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 xfact0r3
Joined: 9/6/2011
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Yea yea, I know the age old question. I got a crush on this girl who is absolutely beautiful. Shes always messin around with me such as: tickling me in my sides, shooting rubberbands at my johnson(we call it target practice lol), (and I proceed to shoot them back at her butt) if we're talking and i say im about to go outside she begs me to stay. We constantly talk trash to each other in a fun sarcastic way. Example: The other day she did something not intentional and i called her a dumbass, and someone else said nah it wasnt her fault and i said nah..shes a dumbass(sarcastically) and she looked at me with that look like she wanted to tackle me and said "thats gonna get you far with a grin". A while we were around a whole group of people, while everyone had their backs turned she looked at me and shoved half a banana down her throat. Just recently I kinda brought that back up cause I seen someone with a banana and she was sick and I said thats what you need, potassium. She replies "oh..I like potassium with a big grin"

One day I was walking up about to talk to her and she was bent over with her hair hanging down looking like cousin IT.. all of a sudden she flipped back up and put it in a bun and I instantly got weak in the knees lol. We don't have anything in common but phyisically we can't keep our hands to each other it seems like. Sometimes ill notice her looking at me. But heres the catch. She just started to talk to someone else and communication has dropped if we're not around each other. Is this because I haven't made a move or am I just a friend??

Are these signals im picking up on signs of attraction, or a girl just being a girl? HELP!
 Sunny_Coaster
Joined: 9/3/2011
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Posted: 1/30/2012 9:26:46 PM
The boats headed left already and you're heading way right. You put the woman on a pedastool and didn't make a move. You have missed your opportunity. She was giving you the hint and you dropped the ball. Take this as a learning experience to actually make a move rather than die wondering. She's already moved on.
 FrankieSayRelax
Joined: 6/11/2011
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Posted: 1/30/2012 9:31:17 PM
I think you missed your chance. She was flirting back and you were oblivious to it.

Your ship finally came in, and there you were....at the train station.
 Landra2
Joined: 6/4/2009
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Posted: 1/30/2012 9:36:40 PM
Yep, you missed your chance.
When the banana-as-a-phallic-symbol didn't get your attention, she wrote you off as a non-starter.
 xfact0r3
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Posted: 1/30/2012 9:39:26 PM
but she was dating someone at the time when she did the banana thing.. now shes single and are supposed to go to the movies Sunday. Do I still have time to pull a rabbit out of a hat?
 iRencakes
Joined: 8/9/2011
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Posted: 1/30/2012 10:05:34 PM
I say go for it. She obviously wants you. Could be for a number of reasons or just physically but she's single so game on. Even if she is talking to some other guy you should give it a shot and see if she responds. Better late then never. And if she says no then at least you tried and you won't have to ask yourself "what if"
 xfact0r3
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Posted: 1/30/2012 10:21:09 PM
^^ That is true, Ive already began to beat myself up over it lol. Ill see her tomorrow and do our usual flirting and ask her out then. Time to get my man face on
 Silent Steel
Joined: 2/18/2009
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Posted: 1/31/2012 10:02:16 AM
There is some good news to all of this. When she shoots rubber bands at your Johnson, there is very little chance of her hitting your ball sack, since it is n where in sight after reading this thread. Find it, attach it, adjust it, then ask her out.
 ladypenelope007
Joined: 1/15/2012
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Posted: 1/31/2012 10:19:46 AM
You dont have to have anything in common to be attracted to a person, and you know what they say about about opposites attract . Those signals were signs of attraction on her part for sure, just hope you aint missed the boat, but what is meant to be wont go by ya. Actions do speak louder than words but guys so hard at picking up signals like us gals lol. You still have her as a mate so you never know what is round the corner. Good Luck
 codemiester2006
Joined: 5/28/2009
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Posted: 1/31/2012 11:29:48 AM
Ha ha I feel ya bud... you may have missed your chance. I was oblivious to girls flirting too for a long time but I eventually boiled it down to when she does something that makes absolutely no sense... aka asks questions that have no bearing or what have you. I have learned when to spot it even when to spot when to make the move... still workin on the actuall move making part tho lol. Good luck but dont dwell on it.. let her get her little romance out of her system then you may be able to strike again lol
 Alter_Nate
Joined: 10/1/2011
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Posted: 1/31/2012 2:56:18 PM
The reason why she was flirting with while she had a boyfriend is because many young girls/women like to have someone else lined up before they even consider splititng up with their current partner. They wont cheat, but they will have the next guy "primed" so to speak. I work with mostly women and some have openly admitted this. You'd be suprised how come it is for women to "trade up"
 xfact0r3
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Posted: 1/31/2012 8:27:29 PM
well heres an update: she said the other dude is actin wierd and i said well don't get mad but i wanna put my name in the hat and take you on a date.. she smiled and said yeah thats fine. we're still on for sunday, and she asked me to go saturday with her to the bar and downtown thursday night. so we'll see!!
 xfact0r3
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Posted: 1/31/2012 8:30:38 PM
I don't base my relationships off of horoscopes but im a taurus and shes a libra.. is our signs compatible?
 Silent Steel
Joined: 2/18/2009
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Posted: 1/31/2012 8:41:57 PM
"Put your name is the hat" is the best thing you could come up with? You may as well said..."I guess I am the next in line to date you".
 easygoinginsfl
Joined: 12/13/2011
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Posted: 1/31/2012 9:54:08 PM
congrats man she must really like you if she accepted your cornball date line.

nice to see a positive ending to a thread every once in a while.

and oh yea.....CRAP MAN the next time a girl shoves a banana down her throat and smiles at you the very least you can do is cop a feel... just grab something man even if it's just an ear lobe. Believe me if a girl does that she does not have a boyfriend. Just someone she keeps around for giggles.
 tuthseeker
Joined: 2/15/2009
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Posted: 2/1/2012 12:34:09 PM
Fact you missed out dude.
it may not be to late though
so go for broke
 Sunny_Coaster
Joined: 9/3/2011
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Posted: 2/1/2012 2:10:35 PM
Fact, plenty of girls like to test out a range of new models and will always have a range of new models lined up. You might have hit on one of these. At this stage, go for broke, make your move, the worst thing that can happen is you get shot down. Better than not trying however.
 BearFish11
Joined: 1/28/2010
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Posted: 2/1/2012 2:35:09 PM
your in good shape IMO, good luck
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 2/1/2012 3:02:08 PM
Good grief! Ask her out unless she's a kid, and take her on a date. You put out such mixed signals that I bet she's no more sure of whether or not you like her as you are about how she feels about you.
 _Italiangirl_
Joined: 12/5/2010
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Posted: 2/1/2012 3:07:31 PM
You're 27?
Your posts resonate high school level functioning.
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