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 SteelCity1981
Joined: 8/16/2005
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A 33-year-old man who has fathered 30 kids is asking the state of Tennessee to give him a hand with his child support payments. Desmond Hatchett is having a tough time making ends meet while working a minimum wage job and seeing half of his paycheck get split up between his 11 baby mamas. Incidentally, his score and 10 kids is a record for Knox County, and some of his kids receive as little as $1.49 a month once the money is divvied up. Hatchett last appeared in court in May 2009, when he had a paltry 21 kids to his name and said he had no intention of having more. Somehow, he found a way to add nine more to his legacy, so we're guessing he probably isn't done at 30.

http://now.msn.com/money/0518-man-30-kids-child-support.aspx


Yeah how about getting fixed along with all of those women that had your childern.
 TempusFujis
Joined: 4/5/2012
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Man with 30 kids wants state help to pay his child support
Posted: 5/19/2012 9:22:49 PM
good lord nothing surprises me anymore , absolutely nothing
wow and the state of Tennessee couldn't strap his fried chicken eating ass down and have this guy sterilized?

I think the State should put his ass in jail and take the kids away from the baby's mother, no doubt they are welfare bums, skanks and has no idea about contraception , 33 years old with 30 kids, no doubt will be seeing this loser on Springer or the talk shows making the rounds.

 wildirishrosetoo
Joined: 5/12/2012
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Man with 30 kids wants state help to pay his child support
Posted: 5/19/2012 9:30:33 PM
I saw that, and almost posted it, but figured that it would disappear quickly.
Yeah, this guy is an amazing loser. He went to court years ago and promised that he'd stop impregnating women,
but as you can see he did not keep his promise. Those poor kids will probably wind up as criminals, since single moms have such a hard time with kids, especially with boys.
The rate of out of wedlock births is 70% in the black community. (My topic about this from yesterday went poof)
Prior to the 60's and the liberal's takeover of the society, the black community had an out of wedlock birth rate around 30%, not wonderful, but not nearly as bad as now. Welfare dependency ruined the black family structure. Massive third world immigration stole entry level jobs away from the black community.
 cover_me
Joined: 2/28/2012
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Man with 30 kids wants state help to pay his child support
Posted: 5/19/2012 9:37:50 PM
*eyes bug out* 30 KIDS??? God damn! When the Good Lord said be fruitful and multiply he didn't mean like that!!!
 Holly63
Joined: 2/4/2011
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Posted: 5/19/2012 10:10:42 PM
I went to the web site you provided and saw a news story about it. I can't believe it!! They said he hasn't broken any laws.

Okay that may be true (for now) but what about his morals and complete disregard for all those involved? Goodness. He fathered his first child at the age of 19 and kept impregnating women ever since. Seems to me he has no respect for women, no respect for his dear children, has no sence of rersponsibiity and now wants help financially? Pffft.

I'd like to say give him nothing but his children's welfare may be compromised as a result. Unless.....of course, some of the 11 women are now married and financially stable.

Goodness knows what will happen to him but he HAS to be stopped somehow.
 ThinkinginCA
Joined: 4/14/2010
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Posted: 5/19/2012 10:29:38 PM
I think the State should put his ass in jail and take the kids away from the baby's mother, no doubt they are welfare bums, skanks and has no idea about contraception ,


Wow, really? You think this without even knowing one of these women? Next thought is probably that the women lied and wanted to be pregnant so they could fool this guy into being a breadwinner, right?


Welfare dependency ruined the black family structure.


