| | Just need advicePage 1 of 1 | | I am not sure what I am doing wrong. I can not get a response if my life depended on it. I seem to be what girls are looking for. I know I am not the best looking, don't make the most money, and I am far from perfect. But I am honest, caring, and passionate about life and the people in it. I would just love some input on what I may be doing wrong or how I could improve my chances of meeting someone that I have a connection with on here. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 2:27:52 PM | Please do a thread search- this is the most often asked q on site.
Read threads on first messaging.
Get a profile review in the review forum. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 2:33:10 PM | | Isn't it still in red bold letters not to start this crap here???? I mean how the hell do people not see that !!!! | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 2:37:17 PM | | well I would say you need a make over , the height isnt appealing to most women, you look kind of scruffy and Im betting youre sending boring emails to women. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 2:59:28 PM |
I am not sure what I am doing wrong. I can not get a response if my life depended on it.
Did you try cutting off your ear and sending it to her?  | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 3:08:43 PM | | Head on over to Profile Review. It needs work. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 3:20:52 PM | OP....here is my advice. Realize that not ALL people are caring and considerate (as you can see for yourself w/ some of the responses you got). I would say there are far fewer caring and considerate people out there than their counterparts.
Keep the positive spirit within. When it is your time to find someone, that someone will be found.
One should consider why millions of people are online looking for a mate. One should also consider that there are millions of inconsiderate people out there.
Don't rush or compromise on finding a quality person...somebody who has it going for themselves INSIDE and out to your preference! | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 3:23:16 PM | | Your profile sucks, that's why. Most of your pics are crap, your spelling and grammar need work, and it reads like you spent all of five seconds writing it. There is nothing on there about you, just yapping about smiling and why can't others smile. If you put that little effort into your profile (your "advertisement"), I can only assume that you put that little, or less, effort into the messages you write. Rewrite your profile, put some actual thought into it, include things that are important to you, interests, etc. and head over to Profile Review for input. After that, READ someone's profile, write a thoughtful message including a couple tidbits about something they talked about, and you might get a better response. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 3:25:32 PM | Profile Review is 2 floors up. You have 8 pics and two decent ones. Your main pic isnt even a legal main pic here as you are not recognizable. The main pic should always clearly show your face. Thats really not a good one for any of the pics.
You want 8 SOLID pics of YOU including both closeups and a couple full length ones. Your face should be visible in all. No group pics no pics with females, shades or hats.
Now head to profile review
Cowboy | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 3:52:09 PM | | If I were you I would take out the face of you pouting, and crop out grandma from the other one. She totally photobombed your otherwise great pic of you in the moment. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 4:24:57 PM | | try taking your mother out of the main photo and give your self a shave??? | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 4:26:59 PM | It took you longer to write this repetitive thread than it did to do your profile.
I seem to be what girls are looking for.
Oh yeah...watch this. You are below average height, you want children and your job is vague. Plus you are 26. NONE of this is appealing to ME. I know your mom thinks you are the cat's ass, but she doesn't count on a dating site. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 6:32:21 PM | Pics: Some pics of just you with your hair brushed and your faced shaved. What would you think of a woman in a mini shirt with hairy legs on every photo on her profile...
Profile Topics: If you admit that you do not have enough self control when drinking to not smoke, what other issues do you have with self control when drinking. I know quitting is hard. I just recently quit... But I have enough self control to say No way!! | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 8:44:57 PM |
Isn't it still in red bold letters not to start this crap here???? I mean how the hell do people not see that !!!!
Why are so many guys posting this uber redundant Q in the Ask A Girl Forum?
...........happens EVERY day.......................sigh. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 10:34:21 PM | | Run away from this site while you can this site blows. all i have to say. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2012 11:05:09 PM | | POF is like catnip for the awkward men who wont take responsibility for their own social lives. | |
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