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 kkjk
Joined: 2/4/2012
Msg: 1
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So, I've been on POF for about a week now, and almost all the "men" I've met on here, assume that I want to see shirtless or naked pics of them (including their member), this is not even close to the truth. Are the women on here really that shallow that desire this type of attention? I mean seriously, call me old fashioned, but isn't that type of nakedness meant for the bedroom? Maybe if it was summer, and the pages were flooded with beach shots, but that is hardly the case here in MN. Thanks all!
 Blah_User_Name
Joined: 8/27/2011
Msg: 2
Why do most men assume I want to see naked pics of them?
Posted: 2/8/2012 4:40:06 PM
Welcome to on-line dating where the average member is a tool !

Actually, that's unfair - there are some great people on here but there are also a few who are a couple of sandwiches short of a picnic. Don't engage with them - simply block them, there is an option to do so within the message. Don't delete the message first.

Give it about a month and a half and the knob pictures die down to be replaced by messages from people old enough to be your grandfather or your enough to be your - well, maybe not your but certainly my son.

Embrace the diversity !
 Aristotle_Amadopolis
Joined: 12/8/2011
Msg: 3
Why do most men assume I want to see naked pics of them?
Posted: 2/8/2012 4:46:22 PM

Why do most men assume I want to see naked pics of them?

It is not just you, we assume everyone wants to see us naked.

It is coded in our DNA.
 kkjk
Joined: 2/4/2012
Msg: 4
Why do most men assume I want to see naked pics of them?
Posted: 2/8/2012 4:48:54 PM
haha thanks! It just seems like eventhough I clearly state that I do have morals and strong beliefs, they ignore that part...but lets face it, we are talking about men here. I guess it's partly my fault because I stupidly gave out my personal email, and to my surprise, I was woken at 2am this morning with a very desterbing perverted picture of his erect penis. Thanks! Like I really wanted to be waken out of a dead sleep to look at a giant penis. Jerks!
 chasinglamely
Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 5
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Why do most men assume I want to see naked pics of them?
Posted: 2/8/2012 4:49:54 PM
Ugh, guys are such a-holes. I'd have a sex change to avoid being lumped in with them if it didn't mean I'd lose the ability to pee standing up and procreate.

Can I just apologize on behalf of all the douchebags among the male half of our species and move on?
 motown_cowgirl
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 6
Why do most men assume I want to see naked pics of them?
Posted: 2/8/2012 4:57:32 PM
Welcome to internet dating, sorry.

You can go to your profile settings and either turn off the chat thingy or only make it work for your favorites. That way you won't get Sir Jerksalot hitting you up for some free internet porn.
 psytle
Joined: 3/7/2011
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:03:49 PM

I guess it's partly my fault because I stupidly gave out my personal email, and to my surprise, I was woken at 2am this morning with a very desterbing perverted picture of his erect penis.


Ugh, there are some serious creeps out there that ruin this site for everyone. Apologies.

Best suggestion: be cautious about your personal contact information in the future, and definitely don't provide such things on your profile for all the weirdos to see.
 Aristotle_Amadopolis
Joined: 12/8/2011
Msg: 8
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:04:42 PM

call me old fashioned, but isn't that type of nakedness meant for the bedroom?

I get lousy cell coverage in my bedroom so I have to use it else where.
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:06:13 PM
Thanks for your service young lady! She was in the Navy guys, lets all get out of the gutter for this one, eh?

You might be able to measure a man's member on the box here but you can't measure character with anything but real world time. Perhaps being a beautiful single mother some of the less than dignified among us assume you might have come here in an act of some sort of desperation. You play enough long odds and one is buond to pay off.

As to what anyone clearly specifies on here don't ever expect the deceitful among us to respect your wishes. Posting declarations of "no cheaters, liars, etc." would IMO be a sign of weakness those types take like a hog to the hoppiest of slop.

