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 DogManLuke
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I work nights so it is really tough to meet people outside of work. I don't drink so bars and clubs are off the list. I'm just completely at a loss. So ladies, where do you go in the middle of the night that your approachable (don't need to be maced!) and sober? Lol.
 lightbrownsuga2luv
Joined: 12/1/2011
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Where do I meet women from 10pm to 10 am?
Posted: 7/1/2012 3:19:48 AM
sleeping or working
 vestaceres
Joined: 6/13/2012
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Posted: 7/1/2012 4:40:45 AM
If I were one of the night, I'd be stationed in a brothel or on a street corner, under the behest of some pimp. Since you work nights, maybe you should find somebody from 10a.m to 10p.m?
 *Cowboy*
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Posted: 7/1/2012 5:06:01 AM

I work nights so it is really tough to meet people outside of work. I don't drink so bars and clubs are off the list. I'm just completely at a loss. So ladies, where do you go in the middle of the night that your approachable (don't need to be maced!) and sober? Lol.
You dont work 7 days a week. Try meetup groups etc...

Cowboy
 SnowMoon2012
Joined: 1/21/2012
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Posted: 7/1/2012 6:35:32 AM
I have a friend who is just by nature a night owl... She married a man who works rotating shifts who she met midnight bowling... she had success by living her life and doing the normal things like grocery shopping ,laundry, movies on her time frame... this way she met men that also kept later hours... There are many occupations that require working nights...it might be a good idea to note this in your profile asking for same...

do the research on what activities are in and around your area... look for special events in places that may not normally open at night...
 NovSieFox
Joined: 4/15/2011
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Posted: 7/1/2012 7:04:11 AM

I don't drink so bars and clubs are off the list.


Don't bars and clubs serve non-alcoholic drinks?
 DogManLuke
Joined: 6/24/2012
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Posted: 7/1/2012 7:17:10 AM
LOL. Well I actually work 6 to 7 days a week. I guess ill try midnight bowling sometime.
 Pinky127
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Posted: 7/1/2012 9:10:29 AM
Don't bars and clubs serve non-alcoholic drinks?


I thought the same thing.
Op,you can always order a coke/soft drink/coffee.
Look around for late night Venues that are open and which cater for people working nightshift.
Hopefully there are some places around that are open 24/7.
Also,utilize the days to get and about and accept any social invitations that come your way.
Good luck.
 Bond_Girl
Joined: 6/16/2011
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Posted: 7/1/2012 9:33:15 AM
When will you be able to date her given your working commitments?
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:18:25 AM
Some pool halls or bowling alleys are open until 1-2am. There are even a few that are open 24/7. As mentioned by others, you could to go a bar and order a soda and some appetizers.
 petebelongs
Joined: 6/23/2006
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:28:44 AM
Yo dude, your profile says that you are a Christian? Go to church and look around for a nice lady to talk with and start a relationship.
 *Cowboy*
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:49:38 AM

LOL. Well I actually work 6 to 7 days a week.
If your working 10+ hours a day 6 or 7 days a week you dont have time to meet women or date. You barely have time for a pet.

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 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2012 11:58:09 AM

If your working 10+ hours a day 6 or 7 days a week you dont have time to meet women or date. You barely have time for a pet.

Cowboy


Exactly...even the poor hamster would be left all alone that or dead.
 SmilingSalmon
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 7/1/2012 1:57:51 PM
Run Escape Santa??? LOL Okay

I know you Pisces types, if at 20 you are already working 60-70 hours per week, you had better stop it now. You Pisces guys start something and make it a lifetime force that dominates your lives.

If you want any kind of a normal life, stop doing night time maintenance, unless it is part of a very disciplined plan and is very temporary, like you own the business and you will have a crew to do it for you while you supervise on occasion...in the near future.

If you are at work, you can't meet anyone during work time anyway.

For night time meeting people, which you can't do I was going to say hotel night auditors. I did that once and had calls all night from men trying to meet women in the middle of the night. Some were quite interesting.

