| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/9/2004 4:22:13 PM | mine commited two fellonys, one against her old boss $600 and one against me for $8100 all check forgery. also lied about her income. resulting in twelve bad checks at $30 bucks per check from our bank and the bank that recieved them. all in all total damage about $3000. lied about taking berth controll resulting in my beautiful daughter ( this ones not a bad thing but still a lie) and the worst thing about all of it is i was the one who paid all of the debt and tryed to keep us together. then i found out (two years AFTER we were married that she had $6000 in credit card debt. so i took out a second mortgage paid all of it off for her and before the ink was dry she split and filed for devorce.
i like to think im not a quitter, but i think its obviouse im an IDIOT | |
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| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/9/2004 6:48:51 PM | | my ex, told me she was pregnant just after we broke up, then after the baby was born, she wrote father unknown on the birth certificate, and a few months later wanted to move out of province. we both were living in new brunswick at the time and she wanted to move to ontario. so she asked me to sign the birth certificate as the father so she could baptize the baby when she moved to ontario. I did, and she moved. 6 months later she filed for full custody and took me for child support from ontario. I couldn't respond to the court because I couldn't afford to go to Ontario to fight it, nor could I get a lawyer there without a big retainer. After the court crap was settled, she moves back to New Brunswick again (maybe another 6 months later again)....this was just one of many many really sh*tty things she's done to me.... | |
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Ruby_
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Joined: 7/10/2004
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| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/9/2004 8:59:26 PM | | goody you got away cheap......She is who she is and she is going to do the same things all over again to someone else. You would be miserable bailing her out over and over again now wouldn't you. So when she comes slinking back one day, think about her motives. | |
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| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/9/2004 11:09:28 PM | My ex fabricated a whole bunch of stuff about me which (she said) led her counsellor to suggest I needed a psychological evaluation before allowing me to have unsupervised access to my daughter. She told me the day before I moved out. I paid for the evaluation ($2700, but worth every penny) which consisted of a bunch of tests, and interviews with my ex and my daughter. It took two months -- which was hard on both me and my daughter because she didn't know why daddy couldn't see her.
Bottom line.... I was cleared for unsupervised access and on the recommendation of the psychologist, SHE (my ex) was court-ordered to have an evaluation done on herself. Turns out she lied and the counsellor she saw in the first placed never even suggested that I needed a psychological evaluation. The psychologist she forced me to see became concerned about HER behaviour (anger, wanting revenge, violence, etc) during the interviews. So now I have custody while she awaits the outcome of HER evaluation. Twisted, huh?
But it's sad because it is so unneccesary, and the one who is REALLY hurting is my daughter. If my ex hadn't been so mean and bitter in the first place, we could avoided the whole thing. She's a good mother and I'm a good dad, but she couldn't just leave it at that. She hit me where I was vulnerable and it bounced back and hit her. So sad for my little girl.
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giji
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Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 6 | |
| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/9/2004 11:26:42 PM | | my ex use to play mind games with me and make me think i was the one doing all the wrong, he use to mentally physically and emotionally abuse me, its been two years and i thank God eveveryday, his out of my life.... it was the worst time of my life if i think about it now, and to think i convinced myself that i was happy, and the tears i cried evdry night was because i hhad issues... well hes gone ive moved on and have a wonderful man in my life:) | |
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yna6
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Joined: 5/2/2004
Msg: 7 | |
| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/10/2004 12:39:25 AM | | let's see....slice me open with a knife, play mind games on me, took everything I had, tried to cut my throat with a broken glass,stuck me with a LOT of bills, tried to take me for support for kids that were not mine, tried to convince me that I was a loser while holding down a fulltime job, even when she started to date some guy on welfare....lots of things been done to me...still here though. Even had them tell the next GF that I was always depressed, down, and needed councelling....yep...they pull all kinds of crap on you.... | |
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LadyO
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Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 8 | |
| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/10/2004 1:03:43 AM | This was after we broke up.
