| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/10/2004 11:59:43 AM | | Been talking to this guy since before I moved to CO and we were going to meet when I got into town and hang out and what not so he could show me the town. He would tell me how he wanted to just hold me and kiss me which I thought was nice. Well today when I meet him he is wearing a wedding ring. What is up with that? His profile says he is single. Grrr men. lol | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/10/2004 12:16:11 PM | Men aren't the only ones that pull that trick babe. Sucks when they can't just be upfront and honest these days. I've never understood how someone believes they can actually get into a relationship on a lie. How can you ever form a relationship when the entire thing has been based on a lie?
Sorry you had to deal with that, but don't give up on dating because of that guy. We aren't all that bad.
~Gotta Luv Me~
G.
P.S. We're probably worse in different ways. lol | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/10/2004 1:21:19 PM | Well to be fair, he could be on the way out. I once knew a woman who got involved with a man while he was still married - he didn't love his wife anymore and they were still together because of the kids. When he met her, he moved out and they lived together for a while before finally getting married.
So a quick gander at the ring and a "hey. whuddupwiddat?!" is in order. But yea, keep your options open.
And um... you really live up to your name. Wow. What a picture. Wish I lived further south.
Ok, I'll compose myself now.
sorry. | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/10/2004 3:21:47 PM | | Hey cutie... don't cry too hard, I've been trying to get you to write me for what 3 weeks now and still nothin!!! looks like you know how to pick em!! | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/12/2004 2:27:57 AM | Don't married men who are trying to cheat on their wives usually take off their ring?
Maybe he is new to it. Did you ask him about it? | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/12/2004 7:24:42 AM | | Yes Yes I am an idiot lol For some reason I thought married people wear the ring on the right hand and not the left and his ring was on the right hand. Well someone told me it could be him just switching the ring over so I didnt know, so I asked him. Turns out it was a Lord of the Rings Edition Ring. lol | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/12/2004 11:30:20 AM | | I dunno if I am going to see him again, I dont think he is too happy with me right now but we shall see how it goes. | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/13/2004 3:45:43 AM | All you had to do was to cut of his finger with the ring and he wouldn't be wearing one anymore | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/13/2004 6:23:56 AM | that would be so totally his loss it's not even funny.
ok, well maybe if he wore a bunny suit, it would be funny.
I know I'd laugh. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2004 7:12:20 AM | I thought it said: Met my first POE member today,,, I was like- what?
Well at first the experience seemed really nice...and cute. But then I saw the ring part and I was like- what?! Maybe he just likes to wear rings on that finger or something,...who knows! | |
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Posted: 11/13/2004 10:19:07 AM | | those darn LOTR rings they are breaking people up left and right | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/13/2004 7:21:32 PM | Are you sure he's married?
Did you ask him?
Sometimes people who are separated or
(And this si all teh imew- widowed!) will not
take off the ring so fast.
If you asked him and he said he was but ...(excuse)...
It is up to you to get up and walk out!
Evan | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/13/2004 8:41:42 PM | | He'd be crazy not to want to see you, if YOU took the initiative; we do all make mistakes and I think most decent people can get over those wee errors in perception and judgement. Ever get up to Canada? | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/14/2004 8:56:50 AM | | So why is he not happy with you right now? Because you thought he was married? Because you (shudder at the thought) don't like Lord of the Rings? What's the deal? | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/16/2004 2:55:05 PM | | alright, I've seen a lot of advice given in the forums from women to men, but know i feel it is time a reveal some of the secrets of the human male. There are a lot of nice guys out there, but rarely do they talk about just wanting to hold and kiss someone right of the bat, maybe after a long period of dating seriously, but not right away. If you hear this to soon, it's probably because he found that it works and has or is using this line of several women. Don't trust a guy that sounds to "sweet", we are rough around the edge's by nature, so if you find one that's to smooth to be true, he's probably been working that angle for a while. Stay tuned for more up to the date info on POF forums with Mikey.... | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/17/2004 4:46:45 PM | Ok, if not taking in the consideration that someone is married or not, how does someone fall for another "online, over the phone etc" without even meeting first?!?!?
I just find too many people from online communities are much too TRUSTING. I don't just throw around words of affection or become friends instantaneously with someone I just met. Friendship is earned. | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/17/2004 5:08:59 PM | Call him up and explain asimple misunderstanding can always be over looked. But if you don't fix it now it won't ever get better trust me. Good luck. | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/26/2004 1:15:02 PM | | well to date he doesnt call or really talk to me anymore, so i guess i messed things up. oh well time to go back to fishing :) | |
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| Met my first POF member today
Posted: 11/28/2004 9:46:31 AM |
if he starts referring to it as "my precioussss", run.
to d*mnnn funny
- if the he cant understand you made a mistake - think of all the times later if you make a oppsss- i say talk to him but if he starts to harp on you making this mistake - then move on ...
LOTR lmao | |
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