Ignore that which doesn't interest you, however upsetting. Good luck.
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:18:22 PM

lets face it, we are talking about men here.

i was with ya till this. now i'm thinking birds of a feather, since a sexist is just a variety of jerk. you come into a forum called ASK A GUY and write something like this? really?
 meechpeach
Joined: 7/29/2011
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:23:38 PM
They think you want to see them naked because they want to see YOU naked.
Durrr.

Just send some naked pics, all the cool kids are doing it.
 part deux
Joined: 11/11/2008
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:31:01 PM
Wow, pretty gross.I don't know what to say, as I have never received a nude pic from a man on this site.
 Arata_na_Yoake
Joined: 1/25/2012
Msg: 13
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:37:34 PM

So, I've been on POF for about a week now, and almost all the "men" I've met on here, assume that I want to see shirtless or naked pics of them (including their member), this is not even close to the truth. Are the women on here really that shallow that desire this type of attention? I mean seriously, call me old fashioned, but isn't that type of nakedness meant for the bedroom? Maybe if it was summer, and the pages were flooded with beach shots, but that is hardly the case here in MN. Thanks all!


I think you're actually quite fortunate. Now you instantly know what their intentions are and which guys to block, I think the alternative - where a guy pretends to be nice and plays games - would be much worse.
 mFrit0114
Joined: 9/18/2011
Msg: 14
Why do most men assume I want to see naked pics of them?
Posted: 2/8/2012 5:37:37 PM
Lol, there would be no complaints if it were the other way around. I've yet to be sent a naked pic from a woman....I'm keeping my fingers crossed :p
 BeeRad82
Joined: 1/27/2012
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:41:35 PM
She said it was a giant. He'll list her as a reference now.
 Aristotle_Amadopolis
Joined: 12/8/2011
Msg: 16
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:41:57 PM

I've yet to be sent a naked pic from a woman....I'm keeping my fingers crossed :p

FYI: More than not, the ones sending the naked pics are not ones that you would like to see naked.


just sayin
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 2/8/2012 5:42:58 PM
Well I have received some nude pictures from women, and asked to cam and when I turned it on, there are the legs spread and I have to step back to see the rest.....

Come on folks......a majority of us on here may be sexual, and may want sexual things from others, but overall we do contain ourselves until invited, and those minority males that seem to have this need to shock women, or somehow think women want this from strangers, just make the majority of us look bad......

I have no need to prove anything, no need to force myself on any woman, nor have a need to flash my body, just to get a rise out of them. I am one of the majority that enjoy women, adore them in most ways, and want to please them and be pleased, but I see no need to go where not wanted, not accepted, and not invited.

cd.........
 dogatron
Joined: 9/5/2011
Msg: 18
Why do most men assume I want to see naked pics of them?
Posted: 2/8/2012 6:01:14 PM
just tell him you want to suck on it, and get it over with... quit ****ing
 NolitaFairytale
Joined: 10/4/2011
Msg: 19
Why do most men assume I want to see naked pics of them?
Posted: 2/8/2012 6:02:38 PM
Have you changed your mail settings so people who have looked for intimate encounters can't message you? That may weed some of the creeps out. I have my mail settings like that, and I haven't had that many guys offer me naked pics recently. I actually have had MORE guys ask me for naked pics though instead of offering me theirs! lol. :P FOR THE RECORD: I did not send them!!
 pjinmd67
Joined: 1/9/2012
Msg: 20
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Posted: 2/8/2012 6:06:59 PM
Part of it is you get certain clowns short of a full deck who blast scores or hundreds of women in their area. (Anonymity of the internet works to advantage of the disturbed and over-aggressive who do things they wouldn't dare in a live social setting.) So you and otehr women hear from those types out of proportion to their numbers who ruin it for the rest. The hundreds less apt to do something that obnoxious are not glaringly represented in your inbox. Plus this free site in general attracts a less serious, together element than some others. So claiming what most men in general assume is probably more about what you assume from a certain sample.
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