15 year old boy in the girls change room. Really a dumb idea. One or two weekends or whatever at a nudist camp is not going to change the way they interact with men or how they perceive genitalia back in the rest of the world for the rest of their lives. In fact, any time in their lives BUT now would probably be alright. This is a BAD BAD BAD idea. It won't work for the same reason people rent porn movies even though they are married.
 HedonistDrifter
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/24/2005 9:04:53 AM
Remember that old granny was once a young sexy thing also who would probably have knocked your socks off in her day!


Yeah but now her boobs look like SOCKS full of grapefruit...LOL...As the father of a 16 year old daughter, I would have to disagree with the "cock crazy" satatement..That's the age of self discovery and they all have an interest in boy's...

Off Topic: I checked out your last few posts, seem's that you are a devout Mormon from all the quotes you have of the "apostels"...Wonder what they think of you doin the "weenie flop" at a "newdee" camp?...hehehe
 1andlovinit
Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 7/24/2005 9:04:54 AM
a nudist camp might work, but why put the 15 yr old in a situation where her mom is trying to take her out of. i think nudist camps are probably a wonderful place for those that go, relaxing, tranquil, etc...i would feel that i was allowing her to become comfortable with her body too early? if the daughter is obviously c*** crazy then letting her see more isn't really going to work. i'm sure at the resort, it is not a sexual place to be, with the wide age ranges. the couples, yes, but she shouldn't be there to find someone suitable, not the first visit anyway, and not a 15 yr old girl. i think children are fine there, if they've been brought up that way, a teenager though starting? i think it would be more benificial for her to find a different kind of camp or resort where there are things to do. something to boost self esteem, or for her daughter to volunteer or something, maybe get a job she enjoys?
i just know how 15 yr old girls are boy crazy, and when they are like that, they aren't looking at the other "15" yr old boys, more like 17 and up. the experienced ones, and taking her to a nudist camp, my two cents, but i think thats adding insult to injury.
hope i didn't offend anyone
good luck
 Vermonter
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 7/24/2005 11:23:26 AM
The mother does not want to go to the nudist resort alone, she wants a man to go with her and support her in this, someone the kids know. Of course the mother is going with the kids, it could never be without the mother. The mother just wants the 15 yr old to meet other boys her age, boys that will amount to something. I know the looser kid, and believe me he is a real looser destined for prison or worse. The mother wants to start by just finding a quiet spot for the four of us away from the other nudists at the end of the beach and slowly work our way into the nudist society, as the girls meet the other teen age nudist girls. I never had to face this because our kids grew up in a nudist resort and where there since they were babies. I already asked another nudist mother I know who has two teenage daughters to join us that day, and help introduce the daughters to nudist life and take them around the camp to meet other kids.

I always thought a nudist resort is a great place to start a romance, since you both already know all there is to know about each other, so to speak, and can concentrate on non sexual things, but then again, I am a adult not a 15 year old, but I still think young women should know all about all the penisus (what is the plural of penis?) out there and not just fall in love with the very first one she has ever seen, dont you?

The eleven year old is different, she is willing to go and take all her clothes off, and jump right in, and have fun, and she has been asking her mom sex questions.
 WrongFeelsRight
Joined: 7/20/2005
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Posted: 7/24/2005 11:49:21 AM
The mother is wrong, so very wrong. Did I mention wrong? Where is the girls father? I can only bet what his response would be. It is one thing if kids have been brought up with it (like the OP's) but it is a little bizarre that the mother would do it now. Not a good idea.
 trvlingman
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 7/24/2005 12:02:53 PM
if it,s ok with the parents than why not

it could be a real eye opener so to speak.

either way it,ll be an experience
 Vermonter
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 7/24/2005 12:10:39 PM
The father is in prison for selling drugs and will be there a long time I guess. This is probably part of the reason why the mother wants her daughters not to make the same mistake she did. She has talked this over with some of her RN friends and they all want to know how it all turns out cause some of these women have the same problem, and some just think a nudist camp education about sex would be better than the textbook picture of a penis with all the parts labeled. I think they are right about this, but none of them want to be the first ones to go to a nudist Resort. New England puritanical upbringing I guess.
 Blu_guru
Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 7/24/2005 12:31:09 PM
at 11 and 15 they should be focusing on their education not being taken to a nudist camp, especially for the reasons you've stated. i think their mother is wrong for asking u to do it and i think you're doubly wrong for even considering it. shame on her and shame on you
 jennthelpn
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 7/24/2005 12:34:22 PM
haffta agree with blu guru on this one....shame on you both is right!
 Vermonter
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 7/24/2005 2:28:41 PM
Shame? Shame on you both for hanging around this website. We all know what this website is for and what everyone is looking for. SEX, all kinds of SEX!

What is the definition of a hypocrite?

What is the definition of holier than thou?

Hope I didnt upset anyone or make anyone angry.

 jennthelpn
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 7/24/2005 2:33:19 PM
^^ o dear....

Not everyone on here is looking for SEX buddy! I, myself, am looking for FRIENDS...and I have found a whole lot of GREAT people on here!

As far as the definition on holier then thou...I would have to say that you seem to think that it is YOU!

CHILDREN do NOT belong in nudist camps ... give your head a shake!!



OT: Pandy, can this be my one freebie of not having anything to say "On topic" because I am just soooo damn angry!?
 badbadgirl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/24/2005 2:36:27 PM
never heard about books? best way for sex education, no? choose one with pics
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