| | Anyhthing Strange/Weird Happen to You After Meeting a Fellow POFer?Page 1 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | I recently had a guy message me and he basically bugged me until we started talking on the phone - i could tell he wasn't really my type but something about him just made me curious about what he was like in person. He constantly bragged about his life, how he works out all the time, has this - has that - whatever, anyhow any time he tried to bring up sex, i shot him down as i'm not looking for just a hook up and don't feel comfortable talking about that with a complete stranger. Anyhow, we met at a restaurant for an appy and drink, i wasn't too attracted to him in person, we sat and conversed intermittantly (a bit uncomfortable), the bill came and i offered to share it, he declined and i thanked him and he walked me to my car. After i left, he texted me and asked me if i would come back for a kiss, i told him that i don't kiss people on the first date - whatever - he then called me a couple of days later and told me that i was the only woman in months to thank him for taking them out - which i thought was strange and was wondering what type of women he dated. Anyhow - i thanked him again and wished him luck (hint hint).
A week later my younger sister texted me and asked me if i had gone out with someone named Peter (made up name) last week - i said that i had, she told me that he had been texting her like crazy for the last few days, sending naked shots of himself and talking really dirty to her - then when she wouldn't respond he told her that he had taken her sister (me) out the weekend before!! Omg - what a pig! I believe what had happened was, through conversation i had mentioned my maiden name and my sister's name at some point and he must have looked her up on facebook or something and then found her on pof. I then phoned him up and told him to quit playing games and to leave my sister alone and not to contact me ever again.
Anyhow, there's my story - i'm sure there's a lot worse out there - lol! | |
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| Anyhthing Strange/Weird Happen to You After Meeting a Fellow POFer?
Posted: 5/26/2012 6:14:33 AM | THAT.....would explain why some women seem to frozen with fear to even chat online.
If I felt slighted by you on a date, I most CERTAINLY would not send naked pics of me as revenge. [Naked pics of Richard Simmons or Jack Black maybe, but certainly not of myself] | |
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Posted: 5/26/2012 6:31:30 AM | That's a horrible experience alright. The bottom line lesson for you, I think, is do NOT decide to date a guy who you already don' like, simply because he harasses you, and you haven't noticed the "block" button at the bottom of the screen.
As for myself, the only odd experience I've had so far, is that I was fired the morning after my first post-separation agreement date. It was just coincidence though. | |
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Posted: 5/26/2012 7:38:57 AM | How'd he know she was your sister? That's really creepy stalkerville right there.
OP if you didn't feel comfortable when talking to him on the phone/text whatever, then why would you even meet him? To be nice? Next time, just say no thanks and block the person. | |
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Posted: 5/26/2012 10:19:17 AM | | I met up with him just because he peaked my curiousity i guess, i didn't think that meeting up would be such a big deal and i did think he was attractive in the pictures i had seen prior to. He didn't actually take my sister out - he had found her on pof - im thinking he would have looked her up on facebook and then have seen her on pof (she has the same pic on both or did) i've seen many people that i know personally on pof - so it's not impossible to find someone on here. He didn't talk dirty to me or send me any naked pics as i wouldn't have stood for it - he did that to my sister and after she wouldn't respond any longer - he then told her that he had taken me out. We were both pretty taken aback and she has deleted her profile as it was pretty strange. Yes, big lesson learned here and st least i can laugh about it now. ;) | |
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Posted: 5/26/2012 11:21:45 AM | A gal I met on OKC and have been facebooking.. looked through my friends list and found one she really liked. So she messaged her hoping to be friends. The funny thing is this other girl I also met on OKC.
Not nearly as odd as OP's story.. but I still find it a bit weird... especially for me. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2012 1:34:35 PM | I had a person from quite a ways away from me who was quite a lot older email me; started a few years back when i was online at the time. never more than a line or two, usually once or twice a week. We started emailing off the site; so when I went off we stayed in touch. Just generic penpalish stuff; and we kept in contact a couple years.
He finally asked why we never talked and I said he never asked for my number. So we talked and actually started talking about the idea of meeting (at that time he asked I was back on the site; not off it dating someone) and so he was asking where in the cities i was from...when I mentioned where he perked up and said he was from there too. Ihad n't lived there in a few dozen years, and he hadn't in a couple dozen, and we were both 8 years apart in age.
I said something where he got REALLY quiet and he asked what my maiden name was. I told him but said that he was probably mixing me up with someone else... as there were two of us that had a scary number of similarities... but he said no, and he said my dad's name.
Turned out he was in my wedding... and was a childhood friend of my ex's. I hadn't seen him since I was like 24 years old... small world for an 8 year older than me person who lived 90 minutes away who had not lived in the place I was from in 25 years and I hadn't for 30+...n it was surreal... | |
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| Anyhthing Strange/Weird Happen to You After Meeting a Fellow POFer?
