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 Spirited_Wolf

Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 1
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/6/2004 7:00:56 AM
There are lots of oral sex threads and maybe this one will get the boot because it follows many, but I must ask...

Describe what you are looking for in satisfaction. There are those who prefer hairy women and just love to do that or this or the guys who prefer bald women so they can do this or that, and the women who prefe size and those who dont....

What are you looking for...
 schmidtt

Joined: 11/3/2004
Msg: 2
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/6/2004 7:09:12 AM
I think oral sex between two comitted people is good. You know you and her are the only ones who are that intimate. I being an older man need that little bit of stimulation. It is especially good if its a young girl!
 Mr_Simple

Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 3
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Posted: 11/7/2004 4:27:28 AM
Hi Zee;

Deep down. For me anyway I just want to make someone I love happy and feel wonderful when I can. I think most mature men think that way. Some men would rather give it than receive it.

I don't think it should be given freely. I also feel the same way about intercourse. Those are two acts that should be earned by oneanother. Sometimes anticipation can really bring two people together stronger.

As for what would I be looking for in oral sex? The answer is nothing. What I would want is a person that could talk to and laugh with, someone to go to when I am down and vice-versa, Someone I can share things with and someone to love. What ever type of sex we have would then be all the more special. Sometimes the best oral sex is just a kiss, the words "I love you" and "Good night love"

I have never posted a comment like this since I have been on POF. Most of my posts are to make people laugh. I guess there is a first for everything. I hope I answered your question from my point of view.

Mr. Simple
 krystalchimera

Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 4
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/7/2004 4:55:32 AM
aww simple..geez ..
 Spirited_Wolf

Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 5
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Posted: 11/7/2004 6:41:08 AM
welllll there was nothing simple about your answer - thankssss it was sweet too
 Spirited_Wolf

Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 6
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/7/2004 6:47:46 AM
I could say here how to give oral and I can even put how I want things done orally, but the best thing about oral sex is that someone is doing it right. I cannot say anybody can do it right, no sireee, its not done right unless you know your own body. Especially women. There are women who have never seen their own private parts let alone know what an orgasm is or was, only reason I know this is because they do studies on this and while studying in school I had to take Sex Education for Adults. Let me tell you, there isnt anything like having over 20 people in a room blush at the same time, eventhough many of us were either married or non single and sexually active. This professor was more of a doctor and he talked to us like adults. He asked personal questions, gave surveys out and over all taught us all a thing or two. And one of the things about Oral Sex he stated was that those who do not know their own bodies will never actually appreciated this act because they do not know what to look for, stepping out of the box so to speak. A guy can have an orgasm just by standing in the wind but a woman needs are different and more complicated. This guy went on and explained gratification of the penis and vagina and I have never blushed so hard in my life.

Anyhooo, any one else have thoughts or comments, what does one need to do to obtain the best orgasm during oral sex ?
 Spirited_Wolf

Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 7
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/7/2004 6:55:59 AM
lmao now there ^^^^^ goes someone who is truely a hero - a guy who would give his services for oral study
 mom3

Joined: 9/10/2004
Msg: 8
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Posted: 11/7/2004 8:14:50 AM
Mr. Simple that was so very orgasmic! To be serious, though, as I have posted, sex (of any kind) is much more enjoyable with someone you love. I would also like a kiss, the words "I love you" and "Good night love".
 YadaYadaYada

Joined: 10/7/2004
Msg: 9
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/7/2004 12:19:47 PM
when discussing oral sex....I look for a man who is willing to learn..no woman likes it the same way..and if he doesnt want to take the time to implement what I like..what feels good for me..there is no point..and the sex will be bad as well..
 harryarse

Joined: 9/15/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/7/2004 8:11:47 PM
is it possible to mess up that bad givin oral???????????
 CROSSFADE

Joined: 10/12/2004
Msg: 11
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/7/2004 8:56:18 PM
I dont like a hairy area, but Im with cedric... It cant really be bad. I suppose it could going down on a woman, but more involved, but I LOVE IT!!!!! As far as her going down on me... nah, you cant mess it up... granted you can make it better, but you cant get it wrong.
 pnkflyd639723

Joined: 11/16/2003
Msg: 12
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/7/2004 9:09:59 PM
I do believe the day I got my tongue ring....that was a huge deal with my boyfriend. He said it definitely made things better. But hey....I am good at everything I do no matter what! And no........there is no possible way a guy could be bad at going down on a girl....or maybe I have just never came into contact with one?!
 giggleparts

Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/7/2004 9:31:39 PM
I am looking for a girl that will not gasp in abject horror when I take my pants off. That would be a good start....
 juzamjedi

Joined: 10/20/2004
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/7/2004 10:06:10 PM
would a giggle be appropriate? lol sorry but I just *had* to ask
 giggleparts

Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 15
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Posted: 11/7/2004 10:08:00 PM
Dude, why else would I have the name.... of course it is appropriate.... and I mean that too. BLAHAHAHA pencil down a mine shaft! Hotdog down a hallway! WEEEEEEEEEEEee!
 teddah

Joined: 6/7/2004
Msg: 16
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Posted: 11/8/2004 10:16:28 AM
I wish more women would say what they want in bed....tell me what they like so i can do it...
 BuckeyeBabe

Joined: 11/1/2004
Msg: 17
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/8/2004 10:36:11 AM
Hell YEAH it is!!! My spouse STILL cannot find my frickin clit... AND it's super sensitive, large, and EASILY located by my past lover!! I'm not only VERY responsive, but a sexy yummy juicy gusher (major!!) and for any man to NOT make me cum orally.... well.... he's broken. That's all I can say..... Hmmmmmm.......... Any oral guys in Columbus, OH out there who love to be flooded with tasty female jizz!? Write to meeee....... =lusty giggle= I am seeking a local lover for once a week fun. And YES, I am very skilled at GIVING not just receiving oral! Lollipop, lollipop!! Woo HOOOOO!!! ;-)~~~~~.......<======B Bring it!
 Spirited_Wolf

Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 18
Oral Sex
Posted: 11/20/2004 8:33:52 PM
Buckeye - dont you think if he is not working correctly you shoud get him some batteries-- just kidding ...



- is it possible he knows how you feel about your past lover - and he may feel adequate about what he is doing ?

why not teach him how you like to be pleased - not explaining that past lovers did it this way or that way - not saying thats what you may say - but perhaps - becoming a teacher he will become a great student
 Niki Li

Joined: 1/15/2005
Msg: 19
Oral Sex
Posted: 1/30/2005 8:00:45 PM
Please allow me to put in my opinion about this subject. Personally, I think it should be a mutual thing. I, myself don't mind giving as long as I receive in return. I only reciprocate what I receive. Simple as that. When it gets to the point that its 'one sided', then forget it. I mean, it's only fair!! Also, whatever happened to "Ladies first?"
We don't get off as easily as men do, so therefore it's only right to tend to our needs first and then we'll be (well at least I'll be, anyways) happy to give in return.


If you want it bad enough, then show us, or rather, demonstrate to us how you want to be pleased. Keep in mind that what you give, you shall receive in return!


Am I right or am I wrong? I'm just speaking from my personal experience.

(well, this was originally supposed to be a reply to a certain member on here that asked about how to get a woman to give oral. Couldn't find it so i posted it here. sorry)
 Ms. Picky

Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 20
Oral Sex
Posted: 1/30/2005 8:35:32 PM
I completely agree with Niki Li! That one-sided crap doesn't fly with me. And ladies should come first (pun intended). Sex is better after oral...at least for me it is. And don't even think about just going there for a few seconds. That is not enough time to properly lubricate a woman! If a man doesn't get me off before intercourse, then intercourse is not happening.

As for the hairy thing...There is so much pressure on women about being nicely trimmed, (I always think of Andrew Dice Clay's act when I talk about this!) which is fine with me, because i'm all about hard wood flooring! But, I just need to ask...MEN...what about you guys??? Don't you guys stop and think that women would like you guys to be nicely trimmed too? After all, there is no need, whatsoever, to floss your teeth with a guy's pubes. We can't possibly do our best work when hair is in the way.
 carter57

Joined: 1/7/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/30/2005 8:45:30 PM
I love to play a two partner game of sorts...

Before the two of you actually engage in anything oral, agree to a "Hot and Cold" session....Talk about it...

He goes down on me, and I say Cold, until I feel what I truly like, then its Hot, maybe he'll try another cold, but eventually it will just be me cumming while saying, Hot, Hot, Hotter, Hotter...he understands that he'll get a turn to teach me exactly what he like too....and no ones feeling are hurt trying to correct things that weren't as good as they shoulve been....

Do I like it....Oh yes definitely....most especially with both mouth and fingers....because for me both take oral sex over the top...but if you just ask me, I'll teach you that....
 Heaven03

Joined: 1/30/2005
Msg: 22
Oral Sex
Posted: 1/30/2005 8:47:20 PM
If my man or woman isn't open to what I like then it'll be fustrating to say the least.
 CWayne23

Joined: 1/25/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/30/2005 11:48:33 PM
I like it shaved or with little hair.
 livinlife67

Joined: 7/15/2003
Msg: 24
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Posted: 1/31/2005 1:08:32 AM
Oral sex, yes please,...
lol
 JessKO

Joined: 1/18/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 1/31/2005 1:16:54 AM
If your partner doesn't give oral....they are selfish and should be dumped.
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