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 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 1
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im just curious if mmf threesomes are easier or harder to arrange than ffm
and how many people would be open to doing something like that.
maybe its just good to leave it for porn
but depends how open minded you are. i think starting off with friends would be better than having it in a relationship
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 2
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Posted: 3/28/2012 7:08:51 PM
So OP are you asking this question in order to draw interest in a MFM with yourself? If so are you willing to have both inside you at the same time in one fashion or another?

I can't answer your question as to which is easier as I have had neither. But I would guess a woman would probably have an easier time convincing two men to bed her at the time than a man would convincing two women to do the same.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 3
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Posted: 3/28/2012 7:10:21 PM
I'm not sure. huge issue for a lot of guys is the crossing swords deal and not many want to do that. no i am not, just curious about it.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 4
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Posted: 3/28/2012 7:13:08 PM
I'm pretty sure a threesome of any variety would not be difficult for a woman to arrange.
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 3/28/2012 7:14:18 PM
Can't report directly about either, but I will happily volunteer that I would never have anything to do with an mmf.

It has nothing to do with being open-minded, it has to do with knowing absolutely that I have no desire, interest, or appreciation of having naked sexually aroused males anywhere near me.

The people I have read who have reported participating in such things always claimed that it was very easy to arrange, but then I've noticed that the more willing someone is to brag about their sexual exploits, the more likely they are to at least claim to have an easy time finding willing partners. I have always assumed that being able to take rejection extremely well would be a handy skill to have, as a tool to set such things up. Also, having a rather wide variety of acceptable body types would help.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
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Posted: 3/28/2012 7:19:58 PM
there are lots of females would try a mmf but thats a bit trickier to set up than say a mff.
most guys would be down to do something like that with 2 women
but hard to find any willing guy who would actually want to be naked and very close to another guy as well
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 3/28/2012 7:27:48 PM
Well it's my understanding that: MMF= The 2 males play together AND with the woman
and MFM= The 2 males STRICTLY play with the woman then you would have to find 2 bisexual males. Or a man who's open to playing with another male. And I agree with abelian.....probably NOT too difficult to arrange.
 phil2847
Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 3/28/2012 7:43:07 PM
Pretty easy to find........Just go to Adult Friend Finders and post what you are looking for!
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 9
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Posted: 3/28/2012 7:51:06 PM
there are lots of females would try a mmf but thats a bit trickier to set up than say a mff.

Well, first you need to realize that there's a subtle difference between mmf and mfm. When it's written as mmf, there's male-male contact implied. When written as mfm, one assumes that there will be NO male-male contact. As a woman, I'd think you could set up either one fairly easily although the mmf would be more difficult. An fmf or ffm is probably easier than an mmf because women seem to be a bit more heteroflexible than guys.

maybe its just good to leave it for porn

That depends. If you're in a relationship, yeah, it's probably best to leave it for porn unless you and your partner are really, really, really comfortable with the idea. If one of you is doing it to accomodate the other, you can probably kiss the relationship goodbye. On the other hand, if you're single and you know a few guys you think would be fun in the sack, all you probably have to do is ask. Why let a fantasy go unfulfilled if you have the chance to fulfill it?
 New_Direction12
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 10
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Posted: 3/28/2012 8:17:51 PM
Trying to find a guy for just about anything sexual is not difficult in the grand scheme of things. MFM is extremely easy; all you have to do is ask a guy and he is more than likely ready to play. MMF is a little more difficult, but fairly easy to accomplish if you just wish a one time experience. Having enjoyed every permutation of threesomes, it's the woman who is the key on determining what she is willing to allow or enjoy.

I had a MMF relationship with a couple for several years and it afforded me some of the most enjoyable experiences of my life. It was an extremely rare relationship and will probably even more difficult to duplicate.
 Kentish-Man
Joined: 3/7/2012
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Posted: 3/29/2012 9:55:45 AM
How many threads/posts are you going to make on this topic? You're 19 and pretty, if you can't get two guys to bone you then I have to call shenanigans on your intentions here.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 3/29/2012 10:15:02 AM
cautiousluv..