Just the black families and no other?
 tjl503
Joined: 9/29/2011
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Posted: 5/19/2012 10:39:54 PM
This dude has some super sperm. I wonder if say the 27th soon to have been baby mama knew about his 26 other kids when she let him enter her without a condom. I hope all 30 of the half brothers and sisters and baby mamas get together and form a strong bond. All the baby mamas would sit in a circle talking shi* and comparing notes on what he said to them and all the kids can play. They could get a tv show out of this and have a compound. I wonder how many kids are named Desmond Jr. What a story. I hope to see this guy on Ellen.
 OOhMeeOhhMy
Joined: 9/17/2007
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Posted: 5/19/2012 10:41:27 PM
I blame the women... no woman in her right mind should get naked with no protection with a man who has that many kids... the only woman that isn't crap is maybe the first baby mama... she probably had no clue that this was what his plan was.... people need more self respect... and to choose their baby daddies better.... who makes baby number 4 or above with a man... a man who makes minimum wage and expects any financial support????

and who is to say the women aren't white... or hispanic??? or any other color.... this isn't a race thing... this is a stupid thing....

 ThinkinginCA
Joined: 4/14/2010
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Posted: 5/19/2012 10:55:52 PM

They could get a tv show out of this and have a compound. I wonder how many kids are named Desmond Jr. What a story. I hope to see this guy on Ellen.


Yup, I think you just solved this problem. Next up, a reality show, you can practically bank on that now that this is in the news and piqued public interest.
 onlydateIF
Joined: 11/15/2011
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Posted: 5/19/2012 11:11:33 PM
I bet Octomom and the Duggars are pretty jealous of this guy for the 'stiff' competition ;P
 SexyKG74
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 5/19/2012 11:55:52 PM
This is absolutely CRAZY! The government should not give him a dime to support his "habit," which apparently it is if he has 30 kids, all while knowing he doesn't have a pot to p*ss in! It really kills me when people cry poor mouth in this type of situation...they weren't asking for help when they were having sex with all of these people!

I have absolutely nothing against children. In fact, I feel really bad for them...kids cannot choose their parents...parents choose them.

As far as issues in the black community, it is a fact that 72% of all black babies born within the USA are born out of wedlock...out of that particular group, a very large portion of those children grow up in inner-city, low income households...and history tends to repeat itself. Of course there are kids of other ethnic backgrounds who are born out of wedlock, but if you look at other backgrounds in the USA, this statistic isn't nearly as high. If anyone thinks this does not have an overall effect on quality of life, they need to open their eyes. This is a MAJOR issue within the black community and it often gets swept under the rug. As a black woman, I'm going to say it is the #1 downfall that deters success within the black community. I hope no one takes offense to this...it's NOT about "the white man this or that," it IS about black people taking responsibility and ownership of their actions to change this. The government can give people millions of dollars a year, but if they don't dig deep and look within themselves and make a change/set a course of action...NOTHING will change. I am saying this as a black woman...who has a black father... who is a retired politician.

Of course we do not know if the mothers of his children are all of one ethnicity or not. But for the most part, people tend to be with people of similar backgrounds in an economic sense. Ask yourself this...how many hard working, educated women who make $50K a year and up are running to date a man who man who likely barely graduated high school, has a annual salary that is 50% or more less than what they are making, and the guy has numerous mouths to feed by various women who he never married?!? It's common sense these women likely are low-income/no education.

We all make choices in life. When you hear about someone like this, it is a "lifestyle." Of course not everyone can be rich, but come on...if you are making $15K a year, how can you not figure out you are unable to afford to bring several babies into the world?! As a black woman, I could easily ramble off dozens of people I know who have placed themselves in this situation. One woman in particular had 2 kids by a guy who previously had a 7 y/o when they met who he doesn't pay child support for. I asked her "so if he's hasn't been able to support that child, how on God's green earth do you think he could suddenly support your 2 kids?" If she knew this in advance, which she did, and many women often know when men have kids from previous relationships, why would you place themselves in that situation!?

