| | Review me 25 M Page 1 of 1 | Hey I have been on the site for a while but I have never gotten any messages. I have sent out a few messages and got some responses and went on one date but I don't know it would be nice to have a woman contact me for a change. Maybe my profile is not serious enough? What do you guys think.
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Posted: 7/2/2012 11:51:18 PM | 3 things come to mind:
1) Don't expect women to message you. Most here don't.
2) Remove sex from interests. Just do it. I shouldn't need to explain this.
3) Get a pic of you smiling, make it your main pic.
Your profile doesn't seem super serious, you come across as quite a party animal. A lot of girls looking for some kind of solid relationship will probably pass you by, so unless you don't mind that, fine tune your profile a bit. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 7:45:54 AM | What ^he^ said.
<-- click my History for more on pics.
Read the two green posts at the beginning of this forum for tips on profile content, and start over.
(First Date is long, but decent.)  | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 3:41:27 PM | | Take out the fact that you "party" and STATE that it means drugs. ALL chicks are turned OFF by that. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2012 4:02:13 PM | | There are plenty of people on this site who do drugs, smoke, are atheists, gay, and whatever else. Embrace and celebrate who you are. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 12:12:17 PM | | Thanks guys I will work on it. What do you suggest that I replace "party" with I like to take recreational drugs? Or should I just remove it? I am disappointed with the lack of choices on the do you do drugs part of the profile there is only socially or <3 times a week why is there no simple yes. I will revamp my profile and keep fishing. My mom's friend who is older said that he has women contacting him all the time so I thought perhaps there was something in my profile that was a red flag but I guess I will go back to my original assumption that I won't get messages without sending some first. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 12:26:58 PM | Most guys need to send messages. If you have a great profile and great pics you will receive some.
With Intent of "Nothing serious", you won't get much on this site.
Your pics also portray a nothing serious attitude and party image.
"420" is probably more likely to be searched (and spelled correctly) than "Marijuana". | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 12:54:51 PM | | Your mom's friend is in a different age range where the women are more confident. Does he have the same answer to the drugs question? Obviously don't lie and change it, but many girls/women are turned off by it and the whole smoking thing in general. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 1:04:59 PM | | Don't say you want to have a date in a quiet, not too populated place. I doubt you're a creep, but with the amount of online creeps you hear about on the news a woman may read that as "let's go to a secluded area so I can rape you." | |
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