| | Why do some women back away from fingers?Page 1 of 7 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7) | When the going gets hot and heavy, why is it that some women back away from a guy doing some finger-foreplay on her? Sometimes, it seems like they just aren't o.k. with anything going in there except for 'Big Jim and the Twins'...for lack of a better name.
I've been with self-conscious women who don't want a guy going down on them, but I can't figure out what the problem is with fingers.
Can any of you ladies out there enlighten me? I'd really appreciate it! | |
|
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 5:30:47 PM | | I can't understand why there would be a problem....I'm all for it. Ride them fingers!!!! Get 'em nice and juicy and then enjoy the taste. | |
|
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 5:32:29 PM | peoples hands carry alot of germs and bacterias,they also hide very well underneath the nails,some woman might be conscious about that... | |
|
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 5:34:03 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^.......would never have guessed that would be an answer........
OT...Never have....Never will....as a matter of fact.........I usually get a finger or two while we are out........... | |
|
jdw1
| | Joined: 6/14/2005 Msg: 5 | |
| |
| |
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 5:40:26 PM | @jdw1
I have to keep my fingernails short to play gutar. I take excellent care of my hands, am quite hygenic in all respects, and have a reputation for being really good at the foreplay activities. So I can't see how it would be a problem with ME.
Good question, though. | |
|
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 5:43:03 PM | ^^^^^^ Im gonna kick myself for saying this...but my god...you make me wanna take up guitar...........
OT...........Fingering is wonderful............ | |
|
| |
| |
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 5:54:42 PM | OH I DO.................I do............god I do.........but a thing or two wouldnt take long enough.........
OT.........Wont back away from a good finger.......... | |
|
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 6:01:40 PM | West Virginia, eh? So how long is it going to take for that bike to get you up to Calgary? I'll start planning for your first...second...third...fourth...and fifth lessons, and we'll go from there.
OT: Just to clarify...it's NOT about cleanliness, I'm wondering about what the psychological or physical problem be? I'm not the only guy this has ever happened to, and the only woman who was ever open about it was abused when she was young.
To add to the original question...what about those who don't mind the cunnilingus, but still don't like fingers? | |
|
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 6:09:01 PM | o.k. that was a great question. the only way I can "get there" is through foreplay (maybe through lack of a better lover) so I love hands anytime all the time. it's my fav part of the body. I prefer that over anything except kissing, well both is always good too. But if a women runs from a hand she is just crazy. You need someone who enjoys the same foreplay that you do. My case is that if certain things don't go on (rather talented or not), if he doesn't even try certain things. It doesn't go any further. cuz for me , I won't "get there" so there's not really a point unless I just want the closeness and the rush......... | |
|
| |
| |
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 6:12:24 PM | | Scratches head.......... HUH ????? lol wow... uh... don't know what to tell ya hon..... more foreplay the better ! fingers, mouth WHATEVER lol ......... | |
|
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 7:21:58 PM | | Well i can honestly say that i have backed away once.....dude actually cut me down there with his nail. Holy hell did that hurt! Guys- keep the hands well groomed! | |
|
Mzzzy
| | Joined: 7/10/2005 Msg: 18 | |
| |
| |
| |
| |
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 7:38:47 PM |
Some men don't know what they are doing with their fingers, and hurt us.
YES and men jam thre fingers into you like a hard **** and it's just not the same thing FINGERS ARE FOR THE CLIT | |
|
| |
| Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/26/2005 7:56:35 PM | Personally, I think fingers work better than "Big Jim and the Twins." They move independently with a LOT more dexterity to hit the right spots. My favorite is the thumb on my clit and a couple of fingers working inside | |
|
sarahb
| | Joined: 2/26/2005 Msg: 25 | |
| |