That's my understanding as well.
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 13
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Posted: 3/29/2012 5:22:06 PM
MFM or mmf arrange the letters how ever you want I'm not getting into bed with another guy, no way no how. I've been invited to take part in this kind of threesome like 3 times, one of them was from a woman, I just laughed and walked away. the other 2 times were from two friends of mine who said it was their g/f's fantacy. I just said well I hope you have some other friends you can ask. LOL
 annette001
Joined: 9/22/2011
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Posted: 3/29/2012 8:18:29 PM
i think it is a lot harder to find guys that will do a mfm 3some...a lot of guys think this is a gay thing,and dont like the fact of being that close to another naked guy.. girls on the other hand a lot easier.. most girls see nothing wrong with being in the same room together naked and not doing anything together... there are men out here thou that are willing,just have to look harder,than if it was a fmf...go to adultspace.com can find anything your looking for..lol
 theskwerl
Joined: 12/4/2011
Msg: 15
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Posted: 3/29/2012 9:11:26 PM
In my opinion/experience it's easier to arrang ffm than mmf. I've had 3 ffm 3somes and only 1 mfm. Women, in my experience, are naturally more sexually open with eachother. I've had an mfm 3 some. A little weird, but not bad, no man on man play involved.
 newtoark
Joined: 12/26/2010
Msg: 16
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Posted: 3/29/2012 9:17:48 PM
Can't speak for all, but I enjoy MMF and MFM
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 17
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Posted: 3/29/2012 10:23:09 PM
How many more threads and topics? dont like it, than leave. its not a hard thing to do.
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
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Posted: 3/29/2012 10:36:26 PM
well Im currently watching a a mmff on cam doing every combination available. So I figure not that hard. Oh and ones prego!
Oh and yes there are a few sites specifically for swingers.
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 3/29/2012 10:57:54 PM

cautiousluv.. That's my understanding as well.


Yep.....but I'm sure someone will come along and tell us we have it wrong!
 Easytoplease64
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 20
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Posted: 3/30/2012 6:58:22 AM
I've never had a MMF experience although I would love to try it with my boyfriend. We have done one night with FFM and I loved it. He says he has no desire to watch me with another man. I say what is the difference if he allowed me to have sex with another woman and him isn't sex sex no matter what the gender with another person then your current lover? I'm somewhat new to POF so not sure as to where to post my question regarding that so this thread seemed to work for me. So why do men have issues with another male in a sexual encounter but think its really hot to have two females? Doesn't that seem double standard?
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 21
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Posted: 3/30/2012 8:04:58 AM

So why do men have issues with another male in a sexual encounter but think its really hot to have two females? Doesn't that seem double standard


This would be a good topic to start a new thread on but put it in sex and dating and not ask a guy or ask a girl
 Kentish-Man
Joined: 3/7/2012
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Posted: 3/30/2012 9:37:21 AM

cherry_blossom20
How many more threads and topics? dont like it, than leave. its not a hard thing to do.


It's not about me liking it or not....it's about me questioning your motives. A high percentage of your posts are "OMG I love sex me", almost as if you're just trying to gain attention from guys.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/30/2012 10:19:06 AM
she is nineteen ..maybe she does love sex ..when I was nineteen I had a nineteen year old girlfriend that was ...OH my god I love sex me ..another one I shouldnt have let get away
 fwb1553
Joined: 2/28/2012
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/30/2012 11:02:17 AM
Ok maybe I can help..I have been in both a mff and a mfm..I am straight and so was the other guy which is my friend.With the two women they were both bi and friends that I hang out with.With the mfm, the first time was with my friend and his wife..We got on each end then switched then we dp her and I didnt feel uncomfortable at all.The second time was a night out drunk with a girl that another friend and I picked up.She said she always wanted two guys at the same time..We did lots of oral and lots of screwing..not on each other..I dont think it is that hard to set it up infact after the second time my friend and i posted on craigslist and done it 3 more times since..
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 25
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Posted: 3/30/2012 11:09:32 AM
So why do men have issues with another male in a sexual encounter but think its really hot to have two females? Doesn't that seem double standard?

Well, it would be a double standard except for one crucial fact. Most women also think of fmf or ffm threesomes as being more attractive than mmf or mfm threesomes. The vast majority of women I have talked to have been rather meh about an mfm threesome and replused by the idea of a threesome with male-male interaction. It's not a double standard if both men and women have the same preference, since neither gender is being catered to at the other's expense. I really don't understand why women don't find mfm or mmf threesomes as appealing as guys find fmf and ffm threesomes, but that's a question better addressed by psychologists. I personally think it's rather weird that women's preferences are not just the gender reverse of men's preferences, but that's the way it is.
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