| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/24/2005 10:12:42 PM | tonight my son who is four was getting ready for bed..
and i was just about to go tuck him in,when he came screaming in my room
i was freaked,from him screaming and ask what was wrong..
he looked at me with this serious face and said. mommy i broke my penis..lol
i was like what u did what,trying not to laugh it caught me off gaurd..
and he said mommy it won't go down and he started crying it won't go back down..
now i was freaked out none of my kid's went through this and i was stuck as to what to say for his age..
i just told him ***** it is normal it is not broken, and u'll be fine..
i had no clue what to say to him how much he could under stand..
was i wrong?? should i have explain why it has up there??
i don't want to give him faulse information, nor have him think i'll laugh next time he needs help..
any advice..pls.. | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/24/2005 10:40:08 PM | "Here honey... let me put ice your boo boo, then it will go down and be OK"
or
"Have you been reading Playboy?"
Sorry. That's just too funny.
I wouldn't dwell on it.
Sorry again! I can't stop laughing long enough to give serious advice. | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/24/2005 11:47:46 PM | my son is eight and I haven't had this problem yet, but most have. should *I* be worried???
I'm at a loss as to what to say as well. GUYS!!! HELP!!!! | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/25/2005 1:58:43 AM | Awww, poor little guy. I guess your lucky if this is the first time you have had to deal with that...my twins constantly have their hands down there and making it grow, they are 4 also.
I feel what you said was fine. I tell mine if they want to play with it to take it in their room and that you don't do it in front of people. Mine have never left the room to do so...don't know what I would do if they did. Probably would have a heart attack since they are so young. LOL I have 5 boys, but none of them have ever thought they broke it...I am sorry but that was tooo cute. | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/25/2005 3:30:40 AM | | yeah cute for you women...but traumatizing for the poor boy!!! lol JK...dont make a big deal about it and he wont either. you did the right thing ..boys will be boys and somtimes things just pop up..just be thankful he didnt do to you what my son used to do to my ex...come running out of the bathroom naked yelling WOOWOOOWOO!!! and shaking his thing at her....funny as hell but lost its cuteness after the 3rd or 4th time | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/25/2005 8:02:34 AM | You handled it just fine. At that age, I don't think he needed any more details.
Same thing happened to me, and I would NOT have known how to handle it either, thank heavens my stepdad was there...
My son, age 3, proudly walked out of the bathroom with his pants down to his ankles and proclaimed "LOOK! I HAVE A BIG PEE-PEE!"
I think I went into shock...my stepdad immediately said "yep, you're hung like a horse, now let's get your pants back on"
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/25/2005 8:22:58 AM | it is funny
and every one i ask laugh's as i can't stop laughing my self...
this is when grandpa would come handi..lol.. | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/25/2005 10:18:37 AM | | that's happened to me too! My son is 4, he says look how big my winky is! He's not circ'd but he noticed one day that there was an opening...he was mortified! He thought it was broken and cried his dear eyes out! | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/25/2005 1:04:24 PM | | omg im glad i have a girl lmao but i still get funny questions the other day my daughter had jsut gotten out of the bath tub and she looked down at her chest and said mommy i have little boobies and you have big ones i just tried to ignore it and get her dressed and then she goes when i become a big girl like you will mine be big. I didnt relaly know how to respond because well i dont feel to comfortable tlaking to a 3 year old about the size of her chest lol. | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/25/2005 4:32:01 PM | lol my son is 14 months old and is already obsessed with his new found "toy". every time i go to change his nappy, its a fight to see how quick i can get it on without him launching into a frenzied attack! in the bath i have to distract him because he's so rough with it! i used to put him to bed with just a nappy and vest in the summer..when i woke up..he'd ripped the nappy off..needless to say he now wears trousers in bed lol maybe by the time he's 4 he'll be bored of it? my 7 year old was never really bothered by his "toy", tho loves to walk around showing it off to the utter disgust of my elder daughter. oh well..i guess boys will be boys. | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/25/2005 10:29:31 PM | | And it's not like a boy's fascination with his "toy" lessens as he becomes older!! Ooops, did I say that out loud?! :) | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/27/2005 8:36:58 PM | | Dont worry, my son did the same thing, I just told him "sometimes it does that" lol. He also wear little toddler boxers and just figured out how use the hole in it. He is tries to show everyone. He is very proud that he learned that. Boys will be boys. lol | |
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| how would delt with this!! Posted: 7/27/2005 8:39:30 PM | | tell him to think of baseball stats... oh wait.. that's for something else. | |
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