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 OTKneeded
Joined: 2/14/2012
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I see there are other, older threads started about spanking, but I haven't seen this question.
For those that like spanking, have you ever spanked yourself? Do you enjoy a good DYI spanking, or is it something you do when feeling the need but have no partner to give you a sound spanking?
 Full_of_Grace67
Joined: 11/15/2011
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Posted: 2/18/2012 9:00:36 AM
I have short arms so it's hard to get my hand around, lol.....Besides, it's like trying to tickle yourself; not the same
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 2/18/2012 10:47:08 AM
An interesting question. I'm not a spanking fan myself, but I am a fan of understanding all ranges of human behavior.

I would suspect that what your question goes to, is whether it is the physical sensation alone, or the psychological component of having someone perform the activity that attracts someone to it.
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
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Posted: 2/18/2012 10:51:25 AM
^^

I would suspect that what your question goes to, is whether it is the physical sensation alone, or the psychological component of having someone perform the activity that attracts someone to it.


not really into spanking or being spanked myself, but would guess it's much better to have someone do it to you

one can't really "tickle" themselves with the same result as when someone else does it. part of it is not knowing exactly what you are going to 'receive' which one can't help knowing if one is also the 'giver' as well as the 'receiver'
 A_Gent
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 5
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Posted: 2/18/2012 11:31:59 AM
Hmmmm... need to experiment here...

whack... Oh you're such a naughty boy.. whack... do you want another?... whack... thank you sir, May I have another... whack......

nope... doesn't do it for me.

But you go ahead and enjoy yourself!
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
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Posted: 2/18/2012 3:24:11 PM
The O-Post reminded me of the scene in Secretary where Lee tries to spank herself with a hairbrush. Nope...self-spanking just didn't work for her. Doesn't work for me, either.
 OTKneeded
Joined: 2/14/2012
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Posted: 2/18/2012 4:27:52 PM
That movie is GREAT. and that scene you mention, that's the one in the bathroom stall and the other girl comes in....funny!
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
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Posted: 2/18/2012 6:32:14 PM
Actually, no...the one in the office's restroom stall is where she's thinking about Mr. Grey and masturbating, and the paralegal overhears her in there. The self-spanking scene is her alone at home, lying on her bed. But still great scenes, nonetheless. And self-spanking still works less well than masturbating...lol.
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
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Posted: 2/18/2012 6:50:08 PM
Spanking is a kinky act. You can not do it for yourself. It is just like masturbation if you call it having sex. Both are Lunatic. But sometimes masturbation is necessary. Nothing is like the real thing. Give me a thick p*sy to eat and a thick ass to spank that is the ultimate joy in like.
 Jimbonator62
Joined: 6/11/2006
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Posted: 2/18/2012 6:58:43 PM
Kind of reminds me of that classic insult we all too often use "Go f^ck yourself!" How exactly does one do that?
 OopstooLate
Joined: 2/1/2012
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Posted: 2/18/2012 7:05:35 PM
YES! lol! If I'd had a paddle probably would have been more effective...
Kinda one of those times you wish you had 4 arms...lol!

Certainly better with a partner...
 OTKneeded
Joined: 2/14/2012
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Posted: 2/18/2012 7:30:36 PM
"Actually, no...the one in the office's restroom stall is where she's thinking about Mr. Grey and masturbating, and the paralegal overhears her in there. The self-spanking scene is her alone at home, lying on her bed. But still great scenes, nonetheless. And self-spanking still works less well than masturbating...lol."

Of course! I'll have to spank myself now! LOL!
 NooNarNay
Joined: 1/21/2012
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Posted: 2/18/2012 7:46:44 PM
i like it rough, but someone else needs to do it to me for me to enjoy it.

its far more erotic that way.
 LathaMath
Joined: 1/30/2012
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Posted: 2/19/2012 10:08:27 AM
I think you have to be a monk or a Scandinavian to get pleasure from self flagelation. Apparently it's either religious or cultural or both. In England being spanked gained popularity in the school system so it often only works with someone dressed at a headmaster or headmistress although there are numerous cases of transference to more generlized administrators.
 otkswitch
Joined: 6/13/2008
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Posted: 3/22/2012 8:05:58 PM
yes i have spanked myself but i tend to let up instead of delivering a good swat. I have used straps crops and hand but would much rather
find someone to redded my ass
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
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Posted: 3/22/2012 8:34:58 PM
"I think you have to be a monk or a Scandinavian to get pleasure from self flagelation."
Wow, have you got a lot to learn.
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 9/8/2011
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Posted: 3/22/2012 9:11:17 PM
I like to be spanked, it feels good. I even like to spank myself, but I prefer having someone else do it. Especially doggy style..lol
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
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Posted: 3/23/2012 3:20:05 PM
addicted to getting spanked, bent over in a mini skirt. god damn .
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
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Posted: 3/23/2012 4:03:06 PM
lol i got my azz beat everyday when I was a kid whether I needed it or not ..


so yea, I guess !
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 9/8/2011
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Posted: 3/23/2012 4:11:34 PM
LMAO me too and my uncle giving me birthday spankings when I was little..it made me so mad I threw my present and smashed it..lol My mom and my aunt gasped..but you gotta blame it on my uncle a little bit..was embarrassing,
 soo-girl
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Posted: 3/23/2012 5:30:34 PM

The self-spanking scene is her alone at home, lying on her bed.


She was in the bathroom, I think. I seem to recall the bathtub in front of her when she bent over.

I love the scene where she's making out with the guy she's dating. She keeps putting his hand on her butt and he keeps moving it to her back. Finally, she turns around and lays across his lap with her butt up in the air and he still doesn't have a clue.

Such a good movie.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
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Posted: 3/28/2012 6:48:48 PM
love getting spanked hard in a short little skirt
 Starlightcafe
Joined: 11/6/2011
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Posted: 3/28/2012 7:55:44 PM
I never thought I'd like it, but its kinda fun if you are with the right person. I'm with Madonna on this one: "I get a little cranky if I can't get a good spanky..." LOL.
 SecretSub
Joined: 11/10/2011
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Posted: 3/29/2012 10:53:02 AM
Sure, you COULD spank yourself. But why?

A good spank friend is much more enjoyable, and you know there are some lurking on here. ;)
 marie2107
Joined: 11/14/2011
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Posted: 5/5/2012 2:27:44 PM
Hmm never even thought of spanking myself. It would either be like trying to tickle myself or actually painful and I'm just not into self harm behaviors. But yes having my man spank my ass just the right way is so HOT!!
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