| | Delete On FbookPage 1 of 1 | | Girl used to be close friends with and confessed my feelings too did not feel the same wanted to remain friends. Then she immediately got a new boyfriend. This was two painful years ago. Today I have to read her obnoxious status about her anniversary and how he is the most special person in her life. We only talk maybe once or twice a month or so and it is always her just IMing me on there maybe sometimes I do. Point is I haven't even seen her in the two years either. I have dated a couple girls since and currently dealing with another problem situation yet I loved her more than anyone before or since. Should I just delete her on there to completely move on and forget she ever existed? Will she even notice or care? | |
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Posted: 6/20/2012 8:54:12 AM |
Should I just delete her on there to completely move on and forget she ever existed?
Have you wished her congratulations yet? If so, yes, delete her.
Will she even notice or care?
She'll notice, and she'll probably care. But that doesn't mean she'll contact you asking why you deleted her. If she does, great and hopefully you can work on your friendship.
Bottom line is you need to get over her and move on. A very similar thing happened to me with my best friend of five years. After we tried a relationship that didn't work out she lost all interest in being friends again. FYI, I deleted her from facebook and did not hear from her afterwards. So the friendship is over. I tried, I failed, her loss. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2012 8:54:45 AM | You are only 26 years of age! For goodness sake move on with your life, and yes, DELETE her from your facebook page and DELETE her from your life.
All the best. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2012 9:24:25 AM | Oh boy, another facebook dilema.
If her status updates hurt your feelings then remove her posts from your newsfeed. Problem solved
BTW if you really love more than anyone before or since, you would be happy for her and not find her post obnoxious. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2012 10:41:23 AM | You love her so much that you hate the fact she's happy. Time to reevaluate the word "love" don't you think? Good luck grown man...
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Posted: 6/20/2012 4:06:39 PM | | I split up from my ex some time ago, and we never got on much after that. She hardly spoke on Facebook and was to painful to look at her pic on there. Brought back memories. So I deleted her off Facebook even took off her pics in my photos. Suppose what I'm saying is get rid of her. Move on, its hard doing but erase her out of your life and concentrate on others that might be interested in you. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2012 5:29:27 PM |
We only talk maybe once or twice a month or so and it is always her just IMing me on there
Delete her or hide her, but why on earth are you talking to her? She's not the one "holding on" quite obviously, *YOU ARE*... you are doing this to *yourself*. Why are *you* worried if she will notice or care? | |
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Posted: 6/20/2012 6:00:56 PM | | Unfriend is your friend. Go to the friends list page, right click on her name and unfriend! Presto, gone! | |
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Posted: 6/20/2012 7:50:49 PM | | If you get a thorn in your thumb and it bothers you,remove it, if you like the pain for some odd reason Shaddupaboutit. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2012 11:20:26 AM | | Yes, by all means delete her without giving it a 2nd thought. There is no reason for you to continue allowing her to get in touch with you whenever she wants on her own terms. You're a better person than this and you need to treat yourself well. There's nothing to hold onto here...let it all go. I know in my own life there have been times when I had to let things or others go and when I did, you wouldn't believe how good I felt afterward only to realize that I should have done this a whole lot sooner. Take care of you and let others take care of themselves as we generally always have something on our plate that we're dealing with. You don't need to carry this baggage anymore. If by chance after you delete and she calls you right away and ask why....I'd say, "why not", wish her well and say goodbye and hang it up. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2012 3:57:53 AM | I agree with what you said, when I split up with my partner even though I had good days and bad, I couldn't quite let go. I had things she bought me that I couldnt get quite let go of at the time, valentines gifts etc.
But once I threw everything away that even reminded me of her and anything she left laid about it was painful at the time but afterwards I really felt it easier to cope and like you said I got over things a lot quicker. Starting a whole new chapter in your life rather than wishing you could go back and edit chapters is better. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2012 7:50:33 AM | | You need to get to the point where you accept that you are better off without someone who does not make you a priority. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2012 12:56:10 AM | Unsubscribe from her status updates to solve the "problem" of seeing her online if you want the quick fix and are interested in perhaps resuming a friendship when the emotional/ego-driven haze clears...
Delete her if you don't feel a friendship is worth salvaging.
Either way, move on with dignity. That's the only way. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2012 1:17:17 AM | | Move on. She has a life with someone else while you are still moaning over something from 2 yrs ago. It's high time you took yourself out of this girls life. Wish her well and let her know you aren't going to be facebooking her anymore, if she is a true friend she should understand and respect your decision. | |
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