We were still friends, we didn't break up on bad terms. Unless you consider him dumping me twice (twice folks). Once for his friends not liking me, not being able to sleep with me, and me not willing to sleep with his friends. Second time because I "cared too much" about him.
Anyways, I took my computer to his house to get fixed. He lived like a 20min drive from me so I ended up staying the night. He tried to get me into bed with him as "payment" for his services on my computer.
Needless to say he failed, just like he did every time in the two month dating spree we had.
Next day as I'm drinking a cup of hot chocolate, he walks out of his room and starts to bawl bloody murder. I ask what was the matter and he fessed.
When he was dating me he cheated on me with one of his roommates, which I had already peiced together as she didn't have her own room and he admitted that she slept in his bed (admitted this while we were dating) and that he contracted Herpes from her. He had already spread it to his then current roommate and would have knowingly infected me if I had slept with him.
I dumped the hot chocolate on his head, grabbed my computer and caught the city bus home. (I didnt catch it the night before because it was a Sunday, no bus service after 5pm on sundays)
Thats about the worst thing any ex has done. One long distance relationship probably could have ended with me dead, but that doesn't count. | |
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ousu
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Joined: 8/28/2004
Msg: 9 | |
| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/10/2004 3:16:33 AM | Giji... sounds familiar :) Mine was cheating me from the very beginning, and I knew it but could not point out anything as evidence. His argument was I am a crazy and paranoid - which made me question whether he is right --> shame and lack of self confidence. When we finally divorced and people started to open their mouths (even one of those women he had had an affair), I felt so much better :p
Mental violence is something very difficult to prove sometimes. To tell lies is like stealing the chance from your partner to decide what is happening in her/his life. | |
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ousu
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Joined: 8/28/2004
Msg: 11 | |
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| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/10/2004 10:58:28 AM | | Hmmm....well he cheated on me while I was in Hospital in labor with our kid. And...left me with CC debt. I think I got off lucky; his next 2 charged him with assualt as he likes to hit girls.I left after the first time he hit me. | |
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| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/10/2004 1:01:49 PM | | My Ex came after me and my son with a crowbar, threatened to slice my throat, cut up my purse,shoes, and clothes, smashed my phone, and the list goes on.... only been since Aug 26... | |
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alura2
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Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 16 | |
| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/10/2004 3:27:13 PM | holy crapola ppl!!!
hmm lets see hit me so hard he left a perfect handprint on my leg...called me every name i nthe book..called me names in front of the kids.Called girls in the middle of the night..went accross the lawn to speak to them thinking i couldnt hear him..( yah right) insisting that they were his "friends" and they needed to talk.
A year after separating and he almost died in a car crash...he insists he changed. He SAW THE LIGHT. I stupidly decided to give him "one last chance" for our kids sake. After a good week he was over at my house one night and his phone rings.He leaves quickly..saying its important.
5 pm the next day i meet his mother at the door as im gettign my kids.He had snuck in his ex girlfriend in to his room and they were caught at 5 am in the hallway.My mom in law threw her out yelling at her all the way.
SO...IN THE END HE CHEATED ON ME.THE FLUNKEN BASTARD.
So i hate him with every fibre of my being...and it took me quite a while to get over the shock and the personal beating i was giving myself for being such a retard and giving him that chance. | |
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| whats the worst thing your ex has done to you
Posted: 11/10/2004 3:49:52 PM | i only had one bf that was such a **stard. i gave him an ultimatum to quit cheating or leave. he started beating the hell out me for it time after time and burned my body for it (thank god no scars) and d*mn near broke my nose and well you get the picture tried choking me always retaliating with physical violence when someone stood up to him.
one night after the worst beating (looked like nicole brown long before that was a household name) and i finally called the police and this was before we had domestic violence laws. the cops tried to talk me out of pressing charges and the paramedic guy was in tears at my sight and begged me to file. i did and the guy went down on a first degree felony.
any of you ever see that movie often aired on lifetime movie network about the tracy thurman story? mine was a lot like that, but thank goodness it didn't go as far as what happened to that poor woman. there's no excuse for that kind of sh*t ever. | |
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