| | What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?Page 1 of 2 (1, 2) | | What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities? Alcohol, food? I have found personally that drinks helps the mind and body relax. It opens up to more intense feelings from all the senses. Wine seems to be the better of the beverages and any kind of finger foods like fruit. What are your experiences? Anything that is a must have. | |
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 1:07:18 PM | Maybe its just me, but I find food during sex a huge turn-off. I want to taste my partner instead of fruit or whipped cream. Now a glass of water on the nightstand is a whole other story...!
I like a slow massage or teasing kisses during foreplay. Anticipation of the actual touches is a powerful thing. And I really want my partner to be vocal when he cums. That rush of power when he cums is enough to send me over the edge. | |
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 2:24:51 PM | Ugh Ohh - Op - you're in danger of being deleted. I'm guessing under the 'pity' clause.
Real quick then, I see from your profile you're an executive. Trust what you've learned so far. Yes - for women - alchohol is a tremendous enhancer to help bring out her sexuality / lower her inhibitions.
For men, any actions by his partner that build his confidence, ego, trust, etc. If your partner is doing any of these things for you (noted as 'communication' by previous poster), hang on to her!! | |
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 3:16:35 PM | | For me it's the chemistry and an open mind. Regardless of external stimulants (things like food, alcohol, toys etc.), if the chemistry is thick and heavy, as in being almost tangible in the air, and the persons involved can truly tune into each other with an open mind...........that's when senses are flying highest and everything is at it's most intense. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 4:10:10 PM | Suitable lighting and music, perhaps a moderate amount of alcohol, lots of foreplay.
For the adventurous: On occasion, bringing in a third person will enhance sexuality and sensuality through a little competition and maybe cooperation! (Caution: If the third isn't chosen carefully, the whole scenario can be especially memorable - like a train wreck.) | |
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 5:49:33 PM | My experience with alcohol and sex is that it doesn't enhance my enjoyment of the latter. Alcohol dulls my senses, and I like to sense things acutely. Orgasms are much more amazing without drinks.
A lovely shared hot bath, or even better, a hot spa really gets me going. I would have sex in a spa if it wasn't unhygenic. Anyway, the hot water and the communal aspect of it is very very sensual. | |
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 6:09:21 PM | I've enjoyed a shared shower or hot (bubble) bath as part of my 'training', many years ago...
Candlelight, body massage, ultra-soft ~Aura-Kisses~ and Lots of tender carresses!!
Along with good communication . . .
I just Love a lady that knows how to increase the intensity of her breathing with her increased desire and passion!!
*PANT!*PANT!!* | |
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 6:12:30 PM | There are so many possibilities, I suppose. Perhaps it's like vitamins: if you are low on something, a given counter balance might be just the trick to light you up, while if you are not, it might interfere with your natural pleasures.
In my longer lasting relationships, I found that when things were going well, that anything might be an enhancer, or a distraction. As they went down the tubes, it was more likely that some standardized mood assist would be needed, like alcohol, or whatever.
In the heat wave we are going through, I was muddling in my mind, that the hot sweatiness could, with the right mate, lead to lots of extra fun of various kinds, as we invented ways to use the heat to please each other; and it could just as well be a huge depressant on fun, by causing us to be heat-fatigued, or to be so uncomfortable touching ourselves, that touching the other person would be even worse.
As for must-haves, the other person being in the right mood, is the only one. | |
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 6:40:13 PM |
What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities? Alcohol, food? I have found personally that drinks helps the mind and body relax. It opens up to more intense feelings from all the senses. Wine seems to be the better of the beverages and any kind of finger foods like fruit. What are your experiences? Anything that is a must have.
Alcohol is a liquid chastity belt for me. I'm sure there have been some disgruntled men in past who thought drinks were a way to get my nickers off. Quite the opposite.  I don't kiss and tell or kiss and type. No one wants to read about midgets, jello and purple duct tape, anyway.  | |
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 7:21:28 PM | ohhhhhh rubbing my hands together on this one.
I love talking about sex and even participating in it more. One poster said communication and I agree that is imperative throughout the entire love making session. That doesn't mean you talk the whole time but definitely letting one another what feels good and what you want him/her to do to you and vice-versa.
I am not a big drinker, I tend to prefer him being my opiate as opposed to using something else to rev me up or relax me. I mean if I didn't trust him and feel comfortable with him, I wouldn't be there in the first place. Having said that, warm oils are always nice. Doing a lot of touching, massaging, kissing, light biting, licking sucking you name it...whatever your mind wants you body to do...do it and have fun...be passionate, laugh, cry, be intense, lighten up and enjoy.....oh yea...and did I mention to really, really enjoy:)
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 8:02:31 PM | For me, alcohol or any other 'drug' is a huge turn-off. I figure if my partner needs a drink or two (or whatever) to loosen up, then she's probably not really interested in me. In fact, it makes me feel unattractive.
As for enlivening things, there are lots of things. Once in the privacy of the bedroom (or where ever), I really like an uninhibited personality. I like to experiment, so prudes are a drag. The occasional toy can add some fun, too. I could go on, but I'm tired so I won't. | |
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| What things do you believe help enhance sexuality and sensuality during sexual activities?
Posted: 7/8/2012 9:16:56 PM |
but the reality is that to much talking takes away from the experience itself
Maybe for you........but definately not for me!!
I think talking greatly adds to the experience....especially if you and your partner are on the same wave length.
I prefer not to be intoxicated, a light buzz is alright, but if I'm anywhere near drunk the sex isn't going to be that great for me.
Food.....ehhh.........it's alright in the "foreplay" stages...but not in the actual act.
For me, the best sex is the kind that takes the whole day building up......teasing each other, talking about what we are going to do to each other, light touches and deep passionate kisses, those looks you give each other knowing that "later" is going to be everything you want it to be........ | |
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