| | an eternal heart break?Page 1 of 1 | | well eternal as in your whole life time?is it impossible to forget sometime even though they werent very nice to you and miss the sex intamacy and being told someone loves you and the feeling of not wanting anything else in the world?then they goaway and cut u off | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 5:10:29 AM | If a person didn't treat you nice, however sex was good and they told you they love you, then it's a sick thing.
It's almost as if you're the hoe, his the pimp.....why miss that? | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 5:27:17 AM | | after three years more of a connection just that almost a power game telling me to go out of room ect. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 5:43:20 AM | | OP you are young a couple of years can seem like an eternity. You will get over it. Maybe you should invest some time and energy working on your self esteem. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 5:50:31 AM | | I always tell women your age, listen to a mans actions not his words. He tells you he loves you but treats you like crap. Guess what, he does not love you but will tell you anything to get what he wants. Grow self respect and find a man that treats you well with his actions. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 6:16:06 AM | It is possible to carry the pain forward the rest of your life.
Some do but most don't.
The thing to remember is you do have the choice to help your healing or to keep reopening the wound.
Gosh I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you'll be good to yourself
(including choosing men who will be good to you too) | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 6:28:08 AM | | he would always say we will move in together ect but we never did it felt like a circle I wasnt a saint iether but now he wont talk to me and it hurts alot he changed his phone and he would never let me cry :( tell me to shutup I think it went to far. But I still miss him sometimes he was really sweet. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 7:13:26 AM | is it impossible to forget sometime even though they werent very nice to you ............................................................................He was really sweet? which one is it, was not nice but was sweet. I don't get that, sweet because he told you he loved you, had good sex? Honey you need help, I'm guessing you're 25 by your profile name. However, that still is not an excuse for being just plane dumb.
You need to really find yourself, get some self esteem, love you! When you love yourself, you wont be so quick to put up with bull$$hit...com'on now! Really, until you have develope this qualities, changes in your life, you will keep wanting from somone that is no good for you. When you start working on yourself, the very thought of this person will make you sick to your stomach. Why? because you love yourself, think about it. People are living to take care of their bodies, they want to make sure they're eating right, exercise they don't smoke, some don't drink. Why? cause they love themself.
Well, it goes both ways find something within yourself that you love, go from their and build on that. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 7:27:03 AM | Did ya not learn anything from this "experince" OP?????? Cause,from your question and words, you haven't, which I don't consider very bright. As you grow(age) YOU MUST learn from YOUR past. If not, you will constantly do the same mistakes over and over and over again. Which,by some people's definition is called insanity.
Stop. Think. WITHOUT emotion. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 10:35:36 AM | Anything like this will make a permanent change in you. So yes, what you felt, and what you went through will always be a part of what makes you as you are going forward. But the fear will go away, the panic will fade, and the worry that you should have stayed or gone back will eventually become all but laughable, as you integrate it all.
It takes a long time to separate out all of what actually happened, from what you wanted to believe in at the time, and then from what you want to continue to believe in going forward. Be glad of the "cut off." It will help you tremendously to fight off your pounding semi-conscious urge to dive back into the delusions you were in. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2012 12:14:24 PM | | No it will never go away,lol....At the same time it is a learning experience, and I am sure you will find some thing just as good if not considerable better, that will make you forget this most of the time... | |
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knt3
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| an eternal heart break?
Posted: 6/20/2012 4:20:14 AM | | I remember a relationship I had years back. When it was over I thought I was over too. 'Til this day, I am amazed at the physical pain it brought and experienced and what it did to my mind and soul. It changed me forever and at the time, I didn't know that I even had a chance of making it out alive from my own feelings. The human mind, body and soul are incredible, amazing and I found out very fragile too. But as humans and in time we bounce back and heal but sometimes we pay a pretty hefty price and it changes our lives where we will never be the same. For me, it turned out in the long run to actually serve me better than I ever thought and never knew would be possible or welcoming. It's like they say, "what doesn't kill you, will make you stronger" and I believe though we often don't know why at the time, stronger became the one thing that I needed to be and from there on, life in general and in all of my relationships regardless of type or level are all better for it. There are times even now that I wonder if that person ever grew or changed too and then I realize that it doesn't make a bit of difference as long as I'm okay. Life is strange and our relationships can be stranger yet. The main thing is to take care of yourself, give yourself plenty of time and in time to come, and when the time is right, you will find yourself living life and smiling again. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2012 1:28:47 AM | | You're doing the right thing by trying to find new romance, the cure for the loss. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2012 6:06:32 AM | | yeah it comes and goes I do date sometimes and am at moment but nothing ever feels that right and then the cracks of the past come through and I feel sad and remmeber how I felt and that nothing feels that way but its because we get used to a pattern of life and reassurance even if its wrong !sometimes i wanna go back even though it was hard meh:/ gota just keep moving onwards if someone goes away then there not worth it? | |
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Posted: 6/21/2012 7:14:57 AM | | You can go through your life mourning the past or you can actually live your life and look forward to the future, your choice. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2012 6:19:26 PM | | I loved what KNT !!!said please op read and reread these replies..people that have been through it..it someone tells you to leave the room ,or shut -up he doesnt love ,nor respect you..please youre young..figure out what it is you want,what you enjoy doing and just live...he sounds mean not "sweet" sex can be wonderful the flowers and such but the bottom line he was abusive and no one deserves that!!! value yourself enough to stay away from him... Im going through that at this very moment in time its not easy!!and Im alot older ,than you trust me learn from your mistakes good luck to you!! | |
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