| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 5:50:29 AM | | i bin with ma girlfriend now 4 qo mnths and we r very much in love with each other,while the sex is very good i dnt think she has orgasmed once,please help me to make her have one? wot do i do? foreplay b4 sex etc.thanx matt | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:13:25 AM | lot's of questions here but I'll start with these:
Does she have then on her own?
Have you had other girls have orgasms with you?
Some woman take a long time and some must develop a lot of trust and be able to relax with a man. With out knowing a lot, just be patient | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:17:25 AM | | hiya,well i was her 1st so no she hasnt! and as 4 other girls nah they havent cos theyve all been s**gs that ave slept with loads of blokes in the past | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:22:24 AM | | ask her what she would like.....some women (myself speaking here) can't orgasm during intercourse........but can explode during oral.............ahem........lol......try that or toys or some other form of stimuli to get her juices flowing.........don't worry so much about it and it will happen.......... | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:24:43 AM | First lose the preconceptions. Virgins can masturbate...and thus have orgasms. Can she get herself off?
And the girls you've been with .....why would you presume that they haven't had orgasms because they are promiscious? The number of people a person sleeps with has nothing to do with sexual responsiveness.
Dude, go do a google search on "G-spot" and read until your head hurts.....then do it again with "clitoral stimulation". If that doesn't work, buy a vibe. Use it! | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:28:36 AM | | nah shes not a virgin anymore cos weve slept together already,she doesnt masturbate in front of me no | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:31:46 AM | You need to set up some communication , dude. If you have no idea whether or not your lover can get herself off through masturbation, you aren't paying enough attention. TALK. COMMUNICATE.
Let her KNOW that pleasing her is a goal that you have, ask for her assistance and direction. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:33:36 AM | | sorry i mean she has never in front of me but i will ask her when she gets bak from holiday if/when sha has masturbated did it bring her to orgasm n to tell me and show me how to do. thank u! x | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 8:53:37 AM | COMUNICATE MAN!
You have to talk to her, ask her what makes her feel good. What SHE wants YOU to do, how, when, all the above.
You have to be willing to take your time - prolong your pleasure for her, kiss her body, whisper in her ear, tell her how sexy she really is..... Go down on her, foreplay, intensity, atmoshere.... And sometime the stars just have to be lined up. But if she "can" have one, my suggestions should help ya get her where she wants to be.
Too many guys just want to shove it in and get thiers - Show me a man that thinks like that and i'll show you a lady who will leave him. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 9:34:19 AM | | take youre two fingers(index and middle) and make a bicycle pedaling motion with them....now do it inside of her, if it doesnt get her off it will DEFINITELY get her going | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 9:35:41 AM | | Place your lips around her clit, then hummmmmmm while lightly flicking it with the tip orf your tongue... | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 9:49:28 AM | Tell her you are hung like a horse and give her a mule kick in the ass....
Im telling you women love that...wait...maybe thats not the way, guess I been doing it wrong all along. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 10:17:43 AM | yeah...see im a big talker when it comes to sex......if im not satisfied with the pleasure im receiving.....im pretty vocal.
if talking isnt your thing...try putting her legs over your shoulders when youre fuking....it gets me off almost every time...
another suggestion...find her G spot....theres nothing better than a really hard orgasm. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 11:01:45 AM | You need to stimulate and seduce her emotionally and physically.
Complete body rub with your hands and then your tongue. Then do her like the energizer bunny. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/27/2005 11:15:44 AM | Go to websites like sexuality.org
Or
Carnal.net
I read a lot there, and will always continue to do so. You can never know wnough or stop learning.
READ! Help your lady friend to be comfortable. Get her relaxed. Communication is key.
None of the techniques will work as good as they can if she is uptight about something.
ALWAYS practe safe(r) sex. NBo glove, no love. Its not just up to her. | |
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| how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 7/28/2005 12:22:51 AM | orgasms can never really be guaranteed, but some good places to start might be... Make sure she wants it...bad! see if you can out-foreplay her, keep holding back until she can't stand it anymore and effectively girl-rapes you. try different positions that might hit a little closer to the "g" bust out the lube Multi-tasking...find some positions where you can get a finger or two on the clit, maybe a little bit of nipple-action in there, and make sure to kiss her while you're at it. Like I said...can't guarantee anything, but it sure is fun trying! | |
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