Grocery store. People shop at night, no crowd, open to conversation or they wouldn't be shopping in the middle of the night. The 3am line of cars at McDonalds. Get out and meet people. Young girls like that, I have seen a few match up like that in my town. That is where you can say, "Hey, want to go Glow Bowling right now?"

You are young, so your age group will have some night owls in the laundromat. Could be a great place to meet women. Help them with carrying their laundry and those heavy bottles of detergent. They are a captive audience and be sure to have some interesting, but not weird or naughty, clothes for them to accidentally on purpose see.

All night bowling is good, but often people go to those places in pairs or groups, not as singles, unless they are addicted to a certain arcade game.

You have to be really bold. Start a Meet-Up Group and organize a bonfire, a drumming session under the stars. Or Midnight Moose Spotting (or deer, or raccoon, or kangaroo mouse, or Big Foot...whatever is interesting in your area, it can be rare or common, it doesn't matter, just dumb fun for those looking for things to do). Your Meet-Up Group could be about finding the best Midnight Ice Cream.

Astronomy Clubs are a great thing to join and activities are always at night. Yes, some start just before dark, but most last way into the night and you do not have to come right when it starts. People come at all hours during these events. It is a great group of singles, married, young to older, so you have better chances for ways to meet someone.

Start or find a Meet-Up group for once per month best Pizza dinners, or most trendy food. Most colleges host outdoor movies on campus free for all who want to come. The Parks Department in every city and county hosts events, find out what they are and attend what sounds good.

Volunteer at a Pet Shelter. Be a ladies shoe salesman part time. Go to the mall dressed up, smelling nice and looking good and sit on the edge of the fountain by the jewelry stores. Offer to buy anyone interested that talks to you a Smoothie or a Cinnabon. Tour the perfume counters in the large department stores and ask girls which scent they like best as you smell all of them, or ask if they like the cologne you sampled...the perfume counter is better.

Be sure your vehicle and apartment are clean for when you find that date, which could be anytime, anywhere. You just have to make an effort and be creative, but you have to talk, engage in back and forth conversation, not only 30% of the time in short sentences. Also, don't sabotage yourself by having to have everything and every woman conform to what you want all of the time. Pisces men are notorious for that and generally have no interest in not being that way. Only the ones that get financially comfortable or better keep a woman with that attitude, especially when coupled with the fact that you guys don't talk much. Conversation is key with a female. Learn to laugh and stop being so serious. Don't let your time be dominated with testosterone (man friends). It is the kiss of death for a Pisces in knowing how to relate to women.

Don't think of it as a date. Think of it as meeting a new friend like you did in HS and there were no pressures, you just hung out and had fun.

SS
 Tia_Kay
Joined: 6/27/2012
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Posted: 7/2/2012 7:51:45 AM
go to ihop or denny's. your first encounter is all about getting to know the other person anyways. so you can have a bite to eat while you guys chat it up and if you hit it off then you could surely work in a meeting around your schedule.
 ArticLife
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Posted: 7/2/2012 8:06:59 AM
Salmon, I believe his name refers to Runescape, which is a browser based MMO game. Fairly fun.
 MaximumPower
Joined: 4/5/2012
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Posted: 7/2/2012 11:57:47 AM
Yeah but this guy really wants Santa to get away. Santa is in danger.
 CawkBlawker
Joined: 6/25/2012
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Posted: 7/2/2012 12:16:53 PM
You're 20, you can't drink legally anyway. The most obvious answer is go to a strip club. Those women will be more than happy to talk to you at the late hours.
 Rheostatic
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Posted: 7/2/2012 10:03:27 PM

I know you Pisces types, if at 20 you are already working 60-70 hours per week, you had better stop it now. You Pisces guys start something and make it a lifetime force that dominates your lives.


You went onto write a lot, but unfortunately most sane people stopped reading after this line.
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