| | She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.Page 1 of 1 | | Is it normal for a woman after she breaks up with a guy to hardly spend even a few nights within a month in her own bed alone, and instead staying most nights over her friends houses? Could it be that there is just a lot of stuff at her house that reminds her of her ex or could it just be she doesnt want to be alone? It just seems weird to me. Thanks | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/8/2012 8:30:23 PM | | not sure why it is your business where she sleeps when you break up.... not sure why you care... you want her to be crying on a friend..... or are you worried she is hooking up with other men.... | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/8/2012 8:42:51 PM | | Sorry you misunderstand me, I do care about her but I am moving on, her and I are just friends so I cant help but notice facebook. Its my curiosity is all. Because ive never seen it before, I mean I would rather sleep in my bed then on a friends couch or whatever lol | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/8/2012 8:51:43 PM | | Depends on how long you were together... I slept on the couch in my living room a lot as I couldn't stand to see the empty side of the bed after almost 8 years. | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/8/2012 10:01:34 PM | | Why do you care where she sleeps now, it might not be all about you or your pillow drool stain she misses. She might just enjoy a good friends company to help get through the breakup. Stop stalking her wall on facebook, delete her altogether. How will that help you move on? It wont, there is no things as a drama free nsa friendship after breaking up. Don't be a fool an try friendship. | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/8/2012 11:24:56 PM | I agree.
It is none of your business what she does.
What you are doing is looking very much like cyber stalking.
Stop it and get on with your life.
Another thought.
Perhaps she knows you are cyber stalking you and putting up facebook entries just to mess with your brain.
If so... it is working. | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/9/2012 5:44:51 AM | I thought I saw your face earlier this week. "Trying to get my ex back". Your the jealous one.
My thoughts are. It's none of your buisness what you ......wait for it......EX DOES! You are still trying to figure out what is going on with her. Jealous folks never get any rest, they spend time trying to figure it all out when, in all reality, you never will.
Stop stocking, looking, guessing.....move the Hell on. No one wants to respond to your question because we see right through you. Yeah, I have reason of possibly why she may be over at a friends house....but then that would lead you to post another thread. It's none of your concern. Friends or not. She's the only that can answer your question. Which is dumb in the first place.
Your trying to figure out if she's lonely and don't know what to do, so you think there may be some way you can rescue her out of her loniness. STOP.....really, do something and move on. | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/9/2012 9:15:01 AM | | I am assuming this is your ex who is doing this. And if it is the case, why do you even care? By calling this behavior "weird" are you implying that you don't believe it and you think she is sleeping in another man's bed? If so, it's none of your business. She is your ex. She is supposed to be moving on and sleeping with new guys. That's how it works. I sense you might have some jealousy issues to work on? If this is not your ex you are talking about and just some random girl's behavior you are curious about then my answer is the same - it's not your business where another person chooses to sleep. | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/9/2012 11:14:56 AM | | The fact that you worded your question "in her bed alone" shows that there may be more to the question then you are posing. She is doing what ever she has to do to get over the break up....you should be doing the same. | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/9/2012 3:33:51 PM | | If you make it your business about whether or not she sleeps at home, you are not "moving on". Time to take her off your Facebook. | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/9/2012 8:01:48 PM |
I am moving on
I cant help but notice facebook.
Those two statements don't really 'jive' with each other - if you're 'moving on' why are you stalking her on FB and keeping tabs on where she's sleeping??
I would rather sleep in my bed then on a friends couch or whatever lol
And who says she's sleeping on the friends 'couch' and not doing 'whatever' in bed with 'whoever'?
And why is it your business if you're "moving on"?? | |
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/10/2012 1:54:54 AM | Off Topic but seeing as happening here: Is it normal for people to take the time to make a thread and ask a question then get blasted for something that has nothing to do with the question...like maybe their profile, how long they have been on , if they have the right to care or not, how old they are, whether or not they should be here, or if they should look at their ex's facebook, accusing them of stalking....and not even answer the question the OP ASKED?
For instance: My b/f and I went to the zoo and we had such a good trip. I wore the color red and he said it disturbing to the animals. Do you think the color red disturbs animals?
answer 1: Why are you going to the zoo. They suck. Should have gone to the movies.
answer 2: You are too old to be going to the zoo. That is a kids place. You need to grow up.
answer 3: Keep going that way you will get an STD
Hmmmm....yep that is pretty normal.
Back on topic
Maybe she isn't sleeping on the couch.
That was my first thought. If she is not sleeping in her own bed then maybe she has found someone else. I know he said he sees her on FB which may mean he sees that she is staying at her friends house but whose to say if someone else isn't staying there too. She may not want to bring guys over to her place cause her ex might find out and she doesn't want to deal with that at this time.
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kja71
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| She doesnt sleep at home since breakup.
Posted: 6/10/2012 10:47:27 AM | | Everyone is different...I slept with the same man for 20 years and have been divorced for 2. I have a king size bed and still sleep on the same side as I always did. Sleeping in the middle feels weird... Maybe, she doesn't want to be home alone, maybe she's having much needed fun with her friends, maybe , maybe, maybe.......Who knows. I think you need to stop stalking her and move on, or by all means ASK HER. | |
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