| | 26 never had a "serious relationship" Page 1 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | Hi im 26 iv never had a serious relationship, and im not very lucky with the ladies. This site is prof of that, as non ever msg me back. Can any one tell me what im doing wrong do i need to just forget about getting a girl friend and go back to my xbox?  | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/6/2012 4:07:10 PM | Wants to date but nothing serious? is your status and you need to add more info about yourself.
Plus change thos pics to recent and clear. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/6/2012 4:13:36 PM | Hey thanks for the reply. I just changed my status to that from looking for a relationship. Guess i should change it back. Cheers for the advise.  | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/6/2012 4:26:16 PM | | OP, you're 26 not 86,lol!! I don't think that you need to throw in the towel yet:) Just hang in there, be patient and I'm sure you'll find someone! | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/6/2012 4:27:42 PM | Need some damned pictures to start
with ...excuses not accepted since you
are a good looking guy....no I don't
lean that way so don't go there !
A little patience maybe, you joined
2/27/2012 ! | |
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Posted: 3/6/2012 5:23:08 PM | | redo your profile...it sucks...add better pics....Go get some edicate classes, some training in convo with woman...most of all be happy with YOU...go out side and do things YOU like to do! woman are out there, u just have to go out side and walk away from the PS3... | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/6/2012 6:23:46 PM | "go back to my xbox?"
Why not make a pledge to stay off the thing for say... 6 months.
In the mean while, take some courses, read some books, go out and meet people and learn about them.
Become an interesting person by doing interesting things.
Or not. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/6/2012 7:04:52 PM |
redo your profile...it sucks...add better pics....Go get some edicate classes, some training in convo with woman...most of all be happy with YOU...go out side and do things YOU like to do! woman are out there, u just have to go out side and walk away from the PS3...
yeah, what he said... Some correct spelling and grammar would be nice too. Good luck dude.  | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/6/2012 7:15:54 PM | Don't go hunting for a girlfriend, just hangout meet new people and let it flow naturally.
Get off the video games and mingle! | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/6/2012 8:42:39 PM | Its all in your head for one, confidence is the main thing. Like you I play lots of video games but I also spend lots of time exercising which boosts your confidence and makes you feel heaps better about yourself.
Really to attract girls to you have to appreciate and be confident of yourself once you can do that girls tend to notice. Sometimes you just have to go "Stuff it what have I got to lose" and if you get chucked back then you move on. If you think of yourself with a high standard they tend to notice but there is a fine line between having high standards and being a arrogant prick lol. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/6/2012 9:35:08 PM |
This site is prof of that, as non ever msg me back. Can any one tell me what im doing wrong
For starters, get rid of the Pee-Wee Herman look in your photo. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/7/2012 5:08:45 AM | Thanks for the kind comments, i will take ur advice and stay of the Xbox 
Pee wee herman lmao Ok I have a problem with pics as i hate having my pic taken.... Any one ever seen the friends where chandler has to have his pic taken with monica? Well thats me lol! Most the pics i have are of me djing, people seem to take them when im not looking. can i use these? Im told its a turn off for women if you look like a show off?  | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/7/2012 4:56:43 PM | | With all respect, have you ever considered the military? I can't think of anything that would help you find your true self faster and better. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/7/2012 5:01:28 PM | | what do you consider a serious relationship, i'm 27 and i've never been in a relationship that lasted longer than 6 months. i think it's just a sing of the times. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/7/2012 8:17:16 PM | You need to put more in your profile.
If you have any interests that can include somebody like going to the beach or hiking Id include that, it could help someone picture being with you doing something they also might enjoy.
What club/clubs or events have you DJ'd at? Maybe someone on this site has gone to them when you DJ'd or has heard of them. Once again, it would sprout a mental image of you at these places and if they like clubbing it'll make you seem pretty interesting.
What did you go to university for and where? You may get a message inquiring about that or they may be like "Hey I know you!" or "I went there too! my dorm was in C where was yours?".
Get a picture of you outside. Preferrably doing something or surrounded by friends so you dont look like a loner :-P | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/9/2012 10:06:35 AM | | I was 26 when I had my first relationship. It happened out of the blue one night when I met Kathrin. We were together for eight years. It sounds like a cliche but it can often happen when you least expect it. If the truth be known I think you're better of in the real world. The amount of success men have here does not seem to justify the efforts they have to make. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/9/2012 6:21:04 PM |
With all respect, have you ever considered the military? I can't think of anything that would help you find your true self faster and better. WTF?????
I agree. I can assure you that being in the military doesn't make you a better person by any extent of the imagination. I look at all of the sh*tbag sailors around me, and I just think that they were probably just like this before the joined. The only difference is that now they know how to address a senior enlisted/officer and they know how to stand at attention. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/10/2012 2:01:57 AM | Ask some of your friends for help with how you dress and how you present yourself. Also no one wants to be with a boring person. Ask yourself, if I was a girl why would I want to be around me? Be fun and be a good person.
Get out there and meet people; you are a young person and it takes work. You can't find love at a click of a mouse; it takes time and work. Get out there and meet people and improve yourself. you will do fine. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/10/2012 2:09:44 AM |
If you have any interests that can include somebody like going to the beach or hiking Id include that, it could help someone picture being with you doing something they also might enjoy.
What club/clubs or events have you DJ'd at? Maybe someone on this site has gone to them when you DJ'd or has heard of them. Once again, it would sprout a mental image of you at these places and if they like clubbing it'll make you seem pretty interesting.
What did you go to university for and where? You may get a message inquiring about that or they may be like "Hey I know you!" or "I went there too! my dorm was in C where was yours?".
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/10/2012 2:36:14 AM | | Step around to the other side of the booth and dance with a girl! Go out with some friends and tell ethem to bring some of their friends you haven't met yet... you know NETWORK! Beefing up your profile a bit might not hurt either agreed. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/10/2012 2:52:27 AM | | I'd expand the profile a bit more, give details of other interests and the things you like to do, say what traits in a woman you look for and what you're hoping to find. Do you like travel, days out, visiting cities..that sort of thing? Try to have some outside photos of you smiling doing fun things. The DJ stuff is cool but show you have a life outside of the nightclub. I wouldn't worry about your age and not been in a serious relationship, things happen when they happen, is never a race. I wouldn't pin all your hopes on finding a girl here, look elsewhere also or on other sites. I too have loads of messages never responded to, so do many other guys. Hope you get on alright. | |
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| 26 never had a serious relationship
Posted: 3/10/2012 6:47:44 PM | | I'm 33, and my longest relationship was like 4 months. Everyone has advice, none of it works. It's the cards we've been dealt. I'd say think positive, but it is pointless. | |
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