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 TheFunDude4You
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Here's a concern & suggestion, POF needs to put a "never been in a relationship" of something similar as another choice or answer in the spot to where POF asks you your "longest Relationship". I am one of the unlucky guys that has never had a gf and the closest choice I can find to put is "Under 1 Year" but i'm afraid by putting that women might think i'm a cheater, unfaithful or a player since women tend to think that of a lot of guys that only get into relationships that last only a few months or less when really i've never been in one. If POF can't do that they need to make it to where we aren't required to answer what our "longest Relationship" was.
 Attercop
Joined: 6/25/2012
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What To Put In Longest Relationship If I've Never Been In One?
Posted: 7/26/2012 2:41:26 AM
No, POF doesn't need to make it anything.
0 is less than 1 so find something else to pick on.
 Blah_User_Name
Joined: 8/27/2011
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What To Put In Longest Relationship If I've Never Been In One?
Posted: 7/26/2012 3:05:20 AM
Just put the only option you can and if you feel that's inaccurate, then explain briefly in your profile that was the most accurate option available.
 Dino57
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Posted: 7/26/2012 7:37:46 AM
I am one of the unlucky guys that has never had a gf


At the age of 36 this has to be a little more than just luck. Disinterest, lack of effort, living the solitary life of a sheep hearder perhaps - are you trying to tell us that you are a 36 yr old virgin??

I agree putting less than a year is just fine advertising that you have no relationship experience at your age is not likely going to help your changes of getting relationship experience.
 *Cowboy*
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Posted: 7/26/2012 7:49:42 AM

but i'm afraid by putting that women might think i'm a cheater, unfaithful or a player
Oh come on OP thats ridiculous to make assumptions like that for under a year just like it would be ridiculous to assume you are socialy inept, have commitment issues and live under a bridge alone l ike a troll based on you never being in a relationship at 36 at all.

Lets assume most people wont make assumptions like that at all. Just put under a year and quit sweating the small stuff. I personally at even YOUR age would be seeing huge red flags if someone had < 1 year. Would not matter if it was 11 months or zero. Would not stop me from contacting them but I would really wonder WHY they had not and it would I guarantee you come up quickly in conversation.

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 TheFunDude4You
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Posted: 7/26/2012 11:51:51 PM

Just put the only option you can and if you feel that's inaccurate, then explain briefly in your profile that was the most accurate option available.

That's actually what I ended up doing, gonna give that a try and see what happens


At the age of 36 this has to be a little more than just luck. Disinterest, lack of effort, living the solitary life of a sheep hearder perhaps - are you trying to tell us that you are a 36 yr old virgin??

How the heck do you know, mr know it all & i'm not gonna answer that cause it's no ones damn business whether or not i'm a virgin


Oh come on OP thats ridiculous to make assumptions like that for under a year just like it would be ridiculous to assume you are socialy inept, have commitment issues and live under a bridge alone l ike a troll based on you never being in a relationship at 36 at all.

I don't live under a bridge, I actually own my own house so don't f**king judge someone you don't even know cause the only one that has the right to judge is God


Lets assume most people wont make assumptions like that at all. Just put under a year and quit sweating the small stuff. I personally at even YOUR age would be seeing huge red flags if someone had < 1 year. Would not matter if it was 11 months or zero. Would not stop me from contacting them but I would really wonder WHY they had not and it would I guarantee you come up quickly in conversation.

Well since women are so damn complicated & pick up and judge men on the smallest stuff you have to care about even the small stuff, the problem is since women won't tell a man why she rejected him it's very hard to figure out exactly what he may be doing wrong since it could be a lot of things & all women are different.

I posted this thread in hopes of the moderator of the site would see the suggestion, not so that people can reply negative things and make up false judgements & assumptions about me. Please if you don't have anything nice to say, dont say it at all!
 *Cowboy*
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Posted: 7/27/2012 4:51:01 AM

I posted this thread in hopes of the moderator of the site would see the suggestion,
REALLY? Well here is a clue for you as you need a few.

Mods here are part time VOLUNTEERS that help CLEAN THE FORUMS. They are not employees or staff or involved with this site in any other way. You have as much ability to make changes as they do. But thanks for the thought
and thanks for all your well thought out replies Its now much easier to see how you might of come to this assumption. Like a tiny window into your soul actually.

Have A GREAT DAY!

Cowboy
 1newcomer08
Joined: 4/15/2012
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What To Put In Longest Relationship If I've Never Been In One?
Posted: 7/27/2012 5:02:55 PM

How the heck do you know, mr know it all & i'm not gonna answer that cause it's no ones damn business whether or not i'm a virgin


You just answered Mr. Know it all's question. Just sayin'!
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