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 CPCPCP
Joined: 6/14/2012
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a recent article in the age' Why is masturbation such a taboo topic?'
Matty Silver
June 15, 2012

Read more: http://www.theage.com.au/lifestyle/life/why-is-masturbation-such-a-taboo-topic-20120615-20e0q.html#ixzz1y8KsARaZ

finally I can freely admit 'I am a wanker' and not be ashamed.

do you discuss this openly or are you shy about this subject?
 foxboroughhottubs
Joined: 7/15/2010
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Posted: 6/18/2012 2:15:39 AM
I remember there was a widely touted statistic in my youth
90% of men and women masturbate................. the other 10% are liars !

I have been a wanker all my life , and sometimes that even involved usimg my penis:P

Of course one does not blurt this out in social situations , as it highly reduces the chances of shaking hands when meeting someone :)

As far as discussing it openly , I dont have too large a hangup about it , but I will confess , its just not something I bring up with a mere aquaintance .... Like I need anymore reasons for a woman not to date me !
 SdrawkcrB
Joined: 7/21/2011
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Posted: 6/18/2012 7:42:51 AM
@ CPCPCP
{[ Finally I can freely admit " I'am a wanker]}
NOT too openly, I didn't see you admit it in your profile !
 darknight48
Joined: 1/22/2011
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Posted: 6/18/2012 7:46:05 AM
women seem to have more of problem than men.maybe its viewed as dirty?, but then most women own vibrator so wtf
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
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Posted: 6/18/2012 4:44:19 PM

>finally I can freely admit 'I am a wanker' and not be ashamed.

Haha... I'm a wanker too! have been most of my life, it's free, pleasurable and at least it's sex with somebody you love!

I might add too, to be wanking in the company of a woman who is also wanking is a really fun, wild thing to do, can also lead to all sorts of shenanigans!
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
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Posted: 6/18/2012 6:17:46 PM
cause power institutions like religions dont want ahppy people, hapy people dont go 2 church or pray or do wat v authorities tell em to do, only v sad, lonley n unhappy do, its v same wit sex, its about controlng people n dna groups to create clans, so ignore power elites n do wat feels good n natural.
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
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Posted: 6/18/2012 6:18:49 PM
also studies show that 70 % of people masterbate n 30 % r liers! haha!
 Pookiessooverperth
Joined: 1/23/2012
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Posted: 6/18/2012 6:48:09 PM
Hell I wank...but I guess us women call it stress relief

I have a excellent vib and trust me..its damn reliable ...always knows how to hit the spot....and does its job thoroughly ..if it could kiss, it would be perfect !!!

But in answer to the OP question - is masturbating something I discuss with the girls ?...ah no... I actually dont know why cause we seem to discuss every other sex related topic quite openly .I guess alot of ladies dont feel comfortable talking about it, let alone doing it..yet it is a fantastic way of discovering what you like, dont like, what works what doesnt...I guess we are still of the mindset that we are all "good girls" and dont have needs/wants /desires...shame and I hope the next generation doesnt feel the same

.and doing with a partner..wow thats even hotter...the trick is finding a partner....still searching...searching..searching..
 Noxious_Hysteria
Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 9
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Posted: 6/18/2012 6:54:07 PM
Geez, why is it Taboo?? Most times its the only form of sex I get!!

I often say, no one shags me like me! LOL.

I dont go to the girls and say 'Damn I had a good time riding my personal tractor last night! It was SOOOOO GOOOD!' 1. I dont think they would be interested and 2. Neither am I in sharing.

I know that those girls who say they dont own a vibrator are fibbing! I guess too I am a Sex and the City tragic, NOTHING is taboo!! LOL
 alwaysdreaming2
Joined: 12/26/2008
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Posted: 6/18/2012 10:10:28 PM
Well the actual topic was I had no vibrators to compare...then I realised I am over 40 and welcome into a
"sex shop".

