| | 19 and still a virgin, problem?Page 1 of 2 (1, 2) | | Im 19 and still a virgin, not sure what it is but i get the feeling that girls just dont like me. I knoe people believe in that "wait for the right person" stuff but that clearly isnt happeining at the moment. | |
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fha12
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 5/30/2012 11:54:39 PM | It's only a problem if you make it one. I feel your pain man I'm 22 turning 23 and still haven't gotten it in, some guys just seem to be able to handle and talk to women better than others and I've accepted the fact that I'm not the smooth talking type, I've been told so many times about how I'm good looking and apparently intimidating (I don't get that at all) so girls don't approach me. And I'm not the type to approach girls unless I got something clever to say.
Honestly, I think if a girl has any sort of sense, when a guy tells her he's a virgin she should go ****in wild on him and show him what he's been missing. I told a girl once as shit was starting to go down and she stopped because she told me she felt she was doing something wrong.... don't lose your cool and persevere, stop thinking about it which is easier said that done but seriously practice thinking of things besides sex. There's always call girls if you can't take it anymore. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 5/31/2012 4:21:05 AM | | well, i start to connect with them, everything goes soo smothly, then all of a sudden they drop me, like i've come to the point where i realize when a girl doesnt want to have a convo with me. Responses like nm u?, really doesnt mean you want to talk. Now i get that on a frequent basis so.... | |
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fha12
| | Joined: 4/17/2012
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 5/31/2012 12:30:58 PM | | Don't stress man, it's out of your control. The moment you stop worrying or caring about connecting with a girl is when they seem to come around again. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 5/31/2012 12:49:08 PM | | kudos to you I have a great deal of respect for that fact !! wait until you find the right one to share it with it will be well worth it | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 5/31/2012 5:34:13 PM | ^^^ that's a load of bs.
Be more aggressive.
They're probably getting bored waiting for you to make a move | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 5/31/2012 7:54:07 PM | | Tried that lol, got this lovely line they like to use: "all guys are the same all they want to do is use you for sex" than wasnt interested anymore . Wasnt even using her, thought there was something more there you know. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 6/1/2012 12:17:00 AM | lol I think Jim Parsons on the big bang theory explained it best "****es be crazy" :)
Personally I lost mine when I was 21. I'm extremely shy and don't consider myself good looking. Best advice I can give is don't force it. If it's meant to be
it will be done, just be ready and carry protection. You just need to meet more girls or guys, whichever you fancy. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 6/1/2012 9:56:11 PM | | go hit a bar find some skank put on a glove and have some fun dude :) seriously what is going on here , chicks want sex more than guys do most of the time | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 6/2/2012 12:11:16 AM | | Youre 19, tall dark and you play sports (cant really see your face in that pic so I cant say handsome). Guys with those characteristics can usually get almost any girl they want. Maybe youre just shy or unknowingly make it obvious that youre down on yourself.. Why dont you be more confident and sure of yourself, look at what other guys your age are doing to "get some" and just do what they do. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 6/11/2012 6:39:51 PM | | No way. It is respectable; it's a mature act that should be taken seriously. You are still young, and you won't regret waiting even though so many people around you haven't waited. It doesn't just have to be the right person for you to lose it, but it should really be for the right time, when you feel you can handle the responsibility for the possible risks. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 6/13/2012 9:12:22 AM | study what u should and shouldnt do...there r articles, shows, talk to friends, see how others do it....try different things...
there r different approaches depending on what u want....
personally i look more for gf material....if i feel attracted to a girl, i ll watch her for a bit and make her notice me without her having any clue at all im doing it... make her wonder a little bit 1st....then slowly move in, show respect, intelligence, confidence, little humor, little smiling, eye gazing....no despair dont b afraid to drop her.... or****ness....do something pleasurable together....have a coffee, a drink, listen to music, eat....etc....everything tuned to a certain balance that u only get the feel for after uve tried a few times....thats what they call experience....draw the girl to do something somewhere where u can bang her....like invite her over for a movie or food....or a drive...
idk just tips....its a science and an art....the way u put urself together fashion wise....smell, voice tone....
its a game, like anything else....gota learn the rules, study strategies figure what went wrong, what went right...like fishing, hunting etc...get feedback wherever u can...this is a good place....
i got a friend who will b havin sex with girl half hour after they met them for the first time...and hes not exactly the best looking or have money or anything like that...at first the girl will turn him down in as many different as she can cause he comes in too strong...but he doesnt give up, keeps hittin on her with a smile on his face asking why not...after a while she wont have anymore explanations to his why not....he bangs her and the next day she ll b callin for more.
