| | Letter to my ExPage 1 of 1 | | Bruised and battered, torn and shattered. Thats how I feel now. You asked for my allclaiming it was nothing and then made me feel so small. I guess that my everything just wasnt enough to keep you as part of my life. The words that you spoke so emotionless to me have cut me worse than a knife. Had I been stabbed my wounds would heal and the memory fade over time, but the damage you caused will forever remain, it will always be etched in my mind. You want me to love you but only so much. To want you but not really care. To act as you act and to switch back and forth with feelings as thick as the air. Well let me explain and be very clear thats something that i just cant do. To be with you but not. To need you but not a lot. That only makes sense to you. When I love I love hard and I expect the same. I'll do anything to please my man which is something you know firsthand. I dont ask for a lot. I dont need the moon just do for me what you can. But I DO expect to be your only one. I shouldnt have to wait my turn. I would never ask you to wait in line but you expect me to. PATIENTLY! I am hurt by your words...even more by your actions but I guess I will have to move on. It hurts to say bye but I've already cried. I've shed all the tears that I can. I feel sorry for any man that comes after you cuz I'll never be the same. I gave you my all now theres nothing left. Anyone now will only get simple cuz you took the best. I want to believe and have faith in love but I simply no longer know how. Broken and battered, torn and shattered. Thats how I feel right now. | |
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| Letter to my Ex
Posted: 7/8/2012 3:05:00 PM | | Sounds like what I went through with my ex fiance. Maybe he is bipolar? Mine was. :P | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 3:21:43 PM | | I have a hard time understanding a victim mentality... and now you plan on holding onto your pain foreverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.... sounds like fun... and all future men be warned. I'm so thankful that I preceive and have a understanding of love in a totally different way then you.... When relationship changes happen in my life... I know heart and soul its the best day of my life... it's not about him it's about you... fall in love with being alive ......... best of luck | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 6:46:40 PM | | As I read your letter I have so often wondered the same thing. I have been married and divorced twice, and the girlfriend of four years found someone else, and that really hurt when she just didn't need me anymore. I pondered celebacy, and wondeered where I will ever find the courage to love again, and how in the world will I ever get thru the fences and walls we have all built to protect us from those who would hurt us or take advantage. I am OK as a single guy, but I would rather be with someone. Come on, jump in, the water's fine, and I will too. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 8:52:29 PM | What a emotional letter. May god heal you and make you strong again. My
last boyfriend abused my feeling. It hurt me alot inside. But I know
that the best is yet to come. I believe everything happens for a reason.
You seem true to your heart and soul. No one can take your great memories away.
Keep a smile on your face and just move on! If it's ment to be he will
be back. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 8:58:12 PM | | You sure gave him a lot of power. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 10:39:14 PM | | You did it all wrong. Instead of telling him how hurt you are, and how he was able to break your heart, you should have told him that you're moving on, that his screw up has made YOU stronger, and that you're leaving him behind and looking forward to the next guy that will be better on his worst day, than HE was on his best!! | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 12:03:34 AM | Well, that's your letter. For now.
Someday the man that loves you the right way will come along, and you'll know he loves you the right way. And this guy that you wrote this letter to....will be an afterthought.
Hope your healing process goes well. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 3:40:53 AM | | Well, I usually have some flippant comment to make, such as buck up, but this makes sad and little mad. You hang there, things can only get better when you're on the bottom. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 2:25:00 PM | | I'm hoping you're just venting and didn't actually send him this letter. Because you sound very whiny and needy, like you are giving up all your feminine power to this loser. Hopefully you recognize you deserve far better treatment than what you have described here and you cut him out of your life with no more contact and move on and someone else who is worthy. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 6:38:04 PM | Good sex?
Well, that's the extend of your love I guess you just move on, right? | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 7:57:58 PM | Do not send this letter!
Keep it in a safe place and read it one year from now.
I'll be honest with you. When you love like you have and someone discards that love, you may never be the same person again. Never as open, trusting and honest. You will find "happiness" again but it may be on a lower emotional level. Your expectations will have changed and your eyes are open. You will never let your guard down and completely trust another again.
Sorry, I'm not going to sugar-coat it and tell you everything will be just fine and that you'll be yourself again through the passage of time.
We're talking battle scars here. You stuck your hand in the fire and you probably have learned not to do it again.
Welcome aboard! | |
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