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 4ever4real
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 1
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so far ive only found that the people on pof want to date for sex. is this the case or is it just me?
 Darkbutcomely
Joined: 4/20/2011
Msg: 2
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:18:09 PM
My eyes are starting to open to this fact also. Yes
 4ever4real
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 3
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:22:00 PM
one guy i chatted with for sometime told me this and after some time on here i do believe it! very disenchanting!
 mrmisterme
Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 4
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is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:24:09 PM

so far ive only found that the people on pof want to date for sex. is this the case or is it just me?


Let's see....you're on pof...that means you want to date for sex. Yep...it's you, all right.

You're not complaining, are you?
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 5
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is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:26:06 PM
Yup.
Women in here use me plenty.

I should get a hobby.
 4ever4real
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 6
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:26:10 PM
yes i am complaining!
 warlin
Joined: 3/3/2008
Msg: 7
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:26:16 PM
I think so too. I keep changing what I am looking for and it doesn't matter. I usually have friends listed as what I am looking for and then I realize that men might think FWB.
 Innatelypassionate1
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 8
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:28:26 PM
I have talked to many people who seem to want just sex.

There are plenty of men here who also want more.

Just a matter of weeding out the losers.
 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 9
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:33:27 PM
It's all I've gotten out of it, even though I was looking for more.

I know it's odd that I'm complaining, but ya!

And no; it wasnt pity sex, well maybe one of the times I took her to bed was out of feeling bad that she needed it so bad, and wanting to get rid of her torture....but hey.

I hate to say it; but it seems like it is for sex,a nd for ulterior motives; not so much for ongoing dating or positive relationships.

 onceagain57
Joined: 11/25/2011
Msg: 10
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:43:55 PM
Geeee...WaWa....this is a free sight so whatcha expect....even woman ....mostly dreamers do it.....takes all kinds...grow up and weed-em out....people are less likely to do this on the real pay sights sooo spend some of your hard earned money....sheees!
 Jimbonator62
Joined: 6/11/2006
Msg: 11
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is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 6:52:50 PM
I just come here for the popcorn.
 surfaceofficer
Joined: 8/8/2011
Msg: 12
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 7:11:12 PM
If you think this place is bad; you should see date.hook.up (all one word. Suck it POF auto-moderation).

That place is a brothel; forums are better though.
 lacalli
Joined: 1/12/2012
Msg: 13
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 7:19:12 PM
Sex? I've never seen so many people getting so little sex in my entire life. That's why they're so cranky on the forums. Always bickering over nothing. Then running to the mods and reporting it. Of course one person is responsible for 90% of the tattling.
 dreamfire
Joined: 11/22/2011
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is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 7:38:52 PM
So, THAT'S what I'm doing wrong!!!!!

<-------makes note to change profile to actively seeking dating for sex
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
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is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 7:47:07 PM

Sex? I've never seen so many people getting so little sex in my entire life. That's why they're so cranky on the forums.


I know that's the reason I'm using for my sparkling happy go lucky attitude!!!! If this place is only for sex, is it's not doing a very good phucking job,on my end anyways.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
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is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 7:47:51 PM
I'm looking for a knitting partner. Isn't that the purpose of guys dating women?
 MyScreennameRox
Joined: 12/11/2011
Msg: 17
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 7:53:30 PM

Sex? I've never seen so many people getting so little sex in my entire life. That's why they're so cranky on the forums. Always bickering over nothing. Then running to the mods and reporting it. Of course one person is responsible for 90% of the tattling.


 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 18
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 8:43:06 PM
Since POF is free, we are getting what we AREN'T paying for. Anyone who is anyone can create a profile here, therefore, since a lot of these "people" signed up for free they think they can get the milk for free.

Just my opinion.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 19
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is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 9:13:00 PM
Maffers, eharm was quite a bit different than PoF, and I don't see the same people here at all. What paid site are you talking about?
 soicat
Joined: 3/3/2010
Msg: 20
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 10:24:55 PM
OP - if you want to have a man in your life who doesn't want to have sex with you, you pretty much have to get married.
 AnEvilgenius
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 21
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/21/2012 10:44:07 PM
I have a pic saved to my computer made out of the POF logo.
It reads, "plenty of fish, for men who can't afford prostitutes" ..
I think that's a little over board but I'm sure there are a lot of grown adults using the site for hook up's etc. To each their own.
 faerlan
Joined: 1/12/2012
Msg: 22
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/22/2012 12:18:39 AM
Sex? I've never seen so many people getting so little sex in my entire life. That's why they're so cranky on the forums.

Damn, you got me all figured out. SOMEBODY, HLEP ME OOT, PLEESE?

@23 Personally, I love this one:
http://www.explosm.net/db/files/Comics/Rob/fishies.png
 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 23
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/22/2012 1:45:52 AM
yes i am complaining!

oooops. Say, have you heard of this new dating site called craigslist personals? Men never look for sex there and you only get flowers in e-mails.
 4ever4real
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 24
is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/22/2012 2:32:41 AM

Which really means your good enough for right now, but holding out for an upgrade...


OMG you are so right! They keep thinking something better is gonna come along!


OP - if you want to have a man in your life who doesn't want to have sex with you, you pretty much have to get married.


 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
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is pof only for sex
Posted: 2/22/2012 3:04:01 AM
I can't figure out where I fit into all this. I'm one of the many "not getting any" here, so if POF is all about hooking up for FWB's, then I'm a total failure.

I'm not the one telling on anyone for having sex (there's someone doing that?), so at least I'm not the tattle tale.

I'm not angry that I'm not getting sex toys here, so I don't fit that group, and I'm not paying for other sites, so I'm not one of those.

Oh well.
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