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Most girls stat that they're looking for a nice guy who's gonna treat them right blah,blah,blah....but is this really true
Also the same girls tend to also state that men and women are equal?
Who do girls REALLY prefer and why?
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| Nice Guys vs Good guys with a lil' devil inside
Posted: 2/2/2012 4:34:59 AM | Oh they love the nice guy but want the excitement of the bad guy.
Yep they all want honesty blah blah but they dont want an angel. They want the guy to be a bit of a mystery. They want the challenge. They want someone to take the lead.
I learnt a lot from a guy (yep never to old to learn !!) Impecable manners. But behind that he was naughty in most directions.
Ive also noted when out that if Im with a nice looking lady that I get a lot of interest from other ladies. Ive even been out with and other ladies have approached me. There is a lot to the saying that ''If he is good enough for her he could be good enough for me''
Then they want to get one up on the lady you are with. They actually want you to cheat !!
So guys if you want to attract lovely ladies find a nice looking lady to be with !! Take your sister if needs be !! | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 4:41:59 AM | | Aaaaah! Now I know why my younger brother often asks me to go along with him on a night out clubbing! and there was me thinking he had my best interests at heart and was just trying to cheer me up or get me "out there" again haha! busted! ha! | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 4:43:00 AM | Then they want to get one up on the lady you are with. They actually want you to cheat !!
So guys if you want to attract lovely ladies find a nice looking lady to be with !! Take your sister if needs be !!
Do you really want to be with a woman who would be happy for you to cheat on the one you're with? (I'm not suggesting you would cheat) I can't imagine her being too faithful a partner.
OT, don't all humans like the combination of a nice person who has a touch of the naughty about them too? Adds to the fun...
Edit: I don't doubt that women do that! I just wondered what kind of partners they would make, that's all. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 4:46:16 AM | | It's the same for men, I can't begin to count the amount of times I've heard men saying they want a lady on the outside who they can bring home to the family, a Galloping Gourmet in the kitchen and a whore in the sack, ha! | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 5:02:00 AM | I think most women like a bloke to be a bit of a maverick...but still pays his bills on time. A balance of cheeky go getter but steady eddie when he needs to be.
Women noticing blokes out with female company, the attraction is probably that he's the kind of bloke who takes his partner out for the evening and knows how to show her a good time AKA he's being romantic! women love a bit of romance. I was in a club a while ago with a lifelong best (female) mate when i noticed another women looking at us just before she came up and said she thought we made a lovely couple.
But i guess most blokes after a stella inflated ego trip just think "ooh she's looking at me..she wants it" when it's probably a long way from the truth, she's probably just admiring you as a couple. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 6:02:07 AM | It's the same for men, I can't begin to count the amount of times I've heard men saying they want a lady on the outside who they can bring home to the family, a Galloping Gourmet in the kitchen and a whore in the sack, ha
yes.thats why i think it is best to have a couple of women on the go at once..have one who is a galloping gourmet at the hot stove and keeps her gob shut and does as she is told..and then a few others who are whores in the sack..if you get the balance
right..then life becomes all cakes and ale..you only live once..so its important to make the most of it.. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 6:27:22 AM | The US "expert" David DeAngelo - whose advice appears on these sites - is very interesting on this subject. He maintains that while women say they want to attach themselves to "nice" guys, they most want men who present some kind of challenge to them. Cheeky, brash guys who do not go out opf their way to please them and keep them on their toes, even to the point ofmessing them around a bit.
I agree. Of course, there is a fine line between being too nice to a woman you are attracted to and not nice enough. Sadly, I have tended to fall into the former category!
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Posted: 2/2/2012 6:28:46 AM | Sooooo .... about every three weeks I get a message or three from a random woman, usually quite old enough to know better, who thinks it's a great idea to get down & dirty after about three sentences.
I used to be quite puzzled by this, but I've come to the conclusion that they think it's a great laugh to try and wind up someone my age.