Posted: 5/30/2012 2:31:19 PM | Here's one:
Met a girl at a local blues bar. I rarely drink. Anyway... She arrives and she's ****ing bombed. Pissed. Polluted. Gunned. She's a filthy, stinkimg drunk and she sidles up to me, orders a double rye---I shit you not---and then introduces herself. I politely excused myself in order to make a getaway. Then shit got crazy.
She followed me into the mens washroom and started to make advances towards me. Pinned me against a wall and rammed her tongue down my throat. I escape into the corridor and she continues and I'm telling her to **** off and get away from me. I finally know how a woman feels when a man turns into "Mr. Hands." It was so freaking embarassing! Finally anothr woman saw what I was trying to escape from, got the doorman and the gross **** was shuffled out the door. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2012 8:58:25 PM | WOW! WHAT A COMPLETE ACTOR/TOOL!!!
This is worse than the time that the guy bugged me to visit me right before Christmas. I was on here about 3 years ago and this guy from an hour away kept on and on bothering me until I said OKAY. I even had the flu, but whatever. He sounded nice and everything but there was something about the persistance. Two hours later, he showed up, I was wrapped in a blanket on the couch. He sat right beside me on the couch. I told him that I had to move because I felt stuck in my blanket, he said he would help me. I said okay. Before I knew it, he unhooked my bra!!! I was petrified! I told him to leave! What a creeper!
Then there was the guy that looked nothing like his picture. He had black teeth!!! YIKES!
You have to take a gamble on this site!
Good Luck! | |
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Posted: 5/30/2012 11:19:32 PM |
Ok, so, the million dollar question here is why do you women meet up with men that you have bad gut instincts about??????
because her show of nonenthusiasm is retroactive spin. the op can't relish the telling of her story if she admits she was excited to meet some guy who turned out to be a dirtbag; it makes her judgment look even more shitty. | |
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Posted: 6/1/2012 6:13:59 PM | | I wish some people would read things properly - would make things soo much easier! i said that he peaked my curiousity - that was why i met him, i didn't think he would turn out to be a bad guy, psycho or pervert - i was just interested in meeting him...end of story and it didn't turn out so well. I don't have any interest in meeting 'dirtbags' ect as mentioned before. I'm sure many people on this site have gone out and met someone because of the same reason. He didn't tell me that he likes to stalk women and kill kittens or anything like that - he just bragged a lot - end of story. | |
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Posted: 6/2/2012 7:38:20 PM | You need to start kissing some people on first dates and quite possibly shagging them too.
You may be way too uptight and too bad a judge of character to have fun and life really is too short.
^^^
People that like to stalk and kill kittens etc rarely tell you that up front.
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Posted: 6/2/2012 9:59:07 PM | | Nope, i'm not a bad judge of character since this is really my only story like this, this isnt about judging people on being uptight either. The way i am is my business and works for me and i'm good with it - ^^^^honestly - you wouldn't even get a hello from me, so save it - lmao! | |
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Posted: 6/4/2012 5:51:45 AM |
A week later my younger sister texted me and asked me if i had gone out with someone named Peter (made up name) last week - i said that i had, she told me that he had been texting her like crazy for the last few days, sending naked shots of himself and talking really dirty to her - then when she wouldn't respond he told her that he had taken her sister (me) out the weekend before!! Omg - what a pig!
Wow - and you let this unbelievably great catch slip right through your fingers? :-D | |
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Posted: 6/4/2012 8:47:24 AM | Strange people seem to gravitate towards me
People are strange, when you're a stranger...
Stop letting curiosity get the better of you and going out with people who give major "tells" online as to what their true personality/intent is. Gee, guy kept steering things toward sex in conversations and you went out with him ANYWAY.
What is wrong with YOU? What did you expect? Honestly?
Charles Manson I suppose "piques" some peoples' curiosity. Doesn't mean you arrange a date with him. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2012 8:48:59 AM | Met a gal at her place of work for a drink (bartender) after conversing with her for a week here (and on the phone)
She was never married, and had no kids. Meanwhile, in walk in her babysitter and 30 minutes later, her ex husband.
OOPS was an understatement. I was taken aback, to say the least. She kept texting me and calling after I left...wack job. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2012 10:53:25 AM |
because her show of nonenthusiasm is retroactive spin. the op can't relish the telling of her story if she admits she was excited to meet some guy who turned out to be a dirtbag; it makes her judgement look even more shitty
Yeah, so what. We've all thought we knew someone one on here well enough to go out and they turn out to be pathetic losers. Hope springs eternal and sometimes keeps us from seeing who the dirtbag freakazoid really is. Live and learn OP, live and learn. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2012 6:34:52 PM | | Lol! I keep looking at my original post to see where the heck i had asked if i was a bad judge or character or where i had asked for any advice??? Strange - I NEVER DID!! This is supposed to be just a fun thread, never wanted to be bashed for my 'lack of good judgement' ect ect - I guess for those that decided to give me their 'great advice' have never ever had a moment of bad judgement in their lives - of course not!! Crazy crazy people | |
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