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 Ladyberd2012
Joined: 8/17/2012
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I have a question..
You see a photo of someone who really catches your eye, they also have a great profile but are only at this point in their lives looking for an 'intimate encounter' (which you are not).
A few months down the line they message you saying they really like you and that they are now looking to settle down and want a relationship, would you be interested or would their previous 'form' put you off them forever?
 lightstar1
Joined: 2/21/2012
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Posted: 9/13/2012 11:48:14 AM
I don't take too much notice of 'looking for' - it's a bit of a moveable feast IMO, and a lot of members don't seem to understand that 'dating' can lead to an 'intimate encounter' and thence to a 'long term' thing.....or am I being simplistic (again) ?



vvvvv ..I hate to say this, but the same applies to a stranger that you meet anywhere, really.
 thesownrose
Joined: 5/4/2012
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Posted: 9/13/2012 11:49:34 AM
It'd put me off them, god knows where they have been haha.
 zenndy
Joined: 8/4/2012
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Posted: 9/13/2012 12:24:48 PM
Every one of us at one time or the other only wanted sex and nothing more from the opposite sex. God knows thats the only thing I wanted when I was a teenger. The future is more impotant than the past ,besides,the guy was honest. There are loads of guys out there who say they want something serious but just want sex. At the end of the day,a date is just a date.
 lonestrummer
Joined: 8/1/2012
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Posted: 9/13/2012 12:51:34 PM
So Ladyberd. What has made you change your outlook on life now?
 Ladyberd2012
Joined: 8/17/2012
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Posted: 9/13/2012 1:30:08 PM
Hmmm, just to clarify this situation isn't referring to me, as either party. It's purely hypothetical.
I was particularly interested to see if there was a difference of opinion between men and women.
 Acre8
Joined: 1/1/2012
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Posted: 9/13/2012 1:47:32 PM
Live in the moment and give them a chance. Would suggest a female friend hold back a little on the action front for a bit just to give him the chance to run a mile when he isn't getting anything. If some time passes and theres no sign of that why not go for it?

For me personally I'd be wary but just get on with it and keep it at the back of my mind. Sometimes the hardest part of changing as a person is getting other people to give you that chance to show them things are different.
 TastyBBW
Joined: 4/24/2012
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Posted: 9/13/2012 2:33:35 PM
Well I find that regardless of what guys put as what they r looking for, its mainly just some sex haha
Also known guys to have 2 accounts, one to contact gals looking for an intimate encounter and one so they can contact gals who block those who have looked for intermate encounter.

Atm in my life I want just fun.. But I am totally able to commited to a relationship if and when I ebver desire one
 whenallelsefails
Joined: 1/23/2012
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Posted: 9/16/2012 2:36:42 AM
previous "form" we all have it, some don't like to admit it, some are open and honest about it.
 Kodanshi
Joined: 3/12/2012
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Posted: 9/16/2012 9:38:10 AM
In my early days on this site I didn’t even look at the ‘looking for’ section. Some of those asking for ‘intimate encounter’ seem to want proper relationships according to the profile! At any rate, I mad the mistake of replying to one of these before learning about the different categories. Nothing came of it (I get no replies ever regardless), but now I can’t message a huge bunch of people.

Poo–sticks!
 zombie_budgie
Joined: 8/19/2012
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Posted: 9/16/2012 11:58:31 AM
I'm not exactly looking for sex but if I'm meeting up with someone on here, its with a view to possibly (down the line --ahem--) having sex, christ what else am I supposed to do with one of these manthings!

vvvv....aha OR for the really big boys....a coat stand?
 thewelshduck
Joined: 4/23/2011
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Posted: 9/16/2012 12:01:02 PM
you could plonk one on your mantle piece budgie, nice ornument hahahahaha :O)

^^^^ ummmm well, i cant make any such claim myself hahahahaha :O)

might make a neat towel holder tho ! :O)
 riviera2012
Joined: 9/6/2012
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Posted: 9/18/2012 1:02:58 AM
Not near you :-)
 Pud78
Joined: 9/12/2012
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Posted: 9/18/2012 1:52:38 AM
Aren't you supposed to sow your wild oats as it were before settling down?
I think anyone would be sceptical of a person that went from seeking sex to a relationship but as some have said there is a time when that is true for lots of people, myself included.
Would it bother me? No but I would be wary and not rush in to anything.
 john19821982
Joined: 2/22/2011
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Posted: 3/14/2013 12:52:56 PM
Hi am john 30 from huddersfield looking for some funn
 aquariangirl44
Joined: 1/24/2013
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Posted: 3/14/2013 12:57:56 PM
Well you're in the right place then

Its comedy night in here on a Thursday

Dont show face on a Sunday though, its back to work misery on a Monday blues

HTH
 alice1900
Joined: 4/16/2011
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Posted: 3/14/2013 1:02:41 PM

Hi am john 30 from huddersfield looking for some funn


Hi John from Huddersfield - you're in the right place, the forums are great fun! Not sure they're the kinda fun you're looking for though!
 Jo van
Joined: 5/23/2009
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Posted: 3/14/2013 1:20:33 PM

Hi am john 30 from huddersfield looking for some funn

Ah yes, fun. I remember that.....

I had some once, but I seem to have lost it.

I think Lidl sells it though.

HTH
 lightstar1
Joined: 2/21/2012
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Posted: 3/14/2013 1:20:53 PM
Hi John.....you are tonight's lucky winner ..........it's your turn in the barrel..............

 maverickgirl69
Joined: 8/18/2010
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Posted: 3/14/2013 1:45:37 PM
I guess the difficulty is knowing whether or not someone is being honest opr just saying what you want to hear just to charm the pants off you....

No it wouldn't put me off - we have all been there and as the second poster says surely a date can lead to an intimate encounter which could lead to a long and lasting relationship. Or a date could lead to an intimate encounter and then nothing more. or a date could lead to a long term relationship. Or a date could lead nowhere. or a date could lead....

The point is that surely dating could lead to anything - as long as the two adults concerned are honest about what they want and both want the same thing why would anyone be put off? I don't understand why people get so hung up about other people's pasts.
 Lusipher
Joined: 9/7/2010
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Posted: 3/14/2013 2:07:48 PM
If some girl wasn't interested in me, because I used to **** around before I made an approach on her... Well so be it.

I think it's a pretty ridiculous stance for them to take, but they should do what they feel comfortable with.

In the same way that I wouldn't be put off a girl, just because she's had a few sexual partners, I wouldn't be put off them because they used to be just interested in getting a shag.
 AthenaMarina
Joined: 10/29/2012
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Posted: 3/15/2013 3:41:15 PM
Sorry I mean not Lusipher,
I mean the person insulting him?
Wow Lusipher you reacted better than I did well done!
 TheRe-SownRose
Joined: 2/3/2013
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Posted: 3/15/2013 3:41:55 PM
^^^^ What the hell was that all about? Can't see that you've said anything that warranted that response Lus.
Some people are perhaps just unhinged.
 kath3962
Joined: 3/15/2012
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Posted: 3/15/2013 3:46:08 PM
What the heck was that about?
Not acceptable on any level at all
 Lusipher
Joined: 9/7/2010
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Posted: 3/15/2013 3:49:10 PM
Meh who knows what caused it and something like that isn't going to bother me.

I shrugged off stronger insults than that, when I was a kid.

But some people like to stick to the classics.

Maybe they'll care to enlighten us at some point... I've no doubt it'll be somethibg "clever"

edit: I am going to find it a bit amusing, if non-chocolatey people get offended by this, when it's not even coming close to doing so with me

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