In my hometown, 72% of all black babies ARE born out of wedlock, and at least 50% of those kids are from poverty-level homes. I'm sorry, but I will not even have a cup of coffee with a man who lives that lifestyle...regardless of his ethnic background.
 mrcs84
Joined: 12/9/2008
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Posted: 5/20/2012 1:43:29 AM
Well, he's not breaking any laws. This is one of the "joys" of having freedom. This just makes me think of the Gosselins, The Duggars, and of course Nadya Suleman, not to mention any other parents with 4+ children that just don't happen to be publicized.
 SexyKG74
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Posted: 5/20/2012 2:17:29 AM
Gosselins: yeah, many people thought she was a nagging b*tch while watching a reality show. But here's the difference: They were a married couple. She is college educated (nursing degree). I don't remember if the husband or should I say ex-husband was educated. They made money from the show, and last I read, she's spokeswoman for a company, and she's furthering her nursing degree. My sister is a nurse and makes very close to 6 figures. The dad is working as well.

I don't know much about the Duggars, but I thought they were educated and were not on welfare.

Octo-Mom...she's the problem. The people who assisted in helping a welfare mom get pregnant again should be shot. She is costing the state of CA a ton of money to take care of all of those kids. This woman doesn't have the intelligence to get a job. She is about to lose her home. I'm sorry, but when you have woman who isn't married, on welfare with several existing kids who she can't afford and she wants to get assistance with getting pregnant to have more, there should have been a law to keep her from doing that.
 mrcs84
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Posted: 5/20/2012 3:24:21 AM
I mean, more power to them for being able to support their respective families. However, I just think it's ludicrous to have that many kids. Talk about leaving a carbon footprint.
 laskoboo
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Posted: 5/20/2012 4:05:58 AM
This man is why I believe anyone who collects any govt funding to raise children should be
fixed before getting those funds.
If he had been fixed along with his first few baby momma, none of this would have happened.

You have a woman go down to collect WIC or food stamps for her child, they should find the father
and if he is unable to lay, both sterlized before any help is given.
Would make people more responsible ( by force) to raise the kids they have and not ask everyone else to do so in higher taxes.
 cubanguy
Joined: 8/1/2007
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Posted: 5/20/2012 4:26:33 AM
Welfare is another example of the distortion of a good idea becoming a venue to be financed from personal choices out of just irresponsabilities.
 TempusFujis
Joined: 4/5/2012
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Posted: 5/20/2012 5:08:41 AM

Wow, really? You think this without even knowing one of these women? Next thought is probably that the women lied and wanted to be pregnant so they could fool this guy into being a breadwinner, right?
And what type of woman would knowingly expose her self to a loser with a minimum wage job , 11 women with multiple children with this guy, enough said..
 missmaddy
Joined: 10/29/2011
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Posted: 5/20/2012 5:09:04 AM
mostly, i feel bad for the children. how can you establish a good bond with your children when you have 30 of them?! its hard enough being there for one let alone 30! the parents are not setting a good example for these kids. i have 4 siblings and we all came from the same mom and dad. hard to believe, i know. but we never wanted for anything. the way i see it is have all the kids you want, as long as you can financially and emotionally support them.
 missmaddy
Joined: 10/29/2011
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Posted: 5/20/2012 5:15:11 AM
might i also add that i know MANY white women who have multiple kids with multiple baby daddys. the statistics are high among the black race but there are other races who are just as guilty. for instance, i graduated with a girl who at 25 has 4 kids, is pregnant with her 5th and all the kids have different fathers. like i said before, the kids, ultimately will suffer the most in these situations.
 BLoNde__ANgeL
Joined: 9/20/2011
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Posted: 5/20/2012 5:39:04 AM
I read this yesterday & posted it on my FB page...I am a registered Democrat & a bit liberal BUT...this is sick...he should have been vasectomized after a few kids...we spay & neuter cats & dogs, & this man is A FREAKING DOG...and the women- of course they r getting pg on purpose...

I cannot point the finger at one race...in general, these children being created IMO are not being raised correctly, what will happen in 10-20 yrs?

I almost think that if someone applies for government assistance, they should have criteria, & one of them should be mandatory birth control...