Unfortunately, I can more than hold my own with this stuff, and they soon vanish off back into the woodwork....
I suppose it's equivalent to the sad bloke flashing on the street corner, but it never occurred to me that women could be that odd - I must be getting naive....
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Posted: 2/2/2012 8:33:23 AM | These women who claim to like 'bad boys' amuse me, because they are clearly happy to date someone who might:
1) Shag their sister and/or mother, then wonder why they make a 'fuss' about it.
2) fail to turn up for dates.
3) insist on doing *that* in the bedroom.
4) abuse them in some way
5) treat them with disrespect
6) harm their pets
7) be a total tw@t
Good luck to such women, but let them moan about such things to those who actually give a damn. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 11:48:07 AM | I like a man who can take care of business...but is a pussycat with me...
Confidence, courage, asserts himself but is not a threat, and yup is a cheeky devil
anyway thats the ideal, and he doesn't exist so.... I'll wait for the next best thing | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 1:15:05 PM | I find that many women can be very contradictory When it comes to their views on men and who they are attracted too.
Why else do so many women end up with the same type of guy that has treat her so bad in the past even though they have exhausted the reasons why these guys are so wrong with friends and family and is able to advise others on how to spot and avoid them?
Us guys are much more transparent and predictable . Are we not?
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Posted: 2/2/2012 3:01:55 PM | Two of my best friends are female and they have boyfriends, but whenever It's just the three of us out somewhere, I have noticced I get more looks but no approach if my friends are nearby. Even comments from other men trying to high five me. it's wierd because it doesnt even look like I'm with either of them.
Seems like people want what they cant(or think they cant) have. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 3:07:55 PM | There could be something in the 'you are more attractive if you are with somebody' notion...
On my last date a month ago, I was dancing in a club happily with my date, having a great time,we did notice a young man watching us and smiling, didn't think any more of it...I eventually went to the ladies and on the way back this young man grabbed my arm and pulled me back...he said 'you're cute'...I was very surprised at that but duly said thank you and moved back towards my date, who was watching, the young man then grabbed my arm again and pulled me back and said 'I just wanted you to know that, ok?'...I nodded and moved off...
why doesn't that happen when I am not on a date?...weird... | |
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Posted: 2/2/2012 5:24:24 PM | Women (as a general statement) are attracted sexually to complete ar5eholes "alpha male" types, but they're attracted intellectually to the nicer guys.
The former is instinct, a left over from millions of years of evolution, from the days when all a man did was club stuff to death..... The later is about knowledge, modern life and what your brain says you need.
Does that answer the question? | |
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Posted: 2/3/2012 2:02:20 AM | I agree with MSG3, and disagree with the clinical Strider type. I hate Alpha males, who muscle up at the gym and shave their heads...ewwwww
Personally i think a decent , funny, sexy, affectionate( not clingy) guy can exist. Prefer types that can debate, be sarcastic and caring when needs be. Why on earth would anyone want a simpering nice guy who agrees with everything and is OTT with the romance.. | |
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Posted: 2/3/2012 2:54:40 AM |
I hate Alpha males, who muscle up at the gym and shave their heads...ewwwww
That isn't what an alpha male is, actually.
http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-an-alpha-male.htm | |
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Posted: 2/3/2012 3:09:04 AM | | As I said. We look at someone and if they are good enough for someone else they could be good enough for me. On the other hand ever been to a singles do and seen the men standing around the dance floor, pint in hand gawping at the ladies dancing around handbags. No wonder they are on their own gawping. They obviously cant interact with others, have no friends etc. They would be much better turning their backs on the dancers and chatting to someone, male or female at the bar. If you look desperate you are desperate !! Who wants a Billy no Mates !! | |
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Posted: 2/3/2012 3:40:55 AM | A man should be a man, but being a nice man makes you no less of a man!
I also believe that a woman should be a woman.
Maybe if we stuck to our roles, we'd all find someone utterly wonderful | |
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