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 CouplewantA3sum
Joined: 11/9/2011
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tmj is jaw disorder hard to open mouth to yawn and eat laugh yell so i can get head what to do ?????
 ForumsCreeper
Joined: 1/18/2009
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/17/2012 9:02:15 PM
Be happy she cant yell.
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/17/2012 9:07:20 PM
Give her head in the meantime. Then when her TMJ gets better, there can be lots of payback.
 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/17/2012 9:33:48 PM
I used to have tmj and I had no difficulty giving head. You don't actually need to open your mouth far for giving oral sex. It's in the art of the tongue and lips, not in the skeletal system at all. Your girl friend needs to see her GP or dentist and consider surgery. It worked for me.
 darealest1ever
Joined: 5/25/2011
Msg: 5
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/17/2012 9:51:45 PM
I have TMJ myself...and it is not a reason to not be able to give head to your partner. It has never stopped me
 MutedEnthusiasm
Joined: 7/8/2011
Msg: 6
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/17/2012 10:16:03 PM
Maybe you two could start with intercourse and when you’re close she can finish you with mostly hands, along with tongue and lips. Still warm, wet and soft, with less jaw strain.
 OCRebellion
Joined: 2/8/2011
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/17/2012 10:33:40 PM
Hahahaha...boy did she get one over on you!
 slpboo
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 8
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/17/2012 11:20:32 PM
that's a funny excuse for not wanting to give head, lol.
 goldenheart31
Joined: 11/20/2010
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/17/2012 11:56:07 PM
Man, the next time I dont' feel like giving head, I'm totally using this as an excuse. Brilliant!

OP, TMJ will not prevent a girl from giving head if she wants to. She doesn't want to.
 Viper1E
Joined: 11/30/2011
Msg: 10
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/17/2012 11:58:37 PM
Take her to a chiropractor. I have a friend that specializes in treating tmj. Email me for his site.
 ITWYLD
Joined: 11/15/2011
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 12:24:09 AM
Maybe you smell bad 'down there' and she is using TMJ as an excuse........?????


 Pink_Roses_1
Joined: 8/17/2009
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Posted: 1/18/2012 4:23:40 AM

Take her to a chiropractor. I have a friend that specializes in treating tmj. Email me for his site.


Ummm I see a DENTIST for my TMJ.
 infinestforum
Joined: 7/21/2011
Msg: 13
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 6:11:52 AM
Poor gal.. I have TMJ also and it is very painful at times. When I am having a rough time with it, my jaw will often lock up or dislocate itself as the swelling will push it out of place. Quite frankly you may have to learn to live with out having her perform oral on you. In the mean time you can try different positions to reduce the stress on her jaw, neck, facial muscles. Try sitting on the edge of the bed with her kneeling before you so that she is not tipping her head back as much. Never push her head down and for heavens sake hold still and let her control the motions.

I assume she has been seen by her GP / PCP/Dentist/Chiropractor? Have they tried to treat it with an anti inflammatory? Has she considered surgery? BTW the surgery is expensive and not guaranteed to work and can sometimes make it worse.

As for the posters who think that she is using it as an excuse.. umm.. its possible, but most likely if she hurts from just laughing or yelling.. I am guessing she isn't.

Iffy
 carptopus
Joined: 11/9/2011
Msg: 14
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 6:22:23 AM

tmj is jaw disorder hard to open mouth to yawn and eat laugh yell so i can get head what to do ?

C'mon...didn't you ever watch Macgyver?
There's tons of stuff you can do.
You have a dog? And some peanut butter? Just use that, close your eyes, and have your girlfriend make the sound effects.

Or use her lipstick and paint lips on your lubed hand.

Or get a fleshlight with a mouth on it.

Or make your own jell-o mold.

Or go down to the local gloryhole...it's not cheating if it's an anonymous dude, then it's just the same as a numb hand.

There's also tomatoes.

Find a gym with a whirpool hot tub and use the water jet nozzle.

You could always get publicly drunk and go to jail, someone there will probably take care of you.

Tons of options available.
 _PassionFlower
Joined: 11/27/2011
Msg: 15
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 6:28:11 AM
how the hell do u give head WITHOUT OPENING UR MOUTH????
 Viper1E
Joined: 11/30/2011
Msg: 16
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 6:30:33 AM

Ummm I see a DENTIST for my TMJ.


You allow a dentist to manipulate the joints in your jawbone? That's scary.
 Julietsdestiny
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 17
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 6:38:42 AM
So you are a 'joint profile'.
I really don't think this is about giving head I am thinking more of a threesome .
Here you are one...maybe both of you advertising for a woman to complete your sexual fantisies .
It's very sad to me personally to think that you would want to introduce another person into your love life when you are suppose to love each other.
If I LOVED my man then no way would I want another woman touching him.
TMJ? Get over it, it may be the icing on the cake, but you have the cake so eat it too!!!
 4everRadiant
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 18
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 7:18:28 AM
I don't believe for a nanosecond you're seriously asking "what to do?"

From what I can tell, you're both well on the way to 'healing' since you're seeking a 3some, and then some

Does the girlfriend or 'wife' have TMJ, or is this thread simply being used to advertise stated profile desires and specifications?

Whatever the case, 'good luck.' Looks like you're way 'ahead' of us on this one and that you already know exactly what you're doing
 windchymes
Joined: 11/29/2008
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 7:22:51 AM
"TMJ" is merely the name of the jaw joint, the TemporoMandibular Joint or Temporal-Mandibular Joint. The problem you have is TMJ "Dysfunction", and "dysfunction" can have many meanings and causes. The pain in the joint can be caused by injury, overuse (like giving too much head, hahahaha), grinding the teeth at night, misaligned teeth, muscle spasms. Or a combination of the above.

There are different ways to treat TMJ. A dentist can fit you for a mouthguard that holds your jaw in the right position. Or you might need orthodontic treatment. Chiropractic treatment can help realign the skeletal framework, and physical therapy and massage therapy can also help reduce the inflammation and relax the muscles around the joint that cause pain.

Bottom line is, there is treatment available. It really should not be a long-term excuse for not keeping their man happy
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 7:24:49 AM
Funny the OP is a woman, but this sounds so much like it was written by the guy.
 femaleconnection
Joined: 8/12/2010
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Posted: 1/18/2012 8:04:21 AM
The OP is just trolling for a 3some.
 cooldog65
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 9:22:41 AM
So no BJ because of TMJ? Maybe some E&J...


Check out the profile...badonkadonk...yowzah!
 ontario_woman
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my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 9:34:31 AM

my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???


Decide which is more important to you; your girl-friend or blow-jobs
 apurfectmeow
Joined: 11/19/2011
Msg: 24
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 9:35:41 AM
I have TMJ and sleep with a plastic plate fitted for the roof of my mouth.
It relieves the pressure and keeps me from having wicked migranes.
Sometimes I have a hard time eating because chewing can become very painful.
Has it stopped me from giving head? Heck NO! This is ME we are talking about...

Where there is a will there is away.
 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 25
my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???
Posted: 1/18/2012 10:26:15 AM
NOTE if she can chew gum, talk non stop and eat really chewy or hard foods shes probably stretching the truth a bit unless you are rough/to big for her.




my girl cant give me head because she got TMJ what to do ???

^^^^^^^^^^^
Suck it up.




Don't people TALK anymore?







Just don't force it..she may lock down..instead of lock open..YUP happens.
LOCKED like a vice grip.

I can see you and her in the wahmmmbulance now..



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