| | whats wrong with mePage 1 of 1 | I know iam not the best looking guy . But aim nice good hearted and easy going and i still cant find a nice women.
I guess people still judge by looks instaed of geting to know some body.. i wont let it hurt me any morel l a | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 9:46:03 PM | | Pursue women that are in the bracket of your looks. If you persue woman out of you league, don't expect a reply.Attractive women are hit on constantly in public and really need their privacy. Bets of luck! | |
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Posted: 7/9/2012 9:50:15 PM | | On dating sites a lot of it has to be superficial. It's generally a 30sec, quick click peruse pictures and simple details type of deal. Don't get your hopes up but, you need to be realistic, the "hot" women on here get many messages everyday! The normal women also get quite a few messages. Online dating, particularly on this site, have an unequal balance. Women have quite a few options so, if they have several guys talking to them who all seem to be genuinely good guys, they're going to go for the hottest ones! As I said, be realistic man. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 12:54:26 AM | Come on dude you have one pretty bad pic. You have a terrible 3 line profile and your interests are limited to Paranormal, UFO's and video games and you are 38 years old. And you HONESTLY have no clue what the problem here might be? Come on man you are pulling my tail here.
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Posted: 7/10/2012 2:59:02 AM | | i dont seem to be having any luck on here dont think im to scary to look at | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 4:29:55 AM | ^^^ Start your own thread - you can't hijack someone else's because then it gets confusing as to whether people are replying to the original poster or you.
chriscoolguy
On-line, we can't know that you are a nice man. We can't see your personality, smile, sense of humor, as we would should be meet in real life. Because of this, it's important that these things are shown in your profile. That's all we have to make a decision on.
There is a separate section of these forums for Profile Reviews which I do think would be beneficial for you.
At the moment, you only have one photo (a common theme for fakes and scammers) so that will deter some. Also, in your photo, you don't seem very happy. That will deter yet more - no one wants to date a sad person, where's the fun in that ?
The text of your profile doesn't really tell us anything about the type of person you are - which is really important.
As you have already determined the on-line presence you currently have is not working to yield the response you hoped for, perhaps you would consider changing that until it begins to work for you.
It's is simply impossible for anyone here to meet everyone in their area so, we each make a judgement call based on their profiles, as to whether we think a meeting would be enjoyable and successful. With the profile you currently have, there is not enough information to determine that. There are 1000's of other men in your area who do offer enough information and therefore the ladies are more likely to meet them. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 4:36:21 AM | ^^^^ LMAO
^^ Start your own thread - you can't hijack someone else's because then it gets confusing as to whether people are replying to the original poster or you. NO here is a better solution. DO NOT START ANOTHER INVALID THREAD. These threads about "why dont I get replies" or "whats wrong with me" or "am I ugly" are NOT ALLOWED. Let us PLEASE not encourage more of these junk threads.
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Posted: 7/10/2012 4:38:13 AM | | Get more than one photo. Be honest on body type ( Average??? Really? ) and write better. Go get a profile review...spell check is so needed as well...and the list goes on....and on.... | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 5:12:27 AM | I agree get MORE photos. I pass if there is no or one photo. Or ALL sunglasses.
And AsJustAHotMess said, be HONEST on your body type. That is absolutely a pet peeve of mine.
Toraten, you need more photos as well. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 8:27:37 AM | | Well..it helps when you are honest with yourself about body type and age. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 9:37:48 AM | OP is a "sock" (short for sock puppet)
you know, a fake dating profile, created to get laughs
I see them a lot on the forums, but you guys don't seem to recognize it. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 9:42:21 AM | | More photos,doing different things make sure your smiling. I am not the best looking guy, I get messages enough a lot of say cause I look like a fun guy. Which I am a goof. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 10:10:29 AM |
i still cant find a nice women. I guess people still judge by looks instaed of geting to know some body..
"The women who turn me on turn me down." | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 10:17:04 AM |
i still cant find a nice women. I guess people still judge by looks instaed of geting to know some body..
Do you know of a place where humans do NOT judge? If so, let us know where it is...it sounds nice there. Meanwhile, in the real world where I live.....
Look, all anyone can know of you on here, is what you present on your profile. If you are fishing and people are catching fish all around you, and you are not...do you blame the fish, or access your bait? | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 1:03:16 PM | | cheer up women want confidence in your profile plus you only joined last week! Fishing for the big fish takes time even if its a guppy you are looking for? smile more! You look like a serial killer in that pic sorry.. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 1:07:19 PM | | Honestly..in my opinion..you asking what is wrong with you, is what is wrong with you. Have some self confidence..the right woman will come but you can't sit around thinking you are doing something wrong. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 3:01:23 PM | Go to the profile review forum.
Your pic shows you in poor light. I would have guessed you to be in your 50's, but you say you're 38.
SMILE in your pics. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 11:09:07 PM | Let me give you a little tidbit of what has been working for me online. First off..I have no pic and I essentially have no profile. Not saying this is a good idea but I love to experiment. Secondly, write them a message that is different than virtually all the other messages they have received. The messages they most likely receive are on the lines of, your hot, lets date, I am a nice person, you are a nice person...etc. These are rather boring. Make your messages fun and interesting. Like this, just for example, Can I psycho-analyze you? I promise it will be harmless. Of my last 20 or so messages, I have had about 15 responses...most of which carried on into many messages back and forth. There is tons of information online to figure out this online dating stuff. You get out of life, what you put into it...nothing is free.
Its not what is wrong with you...it should be, why am I not putting my mind to work to get better results? Just my opinion here...take what you want from it. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 11:19:53 PM | don't base your self-esteem on a free public dating forum-THAT'S not healthy.
Have some pride and healthy ambition Man.
You know who and how you are...Can YOU live with you? Hope so, as you'll be accompanying yourself on this whole journey!
Chin up! | |
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Posted: 7/10/2012 11:27:01 PM | | People do judge by looks at first. THe dating sites are not for the faint hearted and rejections are many. Better to join a common interest group where you can meet in a normal healthy way. Nice and good hearted is fine but we need attraction and chemistry for a sexual romantic relationship. You do need to take more care with your spelling. | |
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