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 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
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When the going gets hot and heavy, why is it that some women back away from a guy doing some finger-foreplay on her? Sometimes, it seems like they just aren't o.k. with anything going in there except for 'Big Jim and the Twins'...for lack of a better name.

I've been with self-conscious women who don't want a guy going down on them, but I can't figure out what the problem is with fingers.

Can any of you ladies out there enlighten me? I'd really appreciate it!
 BustyBabe
Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 2
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:30:47 PM
I can't understand why there would be a problem....I'm all for it. Ride them fingers!!!! Get 'em nice and juicy and then enjoy the taste.
 dreamswords
Joined: 6/24/2005
Msg: 3
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:32:29 PM
peoples hands carry alot of germs and bacterias,they also hide very well underneath
the nails,some woman might be conscious about that...
 Bailey Rayne
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 4
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:34:03 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^.......would never have guessed that would be an answer........

OT...Never have....Never will....as a matter of fact.........I usually get a finger or two while we are out...........
 jdw1
Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 5
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:37:27 PM
do u clip ur fingernails????
 Rader 002
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 6
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:38:58 PM
wp ladies dont like fingers
 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:40:26 PM
@jdw1

I have to keep my fingernails short to play gutar. I take excellent care of my hands, am quite hygenic in all respects, and have a reputation for being really good at the foreplay activities. So I can't see how it would be a problem with ME.

Good question, though.
 Bailey Rayne
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 8
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:43:03 PM
^^^^^^ Im gonna kick myself for saying this...but my god...you make me wanna take up guitar...........

OT...........Fingering is wonderful............
 jimi77
Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 9
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:48:04 PM
dirty finger nails???
 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:53:27 PM
@bailey

You wanna learn? I could teach you a thing or two...

@jimi77

Already covered that, bro...not an issue.
 Bailey Rayne
Joined: 6/29/2005
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 5:54:42 PM
OH I DO.................I do............god I do.........but a thing or two wouldnt take long enough.........

OT.........Wont back away from a good finger..........
 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 6:01:40 PM
West Virginia, eh? So how long is it going to take for that bike to get you up to Calgary? I'll start planning for your first...second...third...fourth...and fifth lessons, and we'll go from there.


OT: Just to clarify...it's NOT about cleanliness, I'm wondering about what the psychological or physical problem be? I'm not the only guy this has ever happened to, and the only woman who was ever open about it was abused when she was young.

To add to the original question...what about those who don't mind the cunnilingus, but still don't like fingers?
 brandilou
Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 13
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 6:09:01 PM
o.k. that was a great question. the only way I can "get there" is through foreplay (maybe through lack of a better lover) so I love hands anytime all the time. it's my fav part of the body. I prefer that over anything except kissing, well both is always good too. But if a women runs from a hand she is just crazy. You need someone who enjoys the same foreplay that you do. My case is that if certain things don't go on (rather talented or not), if he doesn't even try certain things. It doesn't go any further. cuz for me , I won't "get there" so there's not really a point unless I just want the closeness and the rush.........
 Bailey Rayne
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 14
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 6:09:11 PM
Mapping it..............

OT......finger me.......... ...I mean I like fingers.........
 Sundoll
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 15
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 6:10:04 PM
The only reason I am backing away is to push them in again!! Bring it on!
 çòúntrÿLÏn
Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 16
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 6:12:24 PM
Scratches head.......... HUH ????? lol wow... uh... don't know what to tell ya hon..... more foreplay the better ! fingers, mouth WHATEVER lol .........
 bambi75
Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 17
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:21:58 PM
Well i can honestly say that i have backed away once.....dude actually cut me down there with his nail. Holy hell did that hurt! Guys- keep the hands well groomed!
 Mzzzy
Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 18
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:24:43 PM
Maybe cause most guys use them like a big jack hammer!!!!..be easy...ya ain't drilling for oil!
 tiffi78
Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 19
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:29:59 PM
the only time i can think of that i would back away is if he was rubbing my clit to hard...i like it fast and soft

edit::.. and wet
 dreamswords
Joined: 6/24/2005
Msg: 20
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:32:54 PM
and wet
 Crayola
Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 21
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:33:32 PM
Some men don't know what they are doing with their fingers, and hurt us.
 september18
Joined: 5/30/2005
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:38:47 PM

Some men don't know what they are doing with their fingers, and hurt us.


YES and men jam thre fingers into you like a hard **** and it's just not the same thing
FINGERS ARE FOR THE CLIT
 parkinov
Joined: 1/19/2005
Msg: 23
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:47:37 PM
1 in the stink, 2 in the pink...they love it!!!!!
 giggles80907
Joined: 7/21/2005
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Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:56:35 PM
Personally, I think fingers work better than "Big Jim and the Twins." They move independently with a LOT more dexterity to hit the right spots. My favorite is the thumb on my clit and a couple of fingers working inside
 sarahb
Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 25
Why do some women back away from fingers?
Posted: 7/26/2005 7:57:33 PM
maybe - cause they are nutz......
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