I do not think this is limited to just one race, I see plenty of white folks having kids like crazy w/ no means of support or family upbringing...There is a young man in my town who is developmentally delayed, he came from a decent family, but got a classmate PG in his last year of school. They did not get married, ok, it was an oops. Then after the oops, a local white trash girl (sorry if I am offensive, it is what it is) latched onto him & had 2 babies w/ him, I think they got married, her parents were always on welfare/food stamps, section 8 , u name it, now the daughter is perpetuating it. I felt she sought out a mentally disabled man cuz he gets social security for his mental disability...more money 4 her 2 kids that way... I do not know if it is genetic, & if the so far 3 kids are developmentally delayed...

As a country we r so messed up w/ debt, services get cut to people who really need it, like the elderly & veterans, etc & then we see people who play the system their entire life...this is beyond despicable...

PS- it used to be that the grandparents would help out, but even that has changed...I started a thread @ xmas about a grinchy granny...she had 2 kids on welfare back in the day & when her son repeated the trend (by her example no doubt), instead of helping him out the way her family helped her, she treated the grandkids like crap @ xmas...those poor kids are the ones suffering, cuz not only the parents but the grandparents are so narcissistic they think only of themselves!

I would be in favor of enforced birth control for anyone collecting assistance, I had to take care of my kids & you should take care of yours, if u can't do not make more...and like I said, I am a liberal person politically...
 SerendipityHappens
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Posted: 5/20/2012 5:41:52 AM

You have a woman go down to collect WIC or food stamps for her child, they should find the father
and if he is unable to lay, both sterlized before any help is given.
Would make people more responsible ( by force) to raise the kids they have and not ask everyone else to do so in higher taxes.


WTF??? I am disgusted that anyone actually thinks like this. I understand it is infuriating to see someone with 30 children not accepting responsibility but seriously? Forced sterilization of anyone receiving WIC? You're out of your mind.
 TempusFujis
Joined: 4/5/2012
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Posted: 5/20/2012 6:05:19 AM

WTF??? I am disgusted that anyone actually thinks like this. I understand it is infuriating to see someone with 30 children not accepting responsibility but seriously? Forced sterilization of anyone receiving WIC? You're out of your mind.
while I dont agree with sterilizing a person receiving WIC for one child, but if they have multiple children and cant afford them yeah you should sterilize them, having children is a privilege not a right, and if you cant afford to have children dont have them, obviously this loser doesn't believe in wrapping the ole sausage and after 30 kids he needs to be sterilize he should have been sterilized after the 8 th child,its going to cost the state big time.

I remember the story about the mentally challenged woman that had 2 kids and her mom wanted to get her sterilized and I couldn't believe the amount of people that thought it was cruel to do that? and the woman in question was being raised by her mom who is getting up there in years, what happens when the Mom dies, who is going to help the daughter raise the kids? I say sterilize them they are incapable of taking care of their children, we dont want to the state funding these people.
 wildirishrosetoo
Joined: 5/12/2012
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Posted: 5/20/2012 6:23:13 AM
White out of wedlock births is 30%
Hispanic is 50%
Black rate is 70%
There was a time in the not too distant past that all of those rates were much much lower. Welfare, contraception, abortion, etc., has taken its' toll on the family structure.
 BLoNde__ANgeL
Joined: 9/20/2011
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Posted: 5/20/2012 6:37:06 AM

White out of wedlock births is 30%
Hispanic is 50%
Black rate is 70%

who cares if it is out of wedlock or not- what about percentage on public assistance...and aren't there alot of bi-racial children...what category do u put them in???
 wildirishrosetoo
Joined: 5/12/2012
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Posted: 5/20/2012 6:43:57 AM
"Who cares if it is out of wedlock?"
Whew. You might want to do a bit of research on the topic. Fatherless children are more likely to grow up
in neglect and poverty and also have a high rate of criminality. This info can easily be found, I'm not making it up.
Young men especially need a dad to give them boundaries and keep them in check. Talk to the mother of any gang member and she will tell you, "I can't do anything with him. He won't listen to me. I try and try but nothing works."

California has 34% of the welfare cases in America, and the largest number of gang members as well. It's not a coincidence.
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