online dating service
REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES

 

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Dating Experiences  > "Sorry, I just don't find you attractive"      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 1 of 11 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
 Author Thread: "Sorry, I just don't find you attractive"
 Hambone352

Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 1
"Sorry, I just don't find you attractive"
Posted: 7/28/2005 6:27:58 PM
Though you have to admire the persons honesty after they saw your pic, would you argue the point with them?
 Doc Sage

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 2
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 6:32:58 PM
__Hambone,

__No. What the use? They made up their mind before giving you a chance to present yourself.

Doc
 nah112

Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 3
view profile
History
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 6:35:43 PM
How do you argue someone else's opinion of their attraction, much less why would you? DUHHHH--LOL
 *__Tess__*

Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 4
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 6:43:20 PM
no way. do not argue. do not take personally. move on.
 astrosky

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 5
view profile
History
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 6:46:09 PM
Hambone - consider it the other way around. If you were not attracted to someone, and told them so, how would you feel if they argued with you?
 fender249

Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 6
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 6:49:04 PM
Thats ok!But get to know someone before you judge.That is also a old pic of me.But ya cant makw somone like ya lol.Plus I did not realize your age.Well I hope u find what u are looking for
 ERsunshine

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 7
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 6:50:12 PM
Everyone's opinion is different.. just because this person doesn't find you attractive, shake it off.. the next one might think you're hotter than hell!
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 8
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 7:33:27 PM
Hey, at least they had the decency to respond even if you didn't like the response!
 PepperStar

Joined: 6/21/2005
Msg: 9
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 8:13:15 PM
Try getting that answer a couple hundred times. You'll get used to it.
 Doc Sage

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 10
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 8:16:14 PM
__Hambone, Fox has a point. You did get a responce although it was not what you wanted to hear. You now know where you stand with her.
__Do not take it personal. Opinions are a dime a dozen. Mom use to say if you do not like the opinions on this side of the street, go to the other side.

Doc
 fortysix

Joined: 7/27/2005
Msg: 11
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 8:32:52 PM
Arguing isn't in order, compassion is. They lack the ability to appreciate your good looks.
 bambi75

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 12
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 8:42:54 PM
nope..don't argue...just say.....well, i do not find you very smart either!
 TheKrazyK

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 13
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 8:52:06 PM
Get used to it man. Not everybody will find you attractive. You can't argue it, and don't think that the person will love you once they get to know you. If you don't pass the physical test, get up, shake it off and try again.



- KrazyK out
 rd53

Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 14
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 9:11:21 PM
Hambone352
Try this one, if you think your's is bad: And I actually knew this person for several months!
"You have everything I am looking for but the physical attraction, but I still want to try anyway, Oh ya I still love my old boyfriend, (which she left for a better,but un attractive physically guy what ever the hell that means..DUH!) but I will get over it, Oh ya Did I say I am missing that Physical attraction"
Try that for a week or two!
Now this person is no spring chicken either..Oh well!!!
March on man and forget it,,what goes around comes around!
 ~KC~

Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 15
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 10:10:02 PM
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. and they are the ones beholding. They are being honest about their opinion.. so there is no point in arguing with them... move on.

NEXT!!!
 samhonolulu

Joined: 12/24/2004
Msg: 16
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/28/2005 11:36:36 PM
Don't give up hambone, Argue away!
Let us know if it works out for you. Some lucky lady may be unable to win the arguement and you may have your true love! Never give up! Stalk her if you have to. Tell her you have a better picture, or that you don't photograph well. Best of Luck.
 BEETS

Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 17
view profile
History
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/29/2005 2:53:40 AM
Yeah just move on there is no way you can argue it....thats just silly. You'll find someone else who will sooner or later.
 7times

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 18
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/29/2005 4:38:31 AM
see this is a part of the whole reply don't reply to mail.

If someone says that a lot of people will write back asking why or calling them names or whatever and yet if they don't reply they still write back complaining. Its a no win situation

Attraction is a big part of everything no matter what anybody says
 Gotapulse

Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 19
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/29/2005 4:58:04 AM
Hmmmm....well, it's fair and concise and tells you everything you need to know. Still, it's not what I'd say just because it's too tactless and could never be taken in a good way as far as somebody's sense of self-worth is concerned. I'd hate to send something like that to someone knowing full well how it would ruin their day. Still, if I got it, I'd just shrug it off. Can't please everyone right? Hell, can't please the vast majority of people with one's looks.
 bbw2000

Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 20
view profile
History
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/29/2005 9:31:30 AM
after being on here for a little bit...Iwould almost welcome the honesty....there is a more tactfull way to say it.........
But you have to remember..."they" are no attracted to you....
DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE...people all have different tastes.
 Canucker

Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 21
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/29/2005 10:00:12 AM
Sorry ...but not attractive....means just that. It is their opinion.....why would you want to change it? To go out with them?....Why would you want to go out with someone...even as a friend....if they thought that of you?

And thats just my opinion.
 trappedonbayst

Joined: 1/3/2005
Msg: 22
view profile
History
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/29/2005 10:06:30 AM
How about this 'bone ...... if you're not on the Top 500 list, don't even contemplate it. Drive on. In fact just drive ..... what did you seriously think? - national debate by email over your looks.
 DoctorKinseyPhD

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 23
view profile
History
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/29/2005 11:55:57 AM
Yeah they dont know how much MONEY you have at that point so you can luck out.
 coolrunnings

Joined: 7/27/2005
Msg: 24
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/29/2005 12:55:56 PM
Haha arguing that is like telling somebody their opinion on abortion is wrong, you can argue all day but it's not going to help.
 SlimJim1980

Joined: 9/26/2004
Msg: 25
view profile
History
Sorry, I just don't find you attractive
Posted: 7/29/2005 1:08:23 PM
At least it's a response. Better than Unread Deleted. And no way, don't argue their opinion! Just move on....
Page 1 of 11 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
 
Show ALL Forums  > Dating Experiences  > "Sorry, I just don't find you attractive"