...10 years later I realise why my ex is my ex


No need to discuss a great electric current...that is lightning (takes two)...as for solo...the sex shop offers more than I ever dreamed of!
 Hilly02
Joined: 10/7/2011
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Posted: 6/19/2012 3:43:32 AM
I don't think it's taboo, as much as it's just something private. I certainly don't go shouting from the rooftops about it, but im not going to lie about it either if im asked.
It's something I believe everyone does and it's the very poor cousin of the real thing if you ask me.
Now....be gone all you wankers :-)
 GuessWhat1964
Joined: 4/15/2012
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Posted: 6/21/2012 2:29:50 AM
In New Zealand men have no reason to masturbate. The country has more sheep than women. Fortunately for the women sheep can't cook. If sheep could cook, women would be hunted down in the streets like animals and shipped to the Middle East under inhumane conditions.

It's only funny because it's true.
 spyme2
Joined: 4/27/2012
Msg: 13
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Posted: 6/21/2012 3:53:42 AM
hmmmmm??????????? i can freely admit im not ....... damn maybe i need a woman?
maybe once in a blue moon.
 gingerosity
Joined: 12/10/2011
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Posted: 6/21/2012 4:03:33 AM

i can freely admit im not


Wow, that must free up a lot of time... I mean... I'm not either

 spyme2
Joined: 4/27/2012
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Posted: 6/21/2012 4:05:29 AM
thanks for making me laugh i like the waving hand.
 MrsNaamah
Joined: 11/8/2011
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Posted: 6/21/2012 4:35:29 PM
On this forum it's definitely not taboo based on how many times I've seen people share some pretty graphic details. Never seen anyone go into much detail about picking their nose though...the last great taboo.
 gcdeb
Joined: 4/25/2011
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Posted: 6/21/2012 11:47:59 PM
Very clever use of emoticons gingerosity :)
 CP_Forums
Joined: 6/20/2012
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Posted: 6/24/2012 1:39:00 AM
oh my goodness heehee had a good giggle reading all your replies

well no I wont pop that I am a wanker in my profile, doesnt sound lady like.

but I am very open about sex and my needs (grins)

hope this thread made you think


thanks for your response

CP
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
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Posted: 6/24/2012 3:11:01 PM

but I am very open about sex and my needs (grins)

Sounds like a pretty healthy attitude to me!
 MikeDownUnder
Joined: 4/9/2012
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Posted: 7/5/2012 2:43:26 PM

Now....be gone all you wankers :-)


Now if everyone does that, who will be left to chat with?
 CPCPCP
Joined: 6/14/2012
Msg: 21
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Posted: 7/5/2012 10:08:18 PM
'here here' I totally agree with you Mike, it would be very quiet in the Forums without us wankers!!
 thomas.g.erwin
Joined: 5/22/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2012 9:04:33 PM
Funny, true and sad. This is the perfect site to find fussy, narcissistic wankers.
New thread title:
Do women prefer wanking instead of the real thing?
I have been wondering why their are so many single women and why they cant settle for guys who are clearly a suitable match for them. Could their be underlying psychological issues?
I'm only curious because every time I reach the, "Lets talk chemistry", All Woman flake out!
 raotw
Joined: 10/26/2011
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Posted: 7/25/2012 10:26:44 PM
If it wasnt for masturbation id still be a virgin
 Hilly02
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Posted: 7/26/2012 12:05:51 AM

I'm only curious because every time I reach the, "Lets talk chemistry", All Woman flake out

Lets talk chemistry as in random sex talk with a stranger on a dating site, or as in 'we know each other a bit now, lets talk about getting jiggy?'

If option one......they arent flaking out,they just have common sense and perhaps a few morals....if option two.....they just aren't that into you and don't want to have sex with you.

Trust me....if a woman is really into you she would prefer the real thing over a solo bean flick any day.
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/27/2012 1:14:33 AM
cause its pleasurable, so v church made it bad so wed b less happy n mre inclind 2 go 2 church 2 b manipulated.
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