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 gtr1025
Joined: 3/5/2010
Msg: 1
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There have been a few threads started about men taking pics of their "junk, packages, stiffy, pecker...whatever" and why they send them to women.

First off, it IS tacky ans disrespectful to do this to someone you just met, on line or in person. Now if the conversation comes around to sex and pictures and it is mutually agreed on then the rules obviously change. We all need a little spice in our lives, don't care who you are...."Spice" is a general term.

But what intrigues me about all of these threads is that MOST (Not all) the women seem to find the picture of a mans genitals NOT a turn on. I understand men are MUCH more visual than women. There is something to be said for imagination but do women really need little to no visual stimulation ever?
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 5/24/2012
Msg: 2
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Posted: 6/7/2012 11:50:10 AM
I really have no desire to have a woman send me a close of picture of her veejay or boobs or azz - I would much rather see a full body pic of her all dolled up wearing something sexy - so I can understand the lack of interest that women have in seeing these sort of pics.
 gtr1025
Joined: 3/5/2010
Msg: 3
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Posted: 6/7/2012 11:51:15 AM
ie: Imagination, powerful! Agreed!
 Della D
Joined: 7/10/2008
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Posted: 6/7/2012 12:03:04 PM
Ok, I can only speak for myself and not for women generally.

First off: Visual stimulation in form of a picture, I may like or appreciate but definitely do not NEED.

Second: While I find a picture of my man's****very stimulating, I do not generally find****pictures stimulating. O.k. a few are simply gorgeous to a point where a mere picture could have a stimulating effect, but these specimen are very few and far between.

Third: What is for me visually extremely stimulating even in form of a picture is that perfectly V-shaped, beautifully sculpted upper body with a narrow waist and hips. A picture of this type of upper body I would prefer any time to a****picture, except (as per above) my S/O's****

Just saying it's not that women generally do not appreciate visual stimulation, just not necessarily in form of a picture and much less a picture of the male genitals.
 GarnerGirl71
Joined: 2/10/2012
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Posted: 6/7/2012 12:03:12 PM
Let's just say its sexy in person, but doesn't photograph well. I personally prefer a nice shirtless pic of my guy. (Not on a profile, but of someone I am seeing.) Show me a nice broad, hairy chest and some belly and I'll sleep happy!
 DeerTaint
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 6
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Posted: 6/7/2012 12:05:57 PM
Most aren't worth being photographed. Just go post them on towerload if you want a reaction.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 6/7/2012 3:01:20 PM

But what intrigues me about all of these threads is that MOST (Not all) the women seem to find the picture of a mans genitals NOT a turn on. I understand men are MUCH more visual than women. There is something to be said for imagination but do women really need little to no visual stimulation ever?

Lemme break it down for you, as it pertains to ME only.

I ADORE a man's penis. Preferably the man I'm in a relationship with. It turns me on greatly to see his penis.. in various states. But some random guy's penis sent to me unsolicited? Not a turn on at all. Annoying, rude, disrespectful, smarmy, gross.. and did I mention annoying? Has absolutely nothing to do with being more visual or not, because I'm very visually driven.

I prefer to look at a penis that *belongs* to me. A penis that I get to touch and fondle, caress, lick, kiss, f*ck. A penis I am in a relationship with. A penis that means something to me. I can imagine doing all manner of things, nice things, to *my* penis. I imagine doing all manner of nasty things too. I see doing really vicious things to those that aren't *mine*... and generally speaking, most men don't enjoy that sort of thing.

If I am not in a relationship with the guy, I don't want to see his penis. I don't want to talk about his penis. I don't care about his penis.
 tjay34655
Joined: 2/15/2008
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Posted: 6/7/2012 3:05:50 PM
if they don't like the pics after sending them, RUN & HIDE!!!!!!!!!!!
 Abbbey12345
Joined: 5/22/2012
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Posted: 6/7/2012 3:56:55 PM
Pictures of genitals not a turn on. Great big firm behind, BIG turn on. Great muscle upper body, turn on. The guy I am dating would not like pictures of any posed parts of him. Would enjoy the mentioned above of models.
 CJinCentralPa
Joined: 2/14/2012
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Posted: 6/7/2012 4:21:49 PM
I get the feeling that the women prefer to ask for the pics as opposed to getting them without asking and its a "the whole is greater than the sum if its parts" kinda thing.

There are women out there (you know who you are) that browse guy pics for visual stimulation...and humor...a lot of times humor.
 00justagirl00
Joined: 5/17/2012
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Posted: 6/7/2012 4:39:51 PM
Women find a man's naked upper body a hell of alot more of a turn on then a c*ck shot.

