| | Ok Guys - Your voice and mine.Page 1 of 1 | I just can't seem to get things going on POF. I would like some feedback from
the men out there. Is my profile boring? What's missing?
On the flip side, I see lots of profiles that need help. Profile photos should be
from the neck up. We want to see your face. No sunglasses. Your eyes reveal
your soul. A full body shot is good but should not be your main profile photo. Smile,
if you don't want women to think you are no fun. Muscle posing will make you
appear vain. | |
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| Ok Guys - Your voice and mine.
Posted: 7/4/2012 8:38:41 AM | Message me first" is very similar to my username. When I was looking, my caption was " or at least meet me halfway!"
Answer the kids question. I suspect you really don't want to make new babies.
You could add a few more specific items in your Interests field to help a guy get a sense of your personality and huour. Why not add a favourite tv show? comedian? food or cuisines?
The profile itself is OK. But - instead of saying you don't like something, phrasing it to say what you DO like is more approachable. Detail and humour also helps a guy find something to write to you about.
The info about finding a man who is sensual and affectionate and all that is going to give the impression you are overly concerned about that aspect. Mention it once somewhere in your description - they'll get the idea. (and yes, they ARE out there.. *blush*)
The email settings are really silly. Other than No Smokers/Druggies/Married or IE, the rest are truly negotiable.
I also had an 80-85% response rate to messages when I was looking. Are you writing to guys YOU find interesting? If you are, what are your messages like?? | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 8:49:38 AM | Do a pic with the dog, not of the dog.
Don't ever answer anything "Prefer not to say". Do you really plan on having more kids at 46?
A few more Interests would be good. Be more specific than "outdoor sports". Don't duplicate your Interests list in your profile text. Put "The Beach" and "Walks" in your Interests, then mention "long walks on the beach" in your text.
You could use a little more content about who and what you are, and less about what you do.
Put a blank line between your paragraphs.
Take out all the negative stuff about what you don't want. Screen in your Inbox. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2012 10:49:05 AM | You have ALOT of info in your profile. I feel like saying take a breath. The point of no wiskers try just say "I like clean shaven or full beard" it sounds positive.
I do like the photo on the motorcycle it shows a ver nice smile. I also agree with a photo with your dog instead of just the dog. Happy Fishing | |
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