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 Robertarans
Joined: 10/30/2009
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Hey people, everyone here with a broken heart, come read this thread.

You are not a loser.
You are not weak.
Don't let jerks try to bring you down, they are just jealous that they aren't you.
Even if it was supposed to be, it simply wasn't. She/he didn't love you, and its her/his own stupid loss.
You are strong.
You are beautiful.

Now go back out and take control over your own fate.
 GenuineGent30
Joined: 2/5/2012
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Posted: 5/22/2012 2:07:28 AM
That's right, you tell them!
 rugb21
Joined: 10/10/2010
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Posted: 5/22/2012 7:34:54 PM
But she did love me, I was the stupid one who got frustrated and misdirected my anger at her.
 jmark4
Joined: 7/3/2011
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Posted: 5/22/2012 10:23:44 PM
lol; it's nice but not everyone is broken hearted. I'm not.
 SunnyTexas
Joined: 9/28/2006
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Posted: 5/23/2012 8:57:31 AM
Ya know, if it were a choice, I think I'd rather be the one with the broken heart, than to break someone else's.
 blissness108
Joined: 3/6/2012
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Posted: 5/23/2012 11:16:00 AM
Thank you Robertarans. Hope springs eternal.
 MrDubStep
Joined: 3/19/2012
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Posted: 5/23/2012 5:33:27 PM
Word!
I recently went on a date with a girl I've known for awhile and we haven't seen each other In about 4 years.
I've liked her since the day we first met and I still like her now, I'm pretty sure she feels the same way I'm just waiting for the right time.

After my ex (3 years ago) I pretty much said **** It! And gave up on myself and stopped looking, After this date my confidence level shot right back up again.
 sweetlonelyheart
Joined: 12/27/2011
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Posted: 6/12/2012 1:48:23 PM
Its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved....
 cjc1997
Joined: 5/30/2012
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Posted: 6/12/2012 6:23:35 PM
Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved? That's a load of sh*t.

I have no business having loved and lost. To have to deal with the reality that women I have loved, and who have loved me, are now out in the world with a man who they undoubtedly think is BETTER than me, is a fate worse than death. Any woman I have loved and who has loved me, but no longer loves me, deserves nothing but pain, misery and suffering for the rest of her life for the horrible insult she has done to me by no longer wanting me. I would rather have never loved so that when I do love it will last forever, the way it is supposed to be.

As for hope, I have given up and it is only a matter of time before I finally kill myself. I'm holding out for my family but really, how long could their pitifully meager and useless need for me keep me going? Not much longer. A life without love is a life not worth living.
 MisterAndersonn
Joined: 1/12/2012
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Posted: 6/13/2012 1:12:26 AM

Its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved....


Screw that. I seriously don't know who/where this came from, but I just can't agree/relate to it.

To love then to lose, is horrible. To never have loved is better, since then you don't have to deal with the pain of losing.
 LG2727
Joined: 1/20/2010
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Posted: 6/13/2012 10:22:45 PM
Imaginary lovers are the best, they cant hurt you. hmm...seem to remember a song about that when I was a teenager, anyone remember who sang it? I cant remember anything these days! lol!
 wanted555
Joined: 2/18/2011
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Posted: 6/13/2012 11:41:48 PM
i agree with mister!! rah rah! you pretty well said it all!!
 WanderingRain
Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 6/14/2012 9:04:43 PM
Indeed, OP! Screw them! It's their loss.

In the meantime, you can be happy with yourself.
Happiness doesn't have to come from external stimuli.

If you can generate your own joy, then you need nobody to make you happy if you can make yourself happy.
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