| | Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!Page 1 of 1 | So I made a post a little while ago but I think that i should have asked rather than just write profile review lol :3
But PLEEASSE can anyone help!?! My profile is honest, as I believe that the right girl will accept me for who i am... but.. no girls seem even remotely interested... i understand that drug use can put girls off but I only smoke weed once in a while, i do not touch harder drugs and it is not a big part of my life.... it seems people judge me too much before talking to me but if i am doing something horrifically wrong on here can someone tell me please?
I realise my main picture looks a little chavvym that wasn't my intention and just waiting until i get a better one to switch it.
PLEASE HELP ME POF!! Im sick of being alone :/
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=41575879 | |
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/12/2012 6:08:35 PM | | I said its not a big part of my life not that im not into it :) was really just trying to illustrate that i do do it but i will take it down :) anything else? | |
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/12/2012 6:33:29 PM | My turn.
Two words... insecurity and negativity.
Neither have any place on a dating profile.
It's great to be honest, never stop doing that, but most girls will be scared off after hearing what peeves you off, what you hate, how lonely you are and how much you need a relationship. That's crap dude. People want to have fun. Focus rather on what you like, good stuff you bring to the table, what makes you unique and if she is good enough for YOU, not the other way around.
Life's just a game. Have fun, smile and don't take yourself too seriously! You will see much better results :)
Hope this helps and don't mind the blunt honesty
cheers bro | |
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Posted: 7/12/2012 7:32:56 PM | Gettin much better.
Lose the part where you talk about your shyness, the weed hat pic, and use the smiley icons more sparingly. A couple are good, but its a little bit too much there, leave those for the girls haha.
Oh and your tagline: That's the first thing someone will read.
"Genuine guy just needs chance to shine" or whatever.. You get those chances every day. I'd replace that with something a bit more witty that isn't seeking a woman's validation.
Asides from that, its gettin there.
150% improvement already my friend | |
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/12/2012 7:52:31 PM | | ok ive made ammendments but thats all im going to do for tonight i need some sleep many thanks to all that have/ are going to review my profile i really appreciate all the advice you have given/will give n_n | |
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/13/2012 6:06:19 AM | A bathroom mirror pic, without a shirt is not good. Nor, are your others with hats and sunglasses.
<-- click my History for my pic guidelines.
The Headline is negative.
Enter your Interests as one or two words, so they search and display properly.
Delete:
Can't really think of anything else to write here so just ask, I won't bite (unless you ask really nicely ;)) x
Happy Fishing :D xx
Don't xx n_n ;) :D :P etc.
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/13/2012 12:15:10 PM | I've read your profile and the thread and I'm feeling you mate, I know it's hard.
Do you have any photos of you in social situations? Even family ones are okay, but a bunch of photos of you without anyone else doesn't give a great impression.
Not more than one photo with sunglasses and the hand sign is pushing it too far!
Also, forget inviting people to game, you send mixed signals if you're talking about things other than romance.
Oh, and holding up alcohol ain't great either!
I think your photos are your main point to work on, the profile itself is fine and sincere. The header I'd change though, of course you're not perfect, what are you trying to defend yourself against?
Above all though, just keep at it dude! You're clearly working hard and it's tough! I remember being 20 and insecure and struggling with stuff like this. Just keep taking constructive criticism like you are and be determined to be the best person you can be! You'll be fine! | |
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/13/2012 1:25:14 PM |
photos of you in social situations? Even family ones are okay, 
Don't include:
- Any kids or anyone under 18.
- Any females, even your sisters, cousins, mom, it doesn't matter who they are.
- No more than one, if any with your buddies.
This is a dating site, not Facebook. You are trying to get yourself a date, not one for your friends and family.
If a woman sees a pic of you with another woman, there is an immediate subconscious psychological reaction. It doesn't matter what the caption says, or who it is. They feel you are cheating.
If they don't like the looks of your friends or family, they may not want to be with you because they don't want to associate with your friends or family.
If they like the looks of your friends or brothers more than you, then they are reminded that there are other guys better than you that should be searching for.
Depicting an active social life makes you look unavailable, like you won't have enough time for them.
Keep it to pics of YOU.
If you have a dog, cat or horse do a pic with them. It demonstrates compassion and affection.
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/13/2012 1:38:28 PM | | Campfires might know better than me, being older, especially since he looks kind of like a blonde version of Johnny Cash. However, are you really saying it's better to have no photos of you which show you have relationships in your life other than your relationship with your right hand? I would probably agree with the no under-18s policy, however saying no adult female family members seems a little silly to me. Women you've never met feel you're cheating on them with members of your own family? Are you sure you've thought this through? | |
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/13/2012 2:20:56 PM | | If your employment and social status permits, it's best to say "Socially" to Drugs, then put 420 in your Interests. People will search for it and find you. No need for additional text about it. | |
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/13/2012 2:47:51 PM | Women, especially young women, feel there's immediate competition when they see a man hanging all over another female(s) in pics. It's not recommend. Campfire's is correct in his answer.
I've seen guys in the review forum that have girls hanging all over them, or visa versa, and it appears the guy is being a pain in the ass to the point whereas the girls just get a pic with him to simply get rid of him. | |
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| Can someone review my profile PLEASE?!
Posted: 7/14/2012 7:58:24 PM | | thanks guys :) thinking of bulking up a bit and getting some pro photos taken instead of facebook ones >_< kinda hard cos recently i decided to change my image and improve myself in general :L :) thank you all for the advice hopefully the ladies will notice :)) | |
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