| | Viewing my profile dailyPage 1 of 1 | | My question is this: Every single day the same exact girl views my profile, multiple times. She has messaged me one time. Her and I talked for about twenty minutes. In the context of the conversation she asked me if I had any luck. I told her yes but I was only interested in one girl. I told her the girl said there were other normal girls on pof. So I took that as a hint she did not want to pursue things. The girl said to let the girl I liked know how i felt and to get back to her and let her know how it worked out. Now this girl that asked me if I had any luck keeps looking at my profile every single day but not saying anything to me. Why does she keep doing this? She is wayyyy beyond my league. She is a 9 and I am a 6. I just do not get it. Can you please help me understand the logic behind this?? Thanks | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 8:33:05 PM | Edit after seeing post below:
A girl I met here previously never said a word to me until I messaged her.
She later told me that she used to view my profile all the time, but thought I wouldn't go for her.
Just message and ask, I guess.
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Posted: 7/18/2012 8:35:05 PM | | My upgrade ran out yesterday. I was able to see every single time she viewed me. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 8:40:21 PM | | She isn't viewing your profile daily. You're looking at the top row, read what it says. "The following single row of users are users who viewed you at some point, and are sorted by when they were last online" | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 8:41:46 PM | | she's not viewing you multiple times. read the page- in red- below the photos of who has viewed you- it simply shows when someone who has viewed you is online again or may have their window open | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 8:43:54 PM |
My upgrade ran out yesterday. I was able to see every single time she viewed me. Weird math.. You joined 6/23/2012. You have been here less then a month. The shortest upgrade is 30 days. I see no way your upgrade could possibly of expired yesterday even if you upgraded the day you joined. I would wager she is showing on the very top row of the normal viewed me page and that does not mean she is viewing you every day. She is just logging in | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 9:10:12 PM | Also there is a lot of teasers.
They view and do this and that, never message. When you do message them its unread/deleted.
They just want their ego stroked, nothing more. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2012 10:04:40 PM | ^^^^^ Viewing someone’s profile is ‘teasing’? 
How about viewing someone’s profile is viewing someone’s profile. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2012 7:04:28 AM | Just go on a date with her, and then she will stop looking your profile
Take it from someone who knows | |
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Posted: 7/19/2012 11:46:29 AM | | hahaha she wants U to ask her out! quit playing games and ask her out already! | |
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Posted: 7/19/2012 11:51:10 AM |
She is wayyyy beyond my league. She is a 9 and I am a 6. I just do not get it. Can you please help me understand the logic behind this?? Thanks
The logic is that there are no leagues. Who says you're a 6 and she's a 9 ? Perhaps you're a 6.8 and she's an 8.7.
See what I'm getting at ?
Attaching an arbitrary number to attractiveness is meaningless. True someone may be universally accepted as more attractive than someone else but putting numbers on it ? That's just sterile and meaningless.
Attractiveness can't be quantified on a scale of 1 to 10. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2012 12:26:45 PM | Well you say your a 6 and she is a 9. So ask her out and combine those numbers for a 69!
Yeah I know, totally lame, but said it anyways!
Good luck! | |
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Posted: 7/19/2012 1:05:13 PM | | Women often underestimate themselves and overestimate us guys. I'm a 4 and my wife was a 9+. Just the way it is. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2012 1:21:02 PM |
Also there is a lot of teasers.
They view and do this and that, never message. When you do message them its unread/deleted.
They just want their ego stroked, nothing more.
And this is why I am in stealth mode when I view profiles. Most people have such crappy avatars that you have to view their profiles to see what they actually look like. Doesn't mean anyone wants to marry you. So yeah, I'm a profile slut tease because I don't allow anyone to see when I've viewed them. I'm a profile peeping Jane. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2012 1:22:21 PM | my guess:
she's at least curious about you.
based on her request to '...let you know...',
one can deduce a few things:
She doesn't take seconds
she doesn't chase
she's repectful of you
she stands in acceptance of your preferences
I'd bet she'd be receptive to you if you were interested in getting to know her :) | |
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Posted: 7/19/2012 1:26:42 PM |
She isn't viewing your profile daily. You're looking at the top row, read what it says. "The following single row of users are users who viewed you at some point, and are sorted by when they were last online"
Yeah and I think that needs to be written in flashing letters since this is only the zillionth thread covering this topic.
....I wonder how many people think this site is full of stalkers ? LOL | |
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Posted: 7/19/2012 7:41:45 PM |
The logic is that there are no leagues. Who says you're a 6 and she's a 9 ? Perhaps you're a 6.8 and she's an 8.7.
See what I'm getting at ?
Attaching an arbitrary number to attractiveness is meaningless. True someone may be universally accepted as more attractive than someone else but putting numbers on it ? That's just sterile and meaningless.
Attractiveness can't be quantified on a scale of 1 to 10.
This man gets it!! The league does not exist, it is imaginary. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2012 12:17:15 AM |
She isn't viewing your profile daily. You're looking at the top row, read what it says. "The following single row of users are users who viewed you at some point, and are sorted by when they were last online"
I don't look at the top row very often. The next row down when you click on sort by most recent view is the one to watch. Be careful with this too. If someone really is always looking it could be funky.
I just got a taste of what many women deal with on their side. A woman emailed with one word... Hello or something.. Not my type and a weak email so I just ignored it. She had been viewing often.
At least a week later she emailed blasting me for not replying because I was "racist" and that she just wanted to be friends anyway then said she would not be interested if I had the last d*ck on earth.
So this was my reply before blocking.
"Do you realize my best friend looks like a dead ringer for the black actor Terry Crews?
Do you realize there are many black friends I will be deploying with that I would LITERALLY take a bullet for?
Do you realize that out of 100 emails I send I get about 5 replies?
No reply means not interested when a guy emails a woman. It means the same thing when we do it.
I would not want to be with you if you were the last woman on earth because I would not want to repopulate the planet with that kind of attitude problem." | |
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Posted: 7/22/2012 1:59:33 AM |
The next row down when you click on sort by most recent view is the one to watch. Be careful with this too. If someone really is always looking it could be funky. Not sure what you mean by "funky" . People show in that bottom section ONE time. The first time they view you. If they view you every day it wont matter and you will never know as they NEVER SHOW AGAIN.
The ONLY way to know they look at your profile again is if you upgrade and then you have a new different view based on the LAST TIME they viewed ya not the FIRST TIME.
But the OP lied about having an upgrade here its IMPOSSIBLE. for him to of purchased one and had it expire already.
THERE IS NO WAY FOR A NON UPGRADED MEMBER TO TELL IF THEY VIEW YOUR PROFILE MORE THEN ONCE!!
Cowboy | |
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Posted: 7/22/2012 7:20:45 AM |
The ONLY way to know they look at your profile again is if you upgrade and then you have a new different view based on the LAST TIME they viewed ya not the FIRST TIME.
Yes I have the upgrade and can see the date and time of their LAST view under their thumbnail.. BTW That entire last post by you was things I already knew and had been covered on this thread already.
By funky I mean.. She has not stopped looking despite the fact that by now she should know you have no interest. So look out and keep an eye on that situation... | |
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Posted: 7/22/2012 7:51:02 AM | | Guys, I have had the same thing happen, and have also wondered about this. Only the oneI thought was viewing me was in my league. Her profile said she was shy. Thanks, this may have saved me an embarrassing message. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2012 7:53:54 AM | Yes I have the upgrade and can see the date and time of their LAST view under their thumbnail..
OP - perhaps she is showing your profile to her friends every day and they are having a good laugh! :roll: | |
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