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|How do you feel about interracial dating? I'm curious to know do most men/woman look to date people with the same ethnicity background? Do you? Why? or Why not?|
Posted: 1/23/2012 1:34:50 PM
|The colour of a girls skin is unimportant to me - I am not worried about their ethnic background. What will makit work or not make it work is how they are as a person|
Posted: 1/23/2012 3:31:37 PM
|I have dated interracially and will do so again when the opportunity arises.|
I am open to any racial or ethnic background, or national heritage.
Because none of those things defines a person's ability to conduct a healthy, fulfilling relationship.
Posted: 1/23/2012 8:06:29 PM
|For me it boils down to: do i find this women mentally and physcally attractive? I see lots of non-Caucasian women that I would consider myself lucky to meet.|
Posted: 1/23/2012 11:35:04 PM
|Variety is the spice of life. Most of the girls I've dated have been outside my race so interracial dating is cool.|
Posted: 1/23/2012 11:58:03 PM
|I am only attracted to Caucasian women so the issue never arises for me.|
Posted: 1/24/2012 8:29:42 AM
|Cute girl with big boobs?|
Who cares what color?
Posted: 1/24/2012 6:49:59 PM
|richenlosangeles -- I love it that you're always laying it right out there!!|
I'm a "Heinz57" or "mulligan stew" so interracial is like, what? I think most people who can trace their ancestry back more than 5/6 generations in the U.S. are more than likely interracial.
I date AfricanAmerican or Hispanic men and never feel like they're in a different ethnic group although I'm sure we check different boxes on Federal surveys, but I look at life a lot differently than any Middle Eastern or East Indian people I've met; I've never found any interest there, on my part or theirs. Men of Asian descent can be very fascinating to me. Or not. sort of like everyone else.
Posted: 1/28/2012 11:47:16 PM
|Different races is an illusion. There is one race. Human.|
Posted: 1/29/2012 7:12:01 AM
Different races is an illusion. There is one race. Human.
Good! We can now do away with all race-based governmental special-preferences.
Posted: 1/29/2012 9:27:06 AM
|OP - Kudos for the new look.|
Most attractive !!
Posted: 1/29/2012 10:55:37 PM
|I'm all for it. My children are bi-racial. I've never dated a white woman. I don't really know why it's just turned out that way. I've just always been attracted to non-caucasion ladies. I guess growing up in an interracial household had something to do with it.|
Posted: 1/31/2012 1:18:46 PM
|To be honest I am at the point where if she has a pulse and can say her name shes in with a shout|
Posted: 2/1/2012 4:44:45 PM
|Lol I good one, I appreciate all the feed back. I was just curious to know. It seems many men on here or perhaps the ones I approach are either close-minded or they just prefer anything but African American. ehh. |
Posted: 2/2/2012 8:53:16 PM
|As an Asian male, I feel your pain. I am pretty open minded and have no issues dating people of different ethnic backgrounds. But whenever I send out messages, the only people who ever respond are Asians. Not that I don't like Asians, it just sucks that it turns out that way.|
Posted: 2/2/2012 9:10:06 PM
|Right, I totally understand. It seems as if they don't even read our messages they just assume from outside looking in, hmnn not my type next. Delete. Like I could have said something in that message worth replying to. It could have been the best messaged you received thus far lol. But I suppose this is something I should expect when it comes to online dating.|
Posted: 2/3/2012 2:55:24 PM
|What are you concerned about ahdorkablee girl?|
Your a young attractive articulate girl not short on wit.
Your a great catch for a guy..Dont worry about the ethic mix of guys messaging you because over time you will get them from a variety of guys
Posted: 2/3/2012 5:56:45 PM
|I truly appreciate those kind words "). I'll just hope for the best.|
Posted: 2/4/2012 7:16:52 PM
|Beauty doesn't discriminate. Cultural barriers are more difficult are more difficult|
Posted: 2/9/2012 2:03:36 PM
|It Seems most Men of color want a White Girlfriend. What does that say about Women from their Ethnic Background. Who cares, we are all just people.|
Posted: 2/9/2012 8:56:55 PM
|I was raised in a Jewish community outside of Detroit. Which I believe makes me more attracted to Jewish and Caucasian men. I have dated a few men of my race, but I am not into dating thugs with saggy pants or corn rolls. It ultimately is not the color of the skin, but the similarities, it just so happens the men of color that approach me do not have many common interests. The ones I want to date go fast. |
Posted: 2/10/2012 11:05:51 AM
|I have been posting on forums for about a year, and one of the saddest things for me is to see an endless stream of very attractive women kvetching about how their skin color is "wrong". Good Lord, can't you PLEASE give us a break??|
If you're wanting pizza, do you go into a Baskin-Robbins store? If you hunger for some BBQ do you go to the vegetarian cafe? Huh, do you?? How's that workin' out for you?
If you want white men, here's a little tip for y'all: go to where the white men ARE !!! Is that tough to remember? Maybe you can print this post and tape it to your refrigerator door, just to keep it fresh in your mind.
Here's another point to ponder- Ever notice how much time, effort, money, even physical danger white women will endure to try to look less white? Ever look at women's photos in profiles and see all those deep tans? Why do you think they do that? Easy answer, ladies of color: They want to look more like YOU !!!
"White = pasty complexion = unhealthy, get it??
Men want attractive women, period. Color may matter to some, if so, there are PLENTY of others who would be quite happy to stroll down Rodeo Drive with a tall, pretty woman like the above poster. Me, for example.
Note: if you don't know what "kvetching" means, you may want to brush up on your yid-speak before you go out to snag your next Jewish man. (It always helps to know the lingo.)
Posted: 2/12/2012 7:12:23 AM
|Skin color? It makes absolutely no difference to me whatsoever. In fact...my profile indicates Im "color blind" to race. |
On the other hand...I am somewhat culturally aware of differences. I would have to think hard about dating an "inner city" lady who had a very poor grasp of English and acted outragiously (in a negative way)...be it latino slanglish, black Ebonics, etc etc. If she is mainstream...color simply means nothing to me. In fact..I welcome ladies of other races. Ive met some very interesting ladies of other races over the years. I dated a black lady for a number of years...she was gorgeous, smart, a self starter and didnt need a sugar daddy to keep her. And she was Republican!! Yeehaw!!...chuckle. Big problem was..she was working on her JD and we drifted apart a bit because both of our work loads got in the way. But I still call her occasionally and we still have the warmies for each other..though life got in the way.
Culture is the biggest issue when it comes to "race". Shrug