| | Love At First Sifgt!Page 1 of 2 (1, 2) | Ok so you look at their profile and a few messages pass are you thinking Im in love!?
Or kinda thinking maybe this is the one?
What makes a first attraction?
Ok sorry its a bit random -but indulge me I m not feeling well:-)
Love at first sight -or on here ? something else?? | |
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Posted: 4/21/2012 3:48:09 PM | Love at first sight -or on here ? something else??
More than likely lust .Lol
I dont believe in love at first sight , theres alot more to love than looks and a few messages sent back and forth .
You may want to correct your title to sight :) just a little error on it. | |
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Posted: 4/21/2012 3:50:27 PM | if you see proper fwaarrrrrrr on here .from a male point of view its probably a fake profile
How ever I had a connection with someone online straight away .Chatted for months and to cut a long one short .Im not interested with anyone until I find someone a good as her | |
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Posted: 4/21/2012 4:02:53 PM | lol message 5
To quote someone when you are typing your message look under the subject heading you will see the quote boxes just copy and paste the first one and then copy the persons post who you are replying to , then copy and paste the second quote to put at the end of the post your quoting to .I think that made sense Lol | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 12:30:32 AM | | I dont believe in love at first sight. How can you love someone you really dont know? Its intense physical attraction. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 1:59:26 AM | | I need that initial attraction spark which is different for everyone. The initial crush stage is where physical beauty is strongest. Comfort is the next stage which will grow unconditional love to the extent where physical beauty is no longer responsible for the bond. Can't skip the crush stage. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 2:00:34 AM | | Initial attraction is almost always of the Musical Sausage variety, at least for men. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 2:29:28 AM |
Initial attraction is almost always of the Musical Sausage variety, at least for men.
I would love to know how you determine who to message on a dating site and what your "thought" process is behind it? | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 2:32:24 AM | Not love at first sight, but have had excitement that finally someone wants to meet and chat. I don't have great expectations!
I don't believe in love at first sight, but I do believe in attraction at first sight. I have had this and then we have worked towards a relationship that lasted 27yrs. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 2:35:42 AM | "I would love to know how you determine who to message on a dating site and what your "thought" process is behind it?"
I have provided quite a detailed breakdown of my thought processes on my profile (haha). | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 2:46:36 AM | | The simple title of this forum "love at first SIFGT" proves that you are impulsive and dont think ahead or thoroughly, no offense. You cannot fall in love through a computer, with someones photos and typed words. Thats just absurd. Wishful thinking is what I would call that. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 2:56:28 AM | | Not on a dating site but face to face.Not sure if you would call it love but I think you can sense an instant connection with some people and that goes for more than romantic possibilities.Only the once in a partner ......that was a weird one, couldn't work out if I loved him or hated him , knew it would be one or the other- turned out to be love and for a long time.It's friends too.....and some people who you find it virtually impossible to get along with even though you pretty much adore them. It's happened quite a few times for me. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 5:40:14 AM | I suffered that fate....as soon as i saw her!
and of course i was bloody useless after that
so there wasn't a cat in hells chance of any chemistry etc
and ive never experienced anything so painful on a date.
The last half hour was excruciating agony..i have an acute sense for
body language etc and could tell what was coming..
To watch your hearts desire walk away as though you'd just given her directions
was crushing beyond belief...you'll know what i mean if its happened to you
If anybody has any sensible suggestions i'd love to hear them please.... | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 5:47:14 AM | Sure Amade,
Only ever visualise your date as going out for dinner or drinks with a mate. You don't feel a crushing sense of disappointment if you go out with a friend, do you? As soon as you start thinking She's The One, a crushing sense of disappointment is inevitable! | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 6:11:17 AM | I'm not so sure... You read these stories where people suddenly bump into
each other. Bumping into someone's actually a great way of breaking the ice.
On here I believe its mostly perception.
Ive never been the victim of love at first sight. Its usually always developed over time for me.
Can't say it doesnt exist though, because in dreams we can tap a range of emotions including
love, almost at will. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 6:39:01 AM | We can all live in hope that love at first sight exists!
Im not a believer myself and think its more a mix of attraction and lust - which doesnt add up and make " love" in my opinion!
I think it takes time to love a person - so for me I think it would be impossible to feel all the emotions that come hand in hand with my definition of love at first meeting x | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 6:42:51 AM | but I love you sprite
Blushes and giggles coyly ... | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 9:52:42 AM | Thanks MJR,
I do try but it was the visual overload that i just couldn't handle..
you know..like bumping into Gwyneth Paltrow or similar..
and her seeming to be interested in you!!
Just tobmake it worse..her photos on here were poor so
it was an even greater shock that she was so beautiful..
i know..theres plenty of you shaking your head
saying 'whats your problem?'....me included.. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 10:03:20 AM | I can accept great attraction at first sight, lust at first sight, smitten at first sight but never love at first sight.
The word love is bandied around far too easily by some people, I compare those type of people to the ones that say they have the flu when all they have is a common cold. Love and flu are huge things.
Love? How can you love somebody instantly by looking at them? You have no idea of their personality or foibles, surely such cases claiming to be love at first sight are only based on the physical appearance of that person?
Amade...what exactly did you 'love' about her? Can you explain ? | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 10:17:48 AM | I don't think it's possible, but loves a tricky thing
I have met people who've claimed to have fallen for someone they've only seen and never spoken to.
I used to be really dubious about that and people who claim to have fallen for someone whom they've only ever spoken to online... but I've seen examples of both where the people are together and seem to love each other (and say they feel now, what they did when they first said they loved that person)
If there was a set definition of what love is, then it would be much easier to decide
I have my idea of love and I would be pretty annoyed if someone tried telling me that it wasn't love. So now if someone believes they love someone, then so be it... maybe they do. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2012 10:26:27 AM | I suffered that fate....as soon as i saw her!
and of course i was bloody useless after that
so there wasn't a cat in hells chance of any chemistry etc
and ive never experienced anything so painful on a date.
The last half hour was excruciating agony..i have an acute sense for
body language etc and could tell what was coming..
To watch your hearts desire walk away as though you'd just given her directions
was crushing beyond belief...you'll know what i mean if its happened to you
If anybody has any sensible suggestions i'd love to hear them please....
I can imagine how crushing that was, but such a lot of emotion invested in that moment. Did you see her with rose tinted glasses and so whatever she may have said or done to crush your dreams you still think the best of her?
I am just wondering........Would have been nice to be on the receiving end for a short time but if you were useless after that and you were a bumbling mess, do you blame yourself for it going so wrong? | |
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