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 Xavier_222
Joined: 4/8/2012
Msg: 1
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Hello lovely people (and yes, even you, you not so lovely people, he he)

Not asking in a pervy way (I dont mean 'in the bedroom') , Just interested to see what actions/qualities you personally find to be the greatest/worst features in a man.
Limited to 3 for each category, else we'll be here for hours, he he.

Take care.
 Arata_na_Yoake
Joined: 1/25/2012
Msg: 2
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Posted: 4/24/2012 2:12:52 PM
Attractive
-Physically active
-Intelligence
-Sense of humor

Unattractive
-Rude
-Vain
-Materialistic

I'd say this is pretty generic if physical attraction is implied. Oh this is for girls by the way, I'm sure the turn off column will be different.
 kire122881
Joined: 1/5/2011
Msg: 3
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Posted: 4/24/2012 3:10:37 PM
Likes:
Intelligence.
Niceness.
Body type (not into muscular or stocky).

Dislikes:
General douchebaggery and macho posturing.
Facial hair (GROSS...) or excessive body hair.
Body odor.
 ITWYLD
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 4
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Posted: 4/24/2012 3:12:34 PM
Top 3 Likes:

-Physically attractive and zero facial hair pics
-Has full time job
-Well written profile with more than a one or two interests


Top 3 Turn offs:

-Facial hair
-Has children under 14
-Sports nut
 sainbain
Joined: 12/19/2011
Msg: 5
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Posted: 4/24/2012 3:56:22 PM
Likes
-Physical attraction
-Intelligence
-Motivation

Dislikes
-Sense of entitlement
-Children
-Smoker
 yaretzy
Joined: 9/9/2011
Msg: 6
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Posted: 4/24/2012 4:08:54 PM
Likes:
1. Intelligence (able to spell most words!)
2. Employment
3. Sense of humor

Dislikes:
'1. Not being able to put a sentence together in English!
2. Rude/overbearing/controlling (this may constitute as all 3 dislikes, but I have many dislikes hehehehe)
3. Alcohol/drug use
4. (for good measure) children under the age of 10-I like children, but seriously, a 45 yo man with a 6 year old child???
 Beachluvr56
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 7
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Posted: 4/24/2012 4:25:02 PM
Likes:
Well-written profile with no misspelled words
Tall
Physically fit

Turn-offs
Hair parted in the middle
Facial hair
Dead carcass hunting pictures
 curvesweetblonde99
Joined: 5/7/2011
Msg: 8
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Posted: 4/24/2012 4:31:49 PM
Attractive
cute smile
intelligence
chivalry

Unattractive
emotional unavailability
ignorance/stupidity
uncleanliness/body odor
 Xavier_111
Joined: 3/28/2012
Msg: 9
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Posted: 4/24/2012 4:49:46 PM

Dead carcass hunting pictures


So, dead carcass non-hunting pics are ok?
Because I think theres a pidgeon out back, and hay, whatever gets me the first date, right?... *picks up frying pan*
(lol)
 idachinju
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 10
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Posted: 4/24/2012 5:11:01 PM
greatest features:
intelligence, healthy (that is mind and body), humour
having a job is also a plus :)

worst features:
arrogance, perversion, excessive body art
 7thour
Joined: 12/2/2011
Msg: 11
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Posted: 4/24/2012 5:33:11 PM
Likes:

The way he stands (yes, posture)
His showing an interest in my life
Him being a gentleman, opening my door, standing when I come and go from a room and being protective of me.

Dislikes:

Tits on a man (biggest turn off)
Rough dirty hands and fingernails
snuff chewers

and yes there is plenty more on both sides of what I can say but since you limited me:)
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 12
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Posted: 4/24/2012 8:04:17 PM
Good:
wit
couch potato
compatibility

Bad:
racist
treats service people badly
full of shit and too dumb to know it
 notdating-forumsonly
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 13
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Posted: 4/24/2012 8:13:32 PM
^^^ ha ( daynadaze)

pluses- has his ducks in a row- physically, mentally, emotionally
depth of character/ integrity
compatibility

minuses- negativity
 hotmerlot
Joined: 2/25/2012
Msg: 14
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Posted: 4/24/2012 8:16:34 PM
Likes: humour, intelligence, employed
Dislikes, references to sex, shirtless pics, bathroom shots
 juliancannon21
Joined: 3/3/2012
Msg: 15
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Posted: 4/24/2012 8:17:07 PM
Likes:great sense of humor, independent, smart.
Dislikes :smokers,attention seekers, rudeness.
 bwena
Joined: 2/5/2012
Msg: 16
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Posted: 4/24/2012 8:22:56 PM
likes:
intelligence
sense of humor
compassion

turn offs:
immature
crude
entitled
 massha
Joined: 7/20/2010
Msg: 17
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Posted: 4/24/2012 8:23:20 PM
Top 3 turn-ons:
intelligence
wit
sense of humor

love of sci/fi, engineering/scientist/computer guy a big bonus

top 3 turn-offs:
negativity
inability to write a decent text with no spelling errors, not knowing when to use "your", etc. (unless a foreigner)
excessive demands
 cajuncooker
Joined: 4/11/2012
Msg: 18
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Posted: 4/24/2012 9:40:40 PM
My top three turn ons: Long dark hair that is clean, eyes that are genuinely happy (even moreso if there are glasses in front of them and A great and genuine smile.
The reason is:
hair, hair tells you how clean and neat a person is. How much they care about their appearnece and how vain they are.
Eyes: they are the window to the soul someone may be smiling on the outside but the eyes tell a lot, weather a perosn is happy or sad. in love or full of hate. thinking or playing.
Smile: smile kinda ties the two together. You can tell by a persons smile if they are up to someting or genuinely happy deep from with in.


My top three turn offs:
Blonde hair: dont know why never have been attracted to blondes.
Inmaturity: a woman my age should be mature
lack of high moral and ethical standards: this is all about honesty and integrity
 SmilingRai
Joined: 4/4/2012
Msg: 19
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Posted: 4/24/2012 9:51:40 PM
Attractive:
Muscles
Light beard
Has a dog

Unattractive:
Has kids
Doesn't work out
Wears his clothes like a teenager or a wannabe gang banger
 114M3
Joined: 4/19/2011
Msg: 20
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Posted: 4/24/2012 10:31:56 PM
Turn Ons
Good Hygiene
Intelligence/Sensibility
Skills (not "bedroom skills" ... lol ... but a guy with awesome talent or a good knick knack for something is HOT .. . examples such as musical skills, cooking skills, handyman skills, and so on and so forth)


Turn Offs
Bad Hygiene
Bad Manners (or lack thereof)
Negativity
 ecochick1962
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 21
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Posted: 4/24/2012 11:30:17 PM
If I am meeting a man for the first time my initial 3 top likes would be
1) A great smile
2) Good manners
3) Good conversationalist

My three biggest turn offs would be
1) Bad teeth
2)Speaking badly about his ex
3)Lack of intelligence

I wouldn't see a man again if he did any of the last 3, and none of the first. Once I had decided to see him again, things that would be important would be if he had a job, a personality that fit with mine etc.....and if I decided to be exclusive with him then another whole set of expectations come into play...is he financially secure, have the same values I do and so on.
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