| | Most important questions to askPage 1 of 5 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5) | | What are your 3, or 4, or 5 most important questions you ask someone new? Is it me, or is it just the men I pick - a lot of questions I try to ask them, they turn it into something sexual. Is this the norm? | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 9:59:52 AM | I usually ask them how much they make, if they have their own jet, what their astrological sign is and if they are wanted by Interpol. 
Don't forget: Paper or Plastic? | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:03:34 AM | Some men will do that. As you have realized, it's a case of weeding out those who aren't looking for the same as you are.
I don't have a list of questions which I ask people but I have learned to listen really well. People normally give clues as to who they really are, it's simply a case of paying attention and believing them. For example. these men who you have been speaking with, show fairly quickly what their sole intent is. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:06:09 AM | Do you have any STDs or other critters?????
What postions do you like????
Do you swallow????
Are you bi????
And how would you define "openmindness"????
a lot of questions I try to ask them, they turn it into something sexual. Is this the norm?
Yes. Especially from dirty old men. See above for an example. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:12:10 AM | When I met my BF we spent a few weeks emailing back and forth about our day to day life. We kept it very light and casual.
For the first meet we went for a glass of wine in a very familiar place of my choosing. I asked about where he grew up, about his family, where he went to school and asked him to describe his best friend. Was it 'interview-ish'? Maybe but I have always found when you allow someone to talk about themselves they get very comfortable and relaxed. I also offered him the same information. We laughed quite a bit and decided to meet for a real date a few weeks later.
It never got 'sexual' if it had I would have paid for my wine and walked out. What you are getting from these losers is complete disrespect. Don't rush to meet after one email and do not put up with any bulsh1t. A first meet or date should be friendly and very respectful. What you have discovered is exactly why these wackos are alone. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:18:30 AM |
a lot of questions I try to ask them, they turn it into something sexual. Is this the norm? Yes. Especially from dirty old men. See above for an example.
A first meet or date should be friendly and very respectful. What you have discovered is exactly why these wackos are alone.
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:23:01 AM | | If they are that immature or just a plain LOOSER that everything you say they turn it into something sexual, immediately stop communication with them and wasting your time from finding yourself a decent human being. It is most likely not the questions you are asking it is just their mentality. Maybe ask what their IQ is before chatting. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:31:36 AM |
. What you have discovered is exactly why these wackos are alone.
If I had any brains I probably should take offense to the laughing going on here. Thank goodness I'm a dumb phuck. ;) | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:33:19 AM | Are you married
Been engaged
Kids
Own/rent
Hopes/dreams
Then:
Credit score
Debt
Liabilities
Annual income
5 year plan
Finally
Our kids names
How many kids
Joined hopes/wishes
Side of the bed
Then paper or plastic | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:38:48 AM | Usually I find within a week of exchanging emails those looking for sex will bring it up. They might say "cuddling" or "Massaging" but I get what they want. If a man mentions sex before we've even met I stop talking to him. Asked the last man to do this to me "Would you talk like that to someone you just met in real life?"
Normally I ask about their work, kids, home. If they turn that into something sexual they're pathetic. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:40:34 AM | | You hit the nail on the head, but do we all know what our IQ is? Must go searching to find a questionare that I can send to some of these guys before I meet them ;) | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:42:52 AM | I don't ask questions. You get WAYYY better answers to things you'd want to know if you just let them babble and pay attention.
When you ask a direct question, they think too hard about how they "should" answer... | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 10:50:17 AM | | But I am alone, too, that does not make me a wacko. Maybe these guys see it as just that - single and anything goes. On my profile I stated that I was widowed after a long marriage, hoping that would make some realize I am searching to fulfill my life again with someone with substenance. Why would they even bother to contact me? Don't answer that, I know the answer. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 11:26:05 AM | One thing I like to ask during a date (usually fairly deep in, as most of my dates tend to run long) is...
"Tell me about a time you felt really loved. It doesn't have to be romantic, just a moment when someone did something and you felt truly loved."
Every woman I've dated has answered that question without issue, and the stories are not only fascinating but remarkably diverse. It's quite amazing what sort of things people remember as sincere expressions of love, and educational in terms of understanding that everyone interprets "acts of love and devotion" differently. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 12:06:43 PM | I've had first-time chat conversations that went sort of like this:
Me: So what do you do for a living?
Him: I'm in sales. How big are your breasts?
Me: Big enough. Do you have kids?
Him: Yeah. Do you shave?
Me: Only my legs and armpits. What do you like to do in your spare time?
Him: Cum. Do you like to give oral?
Me: Only during final exams. So what do you look like?
Him: I'm 3 and 3/4 inches when soft, but don't let that fool you, it gets all the way to 8 and 1/4 inches when fully erect and it has a 26 and 1/2 degree curve to the left with a little scar where the doctor slipped with the scalpel a little when he was circumcising me and I keep the hair trimmed back to 5/8 of an inch around the base to make it easier for you to deep throat me. Wanna see some pictures?
Me: That's ok, surprise me someday. So what kind of music do you like to listen to?
Him: Hmmm, I need a trim......
Me: How about movies, what are your favorites?
Him: Do you think I should shave my balls or do you like men all natural?
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Posted: 7/1/2012 12:10:00 PM | Windy: I'm surprised!!! I really am!!
Your post ^^^ had to be a joke............HAD to be!!!!
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Posted: 7/1/2012 12:12:19 PM | Sometimes I play along just to see how far they'll go!
^^^^Fair enough, it's maybe 10% embellished, and not all one conversation, but no, it's really not that far off the mark, I'm sorry to say.
VVVVVV Actually, there is a guy a couple of years ago who not only asked most of those very questions, he sent me a pic of "it" lying on a table with a dollar bill beside it for comparison, just in case I had any doubts. THEN, he tried to convince me how great it would be if I would get to know his dog....I mean REALLY get to know it. And I am NOT making that one up. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 12:13:12 PM | | The norm just for those goofing on the internet. People get ballsy behind the animosity of the pc. Doesn't mean you have to play along though. Block & delete. Don't waste time thinking your questions provokes their sexual overtures. A cool breeze does that. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2012 12:19:45 PM | The first questions women ask me are penis size and income. LOL
This is what I ask before considering a first date.LOL | |
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