this dude will b with 3 different girls a day....ive seen him pick up a girl in a cashier line up at a store and get together with her that same night....its all about studying, experiencing and perfecting.
personally i dont like that....i like getting to know a girl, feels better that way.
hope this helped. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 6/16/2012 2:25:22 AM | | I am 21 and still a Virgin. Don't rush it, if you have the added stress about it, it will just make it all the worse on you. Do what you do, meet somebody and per chance it will go from there. There is no rush I don't think. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 6/21/2012 10:19:04 AM | This might seem rather impossible to imagine... but maybe... some or many of those young ladies want the chance to find out if you're their type considering there still should be plenty of them that are truly compassionate. It seems common that so many people will somehow believe they themselves look unattractive that whenever a hottie does decides to make their move... such an action would get misinterpretated as just teasing. However... many of the mind in today's societies seem to be overloaded with skeptism that they would mostly likely think people will lie about being a virgin to hoping it'll give them a much better chance at getting laid.
Anyhow... nobody should feel ashamed to be a virgin even after reaching over a hundreds years of age because even many of the most deserving that want to be so much in love, have lived out their entire lives being single. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 6/29/2012 9:19:07 AM | | Dude I lost mine when I was 19... The sad part is while I was doing it, in my mind I though "This is it? This is the hype?" like thats all i was missing? No big deal, if i could go back and KEEP my virginity, I would!, no lie. Sex isn't really a big interest to me that much any more. Used to be but now it feels like a chore. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 6/30/2012 8:37:17 PM | Dude I lost mine when I was 19... The sad part is while I was doing it, in my mind I though "This is it?
Please don't take this the wrong way at all... but speaking for myself... it has nearly always been the most amazing of all known experiences, except when the lady region is way too small even for a pinky finger... and with one lady in particular who wasn't anywhere near the usual chosen slim figure, although she has a heart of gold... hoping to be able to overlook that which we agreed from the start to give ourselves a 6 month trial... which we both became quite broken-hearted about right then... but never thought to get so many different responses from even complete strangers... getting a whole of congratulations to at least find out if the relationship will work... on over to hearing several women who look very beautiful upset with me angrily say I deserve way better not wanting to talk to me ever again (???)... but hey... at the least... it thankfully got rid of those who are as so shallow out of my life.
It might "also" depend on how a man totally feels about the woman he has sex with that apparently proves to make for a better sexual arousal by far... and I don't mean only for the lady. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 7/4/2012 6:41:34 AM | I can tell you right now, it is overrated with the wrong partner.
Most people I know who couldn't wait, regret their first time.
I would seriously be patient, and the reality is, you're only 19.
Most guys I knew in high school, found their life partners in their early 20's, as they would gain more confidence in themselves. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 7/7/2012 9:12:00 AM | | your still young and discovering yourself dont worry about that stuff right now just focus on what you really want and dont let life or people around you pressure you. I myself am still a virgin and am waiting for the right person I refuse to be intimate with just any guy that I dont care for. I have a friend that thinks I should just get rid of it but I choose to wait until I find a deeper connection with someone that understands and accepts me. If I am being lame for that well then its my life and my choice so frankly I dont give a damn! | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 10/19/2012 7:46:20 AM | | I think I'm in your same position. I seem to give that vibe to girls. The wrong impression or the neutral impression, | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 10/19/2012 7:51:04 AM | | Its a little embaressing when it just come out in conversation. And I get made fun of with acquatences with my peers. And they are suprised. They are like, "Your a virgin, you have never had ****, virgin boy". Some people just assume ive been in a relationship. I gotten into the habit of saying some excuse, "its been a while since ive been in relationship ive been busy". | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 10/21/2012 10:20:11 AM | | I didn't lose mine until I was 21 myself. I, like you, was very shy and not very forthcoming. I started working in bars at the age of 18, but it wasn't until i was 20 when my personality started to change (confidence being in a position of authority). Perhaps you should go out and do things that break you out of a shell, you know? It's really not the end of the world. To be honest, the nice girl out there will find you still a virgin a great sign. Trust me, you want to attract the nice ones. | |
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| 19 and still a virgin, problem?
Posted: 12/2/2012 4:13:24 PM | | hey i lost mine when i was 17 man and just saying wait it would mean a whole lot more to you i wish i didnt do it somedays but oh well i did and loved it but shit happens man | |
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