| | You got duped again????Page 1 of 1 | | I hear a lot of women (over the age of 25 no less) complain about how guys will fake emotions just in order to have sex. I'm just curious as to how in the world any adult could fall for these tricks when just about every woman over 25 has seen them at least once.....someone enlighten me. | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/7/2012 1:15:57 PM | | Are you saying you have never faked/talked a girl into getting into her pants? | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/7/2012 1:16:17 PM | I cannot say I have been * duped * over sex..but I will say I have met men who claim to want a relationship who really have no business trying to have one. A lot have had unfinished business with the Ex...or just lame ass mental issues that really needed some sort of medical attention ; and sadly it takes time to see if someone is really serious or mentally capable of being in a relationship.
I do not think everyone really * falls * for things as they maybe want to believe in someone. I know it happens to men as well. It may even happen to you. And some people are lucky if it is just sex, done & over with. Some cases are drawn out for a long time period, only to learn they landed a psycho !
I also believe some people do meet fast & have a connection...so they go with their gut. It is not easy out there. Some cases are down right obvious...but not all the time. | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/7/2012 1:32:53 PM | I don't know if you ever get duped by believing in someone.... if we don't have our word what do we have??? so personally I would rather be duped than always have my guard up.....
I live by the thought that I never do anything I wouldn't do or would regret having done if it doesn't go or end how I want.... the end result doesn't mean the path was not ok.... I trust people.... until they prove me wrong to do so....
have I been duped??? probably.... did they do it on purpose??? who knows.... I would like to think that people want to be who they say they are... they just sometimes have problems following through with it.... | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/7/2012 1:35:22 PM | | Nope, not even as a teenager and i'm 34 now. Personally i don't date or even hang out with females that i don't actually like & really want to be around. Without a real attraction or at least friendship, sex is garbage to me. | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/7/2012 2:16:57 PM | I'm just curious as to how in the world any adult could fall for these tricks when just about every woman over 25 has seen them at least once.....someone enlighten me.
People see what they want to see--not reality.
Sometimes a grilled cheese is just a grilled cheese and not the second coming of christ.
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=3a0_1264288486 | |
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Posted: 7/7/2012 5:31:43 PM | Left of Normal +1.
Also, keep in mind, that MOST of the members of either sex, who claim to have been "fooled" by someone else, actually themselves chose to sleep with them, simply because they wanted to have sex with that person.
The number of people who have sex with someone simply because the other person claims to have feelings for them, and for no other reason, is almost infinitesimally small. | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/7/2012 5:44:00 PM |
Are you saying you have never faked/talked a girl into getting into her pants?
Personally, no. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2012 5:46:49 PM | | Left...for me a Grilled Cheese IS the second coming of Christ....LOL omg that sounds so good. Sorry guys, I am craving something like this....LOL | |
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Posted: 7/7/2012 6:23:49 PM | I had one friend who had sex with men that she just met over and over again. She did the whole 'Oh I'm just using them' thing, but the lie wore awfully thin as the days pressed on with no contact from them. And guess who she whined to?
I couldn't understand why she kept doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results? Albeit results she pretended to not want. Anyway, I suggested she set up new and healthy boundaries for herself.
She called me up after a few days of being celibate and told me that she had gone out with a guy and had only performed oral sex. She was genuinely proud of herself.
I'm just not sure what to say to people like this (she was 4 years older than me). I'm a bit incredulous too Op. | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/7/2012 6:45:53 PM | I do not believe that you can get "duped" into having sex.... Yes, there are tons of men that will say anything to get in your pants... but it is your choice whether you take your pants off or not... The men have not tricked you.... you chose to... (or whoever)
It is hard to find out what a man is after because there are so many after just sex. I would say the best way to find out is don't have sex with everyone you date. Wait until there is a real emotional connection there... which does not happen in a week or two... that takes time... There is a difference in an emotional connection and lust. You must be able to control your own lust because guys have an even harder time controlling it. | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/8/2012 7:03:56 AM | They don't have to dupe them. By the threads on here alone, most are willing to be used for sex and date a man still seeing and lining up others for a month/ months. Please tell me, who on earth would do that in the real world.? None - they would immediantly realise this was just a use attempt by a player, and walk right away with their self respect to find someone who really had interest in them and them alone.
Yet here they wonder, why they are still here looking after years ... ;o/ | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/8/2012 8:10:45 AM | I hear a lot of women (over the age of 25 no less) complain about how guys will fake emotions just in order to have sex. I'm just curious as to how in the world any adult could fall for these tricks when just about every woman over 25 has seen them at least once.....someone enlighten me.
Men fall for * tricks * too! There are women on here that hook up with guys in the hope of getting $$$ for sex.
OP - maybe you will be the next lucky "stiff" to get hit on by a gal with Chiclet teeth who offers to pop her dentures for a BJ!  | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 2:37:35 PM | I wish more men were like you. Thought like you.
I just clicked your profile and see we are in the same area....and geesh....then saw the shape of your lips...sexy, very kissable...now those, are worth licking chocolate off of.
Oh well, too bad you don't enjoy being with a woman sexually...too, too bad.
edit: it's not that hard OP. Men can be easily swayed just as women...say something that makes your knees weak....that is all it takes. You might say " I wouldn't fall for that" I call BS.
First you say something nice and agreeable...then sexy.... then say something taken out of context and they find themselves defending it. When you go on defense you weaken your stance...that is when the other party moves in. | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/9/2012 9:51:20 AM |
Are you saying you have never faked/talked a girl into getting into her pants?
Not that I can recall.
Have you ever faked being faked to let a guy get into your pants? | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/9/2012 11:24:04 AM | | I think that we all make choices to do certain things....Have I been duped? Well, at one point I would've said yes, but the way I see things now, hardly. I let it happen, and I consider it a lesson learned. I wouldn't change a thing, and would do it all over again because we grow to be the people that we are from our past experiences. | |
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| You got duped again????
Posted: 7/9/2012 12:23:39 PM | If you are buying that women are being 'tricked' then you are the one duped.
Try hanging out with adult women, who take accountability for thier own choices...and dont think 'giving' sex equals 'instant relationship forever and ever'. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 12:58:49 PM | This is why simultaneously laugh and slap my forehead when some women think they're proctecting themselves by saying "I won't sleep with him until I'm in love" or until we're in a "committed relationship" or "when I fee a connection". Words and "emotions" can be deceiving.
I know I'm in the tiniest of minorties here, but it's for the above reasons [among many others] that I think sex before anything short of marriage is putting the cart before the horse. You put yourself at risk in so many ways each time you meet someone new and sleep with them, whether it's 2 hours or two months down the line. Sure - some people end up getting divorced and/or the spouse isn't who they claimed to be, but I'd still argue that intimacy with someone to whom you are wed is a much safer bet than intimiacy with someone you met on the internet a few weeks ago. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 4:12:17 PM | | If you're intentions are purely sex and not relationship, "hit it and quit it" then let the woman know. If you make the woman believe you really care about her/her well being but you just want to get IN her then she is being duped by you. That's sex under false pretenses. | |
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