C*cks just aren't photogenic in the slightest.
 jfcaaron
Joined: 2/13/2010
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Posted: 6/7/2012 6:49:33 PM
I agree with you no_1_bby 100 o/o
Nothing more than to recieve a xxx picture on someone your not in a relationship with (been there, recieved that) If and when your in a relationship I would say anything goes. Just be carefull on who you send it too though. As well make provisions that it's for there eyes only (not to be posted on the int.) Wish there was a way to block someone else from forwording txt.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 6/7/2012 8:13:33 PM
just a still shot of a penis.......does nothing for me.

a video of a man stroking himself, on the other hand........oh la la!!
BUT.......I prefer to have established some sort of "friendship" beforehand.....
I don't just want random pics/videos of some dude I don't know that thinks this pic is going to get him a date.
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
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Posted: 6/8/2012 1:39:11 AM

But what intrigues me about all of these threads is that MOST (Not all) the women seem to find the picture of a mans genitals NOT a turn on. I understand men are MUCH more visual than women. There is something to be said for imagination but do women really need little to no visual stimulation ever?


I never did that in my life. I don't have the guts to send a picture of my penis to a woman and why? As for women to say that seeing the picture of a penis is a turn-off I think most of them are lying. If that is the case why did they buy the PLAYGIRL magazine. May be in their views it is not a lady manner to see men's penis. I really think if I don't have a pretty good one no woman will tell Hi and she will run away the moment I take my clothes off. From my experience my penis makes women very happy even before penetration. Just when he gets very hard and pointy when she is taking her pantie off or to her touch I see the smile and joy on her face.
This happen to me and I am sure it happened to some men too the dam thing refuses to get hard whatever the reason is. You can feel the disappointment on her face.
 Trailsman5
Joined: 4/10/2006
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Posted: 6/8/2012 2:19:15 AM
What I want to know is: Why aren't women sending nude photos randomly.

C'mon ladies... what was the feminist movement about if not the right to be as big a douchebag as a man?
 gtr1025
Joined: 3/5/2010
Msg: 16
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Posted: 6/8/2012 10:26:46 AM
Mine is quite photogenic....He likes to wink for the camera!
 Rob3444
Joined: 11/14/2011
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Posted: 6/8/2012 11:02:48 AM
I think if one draws a face on the head it cool.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 6/8/2012 12:14:12 PM
Ahh..nothing sweeter than a nice pic of an erect..NIPPY! :)
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 6/19/2012 10:38:06 AM
I'd Much rather get a Full-body-shot in an evening gown or tight jeans / tubetop...
About as 'Naughty' as I would really Ask for ...might be...a Bikini.
What I want her to ~Show-Off~ is her trim Waistline..!!
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 5/24/2012
Msg: 20
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Posted: 6/19/2012 11:20:26 AM
Women find a man's naked upper body a hell of alot more of a turn on then a c*ck shot.


Then why does this site not allow men to post shirtless pics? Yes you would get plenty of pics that were not much to look at ( or could get an ewwww! response from a good many women ) but there are many pictures of women on this site showing way too much skin to be tasteful for thier particular bodies and there are no rules preventing that. I am sure that rule was made to appease the female interest.
 okiehairstylist
Joined: 6/11/2012
Msg: 21
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Posted: 6/19/2012 12:53:02 PM
IMO... men who feel the need to show their goods... are very very insecure and in need of gratification... sadly some women fall prey to it... and that's why it keeps happening... GROSS!
 CueT314
Joined: 2/5/2012
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/19/2012 2:11:12 PM
I had a man send me multiple shots of "his"**** and despite being porn star worthy, it made me tell him to lose my number and never talk to me again. Why?

None of the pictures had his face in them. Call me skeptical and cynical, but how was I to even know it was really his?

The thing was gigantic. It didn't make my panties wet with happiness to look at it, it made my cervix cry and recede in anticipated pain to look at it.

He started including pictures of "him" using it with other women, sometimes with their faces in full clear view. I'm assuming he had their permission to share, otherwise he's an even larger arsetard then I originally thought, but I do not want to see that. It makes me immediately assume nothing I share with you would be held sacred or private. And it makes me wonder how long ago that was taken - you're sitting here talking to me and trying to convince me to date you, yet you were possibly screwing some other girl the night before? No thanks.
 lapkat
Joined: 10/13/2010
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Posted: 6/19/2012 5:13:23 PM
A naked picture is only worth a thousand words! Being there live and naked in person is worth a thousand pictures!
 Dolphina
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 24
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Posted: 6/19/2012 5:39:17 PM
[Elgalawaat: As for women to say that seeing the picture of a penis is a turn-off I think most of them are lying. If that is the case why did they buy the PLAYGIRL magazine]

I never bought Playgirl magazine, but I do remember what the pictures looked like: handsome men in the nude. Plain old pictures of penises, as I received here on pof, don't show anything except the penis (and often not attractive ones at that). They are not attached to gorgeous men! As other women in this post have pointed out, many us like to see the whole man, butt, shoulders, chest, eyes, etc. A penis on its own is pretty blah, as far as I'm concerned. I am, anyway, much more tactile than visual and prefer to touch someone I'm in a relationship with.
 Me87789
Joined: 12/14/2008
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Posted: 6/19/2012 9:06:51 PM
Op - I agree - men shouldn't be sending pics of themselves to women they aren't in long term relationships with. I don't think I've EVER heard a woman say she wanted to look at that type of thing. Ugghhh..
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